FabSwingers.com forum: Fab three years on...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Following on from a number of other threads recently about single males, time wasters, the lack of reliable meets etc.

From my point of _iew the site has evolved into a very different place from the Fab I joined over three years ago.

In those three years I have met some lovely guys, had lots of fun and in 99.9% of cases remained good friends with the guy's I've met. I haven't met hundreds of guys but the meets I have had have all been relaxed, go with the flow affairs, none of high demands which seem to be commonplace today (except for the obvious Safe sex)

If I were to arrange a meet with someone new and was confronted with the huge lists of do's and don't's which seem to be the norm these days when it comes to arranging a meet, I would simply think sod it, I really don't need the stress!

Today I should have had a meet with a long standing Fab friend but it turned out he was tight for time due to a prior sports engagement. Ok I'm sad that we didn't get to meet up as I was raring to go lol

but it was a joint decision to call the meet off, no hard feelings, no getting arsey, no blocking on here, no reporting to admin.

And yes I have a few do's and don't's of my own, there is nothing wrong with being choosy.

Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

Don't understand this post at all. You Contradict yourself on your main point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't understand this post at all. You Contradict yourself on your main point."

Sorry I assumed that my three general preferences height, age and unattached would be easily spotted and pointed out as "Pot, kettle, Black etc"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

I think there are quite a few people for which this site is very important, and when things go wrong take it very personally. Its hard not to.

The thing to remember is that Fab is not the be all and end all of life. Life should be full of stuff to do, then Fab adds the naughty spice to it.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

I think there are quite a few people for which this site is very important, and when things go wrong take it very personally. Its hard not to.

The thing to remember is that Fab is not the be all and end all of life. Life should be full of stuff to do, then Fab adds the naughty spice to it. "

Thats the best way to look at it - and is the approach I take. Unfortunately, too many people see the site as an extra leg that they depend on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

I think there are quite a few people for which this site is very important, and when things go wrong take it very personally. Its hard not to.

The thing to remember is that Fab is not the be all and end all of life. Life should be full of stuff to do, then Fab adds the naughty spice to it.

Thats the best way to look at it - and is the approach I take. Unfortunately, too many people see the site as an extra leg that they depend on."

I won't say people are bad for feeling that way. I can't help but be upset when I am stood up or my arranged meet goes up the swanee without knowing why. But there's always something else to do.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Lighten up folks, Swinging is fun, if you let it be...

I think there are quite a few people for which this site is very important, and when things go wrong take it very personally. Its hard not to.

The thing to remember is that Fab is not the be all and end all of life. Life should be full of stuff to do, then Fab adds the naughty spice to it.

Thats the best way to look at it - and is the approach I take. Unfortunately, too many people see the site as an extra leg that they depend on."

I like the middle leg best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think your right.

when i see a massive list of requirements i just realise straight away im not what they are looking for.

christ sake i just want fun.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

as the world becomes more demanding, people may have a lot less time to play and this drives some of the demands....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not be here over 3 years after I joined FAB in Aug 2009 if I do not like what the lifestyle and FAB could offer.

Yes I have changed in my outlook in life over the years, and have changed how I select potential new playmates which is even choosier than before.

However, I still manage to find NSA fun with like-minded peeps now and again. It suits me fine and I am here to stay for the foreseeable future.

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