FabSwingers.com forum: Stay for a bit or up and leave?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not one for quick meets

I like to chat, cuddle and relax. Let my / our bodies come down from the high of it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not one for quick meets

I like to chat, cuddle and relax. Let my / our bodies come down from the high of it all."

I'm very similar

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

Stay for a little bit and chat etc...never really been one to shoot and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to chat for a bit. If I don't like someone enough to have a conversation, then I'm unlikely to like them enough to drop my knickers either

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We used to do “cum n go” but as we have evolved in the scene we now much prefer guys who stick around, have a chat, a laugh and perhaps a drink. Often leads to round 2!

Find it quite disrespectful now if they do their bit then bugger off straight away. Even in clubs. We have a nickname for these guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I shot my load I just leave by saying you’re welcome. Don’t have time for all that shizzles

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

"Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do?"

Unless there is going to be a repeat performance and everyone is happy to wait then stay if the fun part is over then leave for the couple to enjoy the reclaim sex

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do?"
if I did private meets I'd not want them hanging around..

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

"We have a nickname for these guys! "

Pandas?

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"We have a nickname for these guys!

Pandas?

Oh, so do you. Great minds!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't be a Panda.. the come down is lovely.. its all too be enjoyed by all..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer to chat for a bit. If I don't like someone enough to have a conversation, then I'm unlikely to like them enough to drop my knickers either "

100% but this is more beforehand, I'm meaning after sex x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We used to do “cum n go” but as we have evolved in the scene we now much prefer guys who stick around, have a chat, a laugh and perhaps a drink. Often leads to round 2!

Find it quite disrespectful now if they do their bit then bugger off straight away. Even in clubs. We have a nickname for these guys! "

Oh what's the nickname lol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I shot my load I just leave by saying you’re welcome. Don’t have time for all that shizzles "

Wow that's bold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do?

Unless there is going to be a repeat performance and everyone is happy to wait then stay if the fun part is over then leave for the couple to enjoy the reclaim sex"

I understand this from a couples point of view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do? if I did private meets I'd not want them hanging around.. "

Wham bam thank you ma'am

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"We used to do “cum n go” but as we have evolved in the scene we now much prefer guys who stick around, have a chat, a laugh and perhaps a drink. Often leads to round 2!

Find it quite disrespectful now if they do their bit then bugger off straight away. Even in clubs. We have a nickname for these guys!

Oh what's the nickname lol?"

Already guessed. Panda. Eats shoots and leaves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the meet type

Some we have for very specific things and others are for the whole nine yards waking up together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick meets don't really do it for me, I have to also have some level of mental attraction to someone I meet off here, I like it if they stay and chat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do quick meets…. Prefer to chat/cuddle afterwards

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Prefer them to stay for a bit.

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Prefer to stay and chat/cuddle etc. All part of the experience

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Depends on the meet. There is a time and place for cuddling, chatting and enjoying the comedown.

There is a time to just fuck and leave.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Prefer to continue as we began conversation and explore further as sex breaks the ice as well, and opens up further chemistry. So a lovely spoon whilst chatting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick meets don't really do it for me, I have to also have some level of mental attraction to someone I meet off here, I like it if they stay and chat x"

I agree very important IMO x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never do quick meets…. Prefer to chat/cuddle afterwards "

It's a must!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prefer them to stay for a bit."

Kiss and a cuddle?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the meet. There is a time and place for cuddling, chatting and enjoying the comedown.

There is a time to just fuck and leave."

When's the time to just fuck and leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yess the reclaim sex is what we have them leave for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the meet for me. Some guys I want to just use me and fill me and others I want the full boyfriend experiance for an evening. Different vibes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave for me

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Depends , strangers it’s usually leave , maté’s might stay a bit , depends on the situation really !

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By *leased2meetUMan
over a year ago

manchester

All depends which stop the bus is at when we stop fucking really

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Ladies do you prefer if men stay for a bit after sex? Or for them to get out ASAP?

Men what do you normally do? if I did private meets I'd not want them hanging around..

Wham bam thank you ma'am"
yup , which is why I don't do private meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up and leave for us x

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Up and out the door if I don't know you. Stay and shoot the shit for a bit if I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the sex has been relaxed and fun then stop and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is and how good the sex was.

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