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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They reckon if you ask straight out 100 women if they will sleep with you 2 will say yes unless your a complete idiot. Now if you winked 100 women on here bearing in mind a lot of women ignore winks ,which do you think would be the most successful ?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

oooo its like Family Fortunes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol good answer

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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So if you wink 100 women what result do you want? That you end up sleeping with them? Or they actually message you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If theyd sleep with you, not end up , no conversation involved here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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OK then out of 100 women winked, taking into account you've said no conversation, I reckon you'd end up with 0 women sleeping with you.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

so if ppl say wink ,your gona wink 100 women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes a joke of this site then

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Makes a joke of this site then "

Not really. If all you do is wink at people you're going to get a low rate of return. If you actively message people and make yourself known then your rate of return will (probably) be higher.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Winks are a waste of time on here thats the point im making

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Winks are a waste of time on here thats the point im making"

Not always. I usually check mine and might hotlist a guy for future reference.

But they aren't the best way to make contact with someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you winked someone would you not.like a response either way ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"If you winked someone would you not.like a response either way ?"

Not if they didn't fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Take the option off then would save time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He might hotlist it like you for future reference ?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"If you winked someone would you not.like a response either way ?"

So someone presses one key to send a wink and Im supposed to type 'Thanks for the wink but Im sorry Im not interested' to each one??

Sod that for a game of soldiers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats why winks are pointless

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Makes a joke of this site then "

how did the figure that out... nothing is guarenteed....

if you wanted a guarentee i can point you in the direction of various phone boxes with telephone numbers in it....

just because people like sex, it doesn't mean they like sex with just any person... they are still likely to be as picky....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Take the option off then would save time"

Why? its harmless fun. I wink guys on my friendslist all the time, and they wink back. Its a nice thing to do.

Also a lot of people use it to tell people that they know they are not the type but they like the profile they've just read. Its a nice thing to do.

If you expect women to fall at your feet and beg for sex after a wink then I don't think you've got the right idea about this site. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The point im making is if you wanted sex with someone a wink as an expression of interest on this site in comparison to actually asking someone is less effective

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thats why winks are pointless"

Pointless in your opinion what about everyone else who used winks successfully?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"The point im making is if you wanted sex with someone a wink as an expression of interest on this site in comparison to actually asking someone is less effective"

Well...... yes! Of course it is.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"The point im making is if you wanted sex with someone a wink as an expression of interest on this site in comparison to actually asking someone is less effective"

but not everyone sees winks the same way...

for some they love them...

for me as an example all a wink showed me is that you found the wink button... it doesn't tell me you read my profile at all or have anything in common...

people are always going to have differencs in opinions..

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We would never wink and anyone that we fancied meeting, whats the point half the time people may look at whose winked but thats as far as it goes, send an email if you want to meet them and ask the question, at least if they say no you know where you stand, if they say maybe and put you in a hot list it gets a little better and they might even say yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats why winks are pointless

Pointless in your opinion what about everyone else who used winks successfully?"

Yes - what about us who consider Winking to be a useful tool, and reply to most of the ones that we get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting winked at I also use winks to let people know im interested in them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not saying they arent successful for some people , im saying statisiically your better asking straight out for a single man winking on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The point im making is if you wanted sex with someone a wink as an expression of interest on this site in comparison to actually asking someone is less effective"

That's true because a wink is just (in my opinion) an expression of interest. If a guy winks at us we wink back if we like the look of him and it often starts a conversation. It depends if you want instant results it not. Just because something doesn't work the way you want it to doesn't mean the rest of us shouldn't have access to it though

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Not saying they arent successful for some people , im saying statisiically your better asking straight out for a single man winking on here "

well if winks work for you... keep em going... if it ain't broke, don't fix it

if they don't work for you, change it... simple as....

but if you ask a million people about something i bet you'll get a million differing opinions.....

it kinda smacks of using the least effort you can to gain the maximum reward... as if there is some sort of shortcuts to meets...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Started something there didnt I lol , right im offskis and ive just winked myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They reckon if you ask straight out 100 women if they will sleep with you 2 will say yes unless your a complete idiot. "

Who are they? And based on simply asking that one question, surely most people would think you were a total idiot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks. Oh dear thought it was wanks, specsavers for me , no wonder I was getting no joy!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"Thats why winks are pointless"
sont use them then simple

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