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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Why is it a problem | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Really ? I'd find it quite refreshing not to have to mind read  | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" I’m what way you will have to demonstrate | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle I’m what way you will have to demonstrate" Demonstrate? | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" I find it very refreshing and also extremely helpful | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Actually, yes. It's not so obvious in the first instance as all men will go yeagh I want that and this. But it is a bit like driving a car. Everybody can be a passenger, but driving requires skills. So when it comes to action, they don't know what and how, they can stress out or quite simply they think they can accommodate the lifestyle, but in reality they can't because of hidden wifes, girlfriends, etc. | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business." Spot on about how sexualised women "should" be! Some men clearly think this = pornstar, when usually it means a woman knows what she does and DOESN'T want, what's not acceptable, they know the route to their own pleasure etc | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business." Spot on about how sexualised women "should" be! Some men clearly think this = pornstar, when usually it means a woman knows what she does and DOESN'T want, what's not acceptable, they know the route to their own pleasure etc | |||
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"Had a few men run off when I’m open and honest and they said they was too" Now I want to know too...what is that you scared them off  | |||
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"Had a few men run off when I’m open and honest and they said they was tooNow I want to know too...what is that you scared them off "Just general fab chat lol pegging .group sex .bi stuff | |||
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"I guess it depends really. What exactly were you sharing with them ? And what kinda relationship did you have with them ? " Just being honest in what I’ve done and they said they where open | |||
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"I definatly can handle it in fact I crave it " Good to know | |||
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"Had a few men run off when I’m open and honest and they said they was tooNow I want to know too...what is that you scared them off
Just general fab chat lol pegging .group sex .bi stuff"They might just not be into that. They also might prefer discreet women. | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" If it’s a sexy build up, putting in teases of experiences etc then yes it can be extremely hot! Not all in one go though 
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"Had a few men run off when I’m open and honest and they said they was tooNow I want to know too...what is that you scared them off
Just general fab chat lol pegging .group sex .bi stuff
They might just not be into that. They also might prefer discreet women. "I wouldn't say general fab chat as OP described was being indiscreet. | |||
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"Are we being sexually open when we visit grandma in her retirement home? Time, place, context "  | |||
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"Had a few men run off when I’m open and honest and they said they was too" Everyone is open minded and honest until somebody starts talking at length about the last bisexual gangbang they went to, and how much they want to go to the next one and see you get pegged by a 'proper' man. | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle If it’s a sexy build up, putting in teases of experiences etc then yes it can be extremely hot! Not all in one go though
It was the Dailed down stories and in baby steps
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle If it’s a sexy build up, putting in teases of experiences etc then yes it can be extremely hot! Not all in one go though
It was the Dailed down stories and in baby steps
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"I scare the shit out of a lot of guys! It’s Totally nothing to do with us women who have no filter, whatsoever - some just don’t know what to make of it! I think so many people come on here out of curiosity, thinking it’s just straightforward sex, but we are a complex bunch of sexy folk who know what we want, and what not to ask! Haha!" I agree, do I change or stay the same | |||
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"I scare the shit out of a lot of guys! It’s Totally nothing to do with us women who have no filter, whatsoever - some just don’t know what to make of it! I think so many people come on here out of curiosity, thinking it’s just straightforward sex, but we are a complex bunch of sexy folk who know what we want, and what not to ask! Haha! I agree, do I change or stay the same" Don’t change. Keep being true to you and the players with similar experience and vibes will Eventually find you. Sexy women who own their shit should be put on thrones and worshipped in my books! | |||
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"I scare the shit out of a lot of guys! It’s Totally nothing to do with us women who have no filter, whatsoever - some just don’t know what to make of it! I think so many people come on here out of curiosity, thinking it’s just straightforward sex, but we are a complex bunch of sexy folk who know what we want, and what not to ask! Haha! I agree, do I change or stay the same Don’t change. Keep being true to you and the players with similar experience and vibes will Eventually find you. Sexy women who own their shit should be put on thrones and worshipped in my books! " Absolutely | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Can’t think of anything better than a woman that can be as open and chat about anything and everything not many women can so it’s very refreshing to find the odd one or two | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business." this.
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As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like.  | |||
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"I scare the shit out of a lot of guys! It’s Totally nothing to do with us women who have no filter, whatsoever - some just don’t know what to make of it! I think so many people come on here out of curiosity, thinking it’s just straightforward sex, but we are a complex bunch of sexy folk who know what we want, and what not to ask! Haha! I agree, do I change or stay the same Don’t change. Keep being true to you and the players with similar experience and vibes will Eventually find you. Sexy women who own their shit should be put on thrones and worshipped in my books! " Thanks hun I will stay same | |||
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"People can still be open minded and dislike certain things when it comes to sex" He was up for things he even asked his bloody friends | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business. this.
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As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like. "Might dail it down | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Wow for me, it's the opposite. I constantly get these explicit sex chats from someone I don't even know anything about including what their face looks like and it's totally off-putting. So for a woman who loves sex chat, I'm really shocked to hear men not really interested in it? Especially being on fab. So many men come on here to talk dirty | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" I find it a big turn on | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business. this.
In theory..
