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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what does this mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla sex (or conventional sex) is a description of what a culture regards as standard or conventional sexual behaviour. Different cultures, subcultures and individuals have different ideas about what constitutes this type of sex. Often, it is interpreted as sex which does not involve such elements as BDSM, kink, or fetish activities. as quoted from wikipedia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in other words "normal" or plain

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By *on-bazCouple
over a year ago

rushden

Non swinging friends.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

or boring

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

People often use the term Vanillas (or sometimes 'nillas) to refer to people who are outside the swinging life.

So for example a 'nilla date or club or party is one that you would encounter in your non-swinging life. And 'nillas could be friends, colleagues, family and any and all people including one night stands pulled on a boozy night out with your mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has in ...lights off and pull nightie down after you've finished sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or boring "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in.... my ex wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or boring "

i dont agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"or boring

i dont agree"

Nor I. Just because it's not what you like doesn't mean it's boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't need to be "kinky" to be fookin great sex, vanilla sex with lots of passion works just as well in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or boring

i dont agree

Nor I. Just because it's not what you like doesn't mean it's boring."

Nor me, i like vanila and dirty, variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or boring

i dont agree

Nor I. Just because it's not what you like doesn't mean it's boring."

If used in pc terms ( yes us geeks use it too ) it means plain or basic its not just a sex term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't need to be "kinky" to be fookin great sex, vanilla sex with lots of passion works just as well in my opinion "

Thank you i was gonan type this but u saved me to it yay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"or boring

i dont agree

Nor I. Just because it's not what you like doesn't mean it's boring."

Absolutely, sex can never be boring. Well, I've never found it boring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so this means we are Vanillas 80% of our time, as we are only " kinky swingers " now and then to spice things up.

Swinging to us, isnt the icing on the cake, its the cherry, and as you all know, you dont always need a cherry to have great cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanx for clearing that

i like rough dirty and now just plain old vanilla

much appreciated, much more interesting way to find out than just googling it x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"what does this mean?"

Although it can involve ice-cream.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"or boring

i dont agree

Nor I. Just because it's not what you like doesn't mean it's boring."

Me three. The best sex I ever had was in a vanilla relationship.

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire


"I love cake. "

Who mentioned cake? Give me cake!!!

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