As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like. "Yes again it's men's insecurity that they don't like to know their woman is experienced but expect a woman to be experienced in bed. I think people should embraced their partner can fuck well in bed and have a bloody good time having fun instead of all these hang ups. | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" Wow, you do surprise me, especially on here | |||
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"People can still be open minded and dislike certain things when it comes to sex He was up for things he even asked his bloody friends " Maybe you gave him just what he needed for a wee wank | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" The problem is that there are too many dreamers out there,and they are only used to the timid sex lives they have in their marriages | |||
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"I doubt any man on here is going to dislike a sexually open or experienced women.... But in the wider world there are a lot of men who would feel threatened, either because they feel inferior if you have more experience and confidence than they do. Or they just have very fixed ideas about how sexualised women 'should' be. Also happens the other way around, Mr has had some girlfriends who were really uncomfortable with his prior experience, or uncomfortable talking about sex in general. A lot of people have all manner of hangups, either societal or personal experience in origin. Keeps psychologists and cults in business. this.
In theory..
As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like.
Might dial it down"Don't change. It's their problem not yours. If they can't handle your chat how will they cope with you in person? | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" I would love to find a lady like that. Being open adds to the fun that can be had. Narrow minded isn’t for me. | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle The problem is that there are too many dreamers out there,and they are only used to the timid sex lives they have in their marriages " Agree can’t walk the walk | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" i like a lady that knows what she wants. It's easier than guessing | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" I've found a fair number of men can't handle my openness or experience. They ask lots of questions, wanting to know, but then can't handle the answers. | |||
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"It all kind of depends what and where and when. Pegging in the freezer aisle at tesco maybe a bit too much. Recounting the latest gang bang at the church tuesday evening whist club could be problematic (though some of those old ladies are a lot less innocent than they look!). Some of us are pretty open in many respects but can be squicky about specific things. And yes, there are more than a few men around that find they are nowhere near as liberated as they thought when they meet a woman who has more extensive and exotic sexual experiences than they do." Why can’t peg in Tesco lol | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle I've found a fair number of men can't handle my openness or experience. They ask lots of questions, wanting to know, but then can't handle the answers. " Same and honesty hasn’t worked | |||
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As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like.
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Don't change. It's their problem not yours. If they can't handle your chat how will they cope with you in person?"Shouldn't dial yourself down for any partner, or a life partner. For a life partnership to work you need honesty and openness. A lack of this is where many relationships fail. The other way they fail is discovering you don't really like the person and actually wanted someone else... So all those people wanting an experienced one night stand but a pristine virgin wife are probably also well on the road to ruin. Be true to yourself and find people true to you. Anything less is a waste of time or a fuck buddy. | |||
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".. this.
In theory..
As a one night stand then hell yeah. A sexually vocal woman is ideal. You know what she wants straight away.
Looking for a life partner may be a different story. Men are praised for their sexual conquests where as women are judged. Men have no problem with having multiple sexual partners but when comes to a life partner we like to think she isn't that experienced. Sub consciously we don't want her to have much comparisons to our sexual adequacy. We like to think we are the best she has had.
Most won't admit it but its inbred into our psychology. Hence why we are uncomfortable with taking life partners who have more experience than us and not afraid to voice specifically what they like.
Might dial it down
Don't change. It's their problem not yours. If they can't handle your chat how will they cope with you in person?
Shouldn't dial yourself down for any partner, or a life partner.
For a life partnership to work you need honesty and openness. A lack of this is where many relationships fail.
The other way they fail is discovering you don't really like the person and actually wanted someone else... So all those people wanting an experienced one night stand but a pristine virgin wife are probably also well on the road to ruin.
Be true to yourself and find people true to you. Anything less is a waste of time or a fuck buddy."Glad to see people in agreement with my opinions. But can't help but think what a total hypocrite i am. Considering that my wife doesn't know I'm here. I'm very quick to mention that she is very old fashioned in her opinion and I've tried over and over to tell her about my sexually to no avail yet continue to do what I do. Most embarrassing don't you think? | |||
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"If that's the case it's entirely their problem not yours, you be you and enjoy!" ditto this | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle" On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies " Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know?? | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know??" She is my wife and yes she knows on here | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know?? She is my wife and yes she knows on here" Why no mention of her? Genuinely interested. | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know?? She is my wife and yes she knows on here Why no mention of her? Genuinely interested. " She doesn’t come on this site. Mainly meets with friends at parties. I like thrill of different here | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know?? She is my wife and yes she knows on here Why no mention of her? Genuinely interested. She doesn’t come on this site. Mainly meets with friends at parties. I like thrill of different here" I smell shite...  | |||
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"If that's the case it's entirely their problem not yours, you be you and enjoy! ditto this "Thanks for the comment and yes it is their problem . | |||
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"Genuinely interested to know if men find sexual open minded women to much.had a few times when men haven’t handled my open minded sexual chats /experience to much to handle On occasion yes. When my wife is in one of her moods she is too much for one man. Otherwise love the ladies Straight single male?? Where does the wife come into this? Does she know?? She is my wife and yes she knows on here Why no mention of her? Genuinely interested. She doesn’t come on this site. Mainly meets with friends at parties. I like thrill of different here I smell shite... "Can you be polite please. You have no idea what we do or don’t do so no need to make judgements. Thank you | |||
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