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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help?

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

Nah, it's not a big deal, there's so many other ways to have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deepthroat isn’t everything to me, personally.

What matters to me when getting head is the believability/conviction and passion more than anything. And of course a really wet mouth and lack of teeth helps to go a long way.

I prefer getting my balls licked and rimmed more if I’m being totally honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

Nope, not a bad thing at all, but it sure is fun to try.

I'm not 100% sure that there is anything that you can do to get past the gag reflex, so maybe they should just be grateful you put it in your mouth in the first place! Or find other ways to have fun.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no i am not obsessed with it,, its nice when a lady just works the head of my cock,,

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By *ugeDRyanMan
over a year ago

London


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

Not a missive thing though, it’s cool seeing your cock disappear down a woman’s throat from time to time but I’m good with the head being sucked and then use your hands for the rest.

Also gagging on it is quite hot, so dw about the gag reflex

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

Meet men who aren't obsessed about it

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By *oungman1875Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

I do enjoy a women deepthroating me but if she can’t do it, I don’t force them to do it, I respect the rules agreed when meeting others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don’t mind either or, think there’s lots more fun to have when someone doesn’t deep throat than when they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't important at all. The most sensitive part of a cock is the head (or just below it). You can do more with your tongue or mouth there than you will ever do deep throating it.

Don't try and force it and don't worry about it.

Well that is my perspective.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have actually met a man that likes teeth involved. Everything I ever learnt went out the window with that one. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a lot easier said than done. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You and men like you are exactly the reason I asked that question..you say you dont mind not but then come out with the fact you do like it and want a girl to gag. Contradiction at its finest. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Damn and I've been replying without quotes. Sorry guys. Not with it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice makes perfect sis.

enjoy

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Not a problem for me if you do or you don't, whatever your happy to do is fine and anyone pushing you to do more is an idiot. Just being with a lady who want to be with me is enough and each person has their own likes and dislikes.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

I dont think so...a blowjob is a blowjob...i think it don't matter id is deepthroat or not..my opinion

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Genuinely. I've never met a woman who can do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried but failed. Might be possible with a smaller cock to play with though!

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

I don’t think as many people can do it as people assume

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I can't do it either unless it is a small dick. Someone told me before it is easier if you have had your tonsils removed but not sure how true that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard that if you grip your thumbs that helps, sadly I was too caught up in the moment to remember that to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally hate deep throat.. The lips and mouth are controllable and pressure is varied. The throat is none of these things, I've actually had my cock damaged by women attempting it. Plenty of lubricated manual assistance with application of lips and tongue far exceeds the effects of deepthroat IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not the most important thing in the world. As long as they can enjoy balls deep on the odd occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

I actually don't like deepthroat. It kind of hurts/irritates my bellend.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

Not an issue for me

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Just cant seem to do it

I like givibg a man what he wants

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

close

It doesnt bother me either way, yes it feels great when it pops down their throat but ive inly ever had 2 women being able to do it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You have to be really relaxed. Lots of practise (such a hardship I know) and you can almost train yourself to be able to deepthroat.

Oh and if you do this weird hand gesture apparently it helps because of reflexes or something?

All that being said, most men aren't that fussed about it. So maybe don't meet SkullFucker92 and instead opt for someone who enjoys oral sex without the gag reflex trials.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It's certainly not an issue with me because, despite having had penetrative sex with over 200 women in my lifetime plus several Bj's and hand jobs, no woman has ever given me deep throat. What you've never had, you never miss.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I'd love to be properly deep throated but haven't found the girl who can yet, but had some bloody good attempts

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

No not a big deal at all, as having consideration and respect for ones sexual partners is far more important and all involved should be happy and safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not a big deal at all, as having consideration and respect for ones sexual partners is far more important and all involved should be happy and safe x"

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be properly deep throated but haven't found the girl who can yet, but had some bloody good attempts "

is my speciality

balls deep and hard (biggest being 10-10.5” and meaty), was a messy affair with slobbering all over it covered in drool and precum but managed to down it with his balls resting on my chin for me to tongue...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Don’t really get any added enjoyment from a deep bkowjob vs shallow end one. It’s my helmet that is sensitive and responsive

Plus I really struggle not to laugh with the slobbering sounds on a deep throat as I find it just distracting. Now sucking on my ballsack that’s much better for me

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think too much emphasis is placed on this. Deepthroat alone does not make for a memorable blow job. If anything, from my experience women who easily deepthroat come to rely on it too much instead of using it sparingly. It detracts from the act and actually makes it boring. My opinion anyway

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I can't do it either unless it is a small dick. Someone told me before it is easier if you have had your tonsils removed but not sure how true that is"

Nope I can’t deep throat and have no tonsils gag reflex is just too strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t really get any added enjoyment from a deep bkowjob vs shallow end one. It’s my helmet that is sensitive and responsive

Plus I really struggle not to laugh with the slobbering sounds on a deep throat as I find it just distracting. Now sucking on my ballsack that’s much better for me "

a blow job is not a proper blow job without worshipping balls as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in fairness, have to monitor the reaction of the recipient and read his reaction to what pleases him mostly, since sometimes a simple sensual kiss & flicking of tongue to helmet etc. is enough to send them crazy and shoot their load...!

is not everyone’s enjoyment but some guys have gone crazy when they’re balls deep inside throat pussy and very much enjoy shooting their load straight into stomach and pull out and have their big dicks polished clean...

each to own...

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

I learnt to deep throat by laying on the bed with my head over the edge whilst my (ex)partner would stand there and I'd go as far down as I could. Each time I got a little further down until i managed to be able to take him all. You do need someone that is respectful enough that when you push them away they'll move back and not get carried away trying to get more.

I love to deepthroat now but i occasionally still gag sometimes when I'm getting into it although I kinda enjoy that feeling now.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No, not at all. Sure, I love having my whole cock swallowed but if someone can't do that, I'm not going to hold it against them or feel disappointed or anything. I'm sure there are plenty of other things you can do to blow your partners mind and empty his balls

LvM

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By *igerMark98Man
over a year ago

Ware

Not at all, for me there’s no senses at the base of my cock all my senses are at the top, I much rather be stroked off and sucked at the same time, feels much better, the only time I like deep throat is when I’m face fucking

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Not a big thing for me. The sound of someone gagging is a real turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman can’t do it then there’s always other options…

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Deepthroat is a bonus if the woman can do it and likes it, but would never ever expect it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never experienced being balls deep in a ladies mouth

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By *ronmant16Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Deepthroat is something I'd love to experience just once as iv not had it done before but it's not something I'd expect all the time just to please me

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No problem at all if not able to. Being on the girthy side I would be surprised if it happened anyway.

Can’t say a bj without deepthroat has ever left me feeling like I’ve missed out on something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love my hard worshiped .

Is seeing the lady’s full happiness that is satisfying. That love for it … that is where it is ..

If she gives u a deep suck but she looks bored like she just came out of work …. That ain’t hit it … making the top sentence deeper then the deep ..

If u wish u could go deeper to satisfy your partner , but u can’t ? Just give it a good wet stretcht with your hand and do your loving magic . Is even better

No deep is not disappointing at all x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a big thing for me.nice when it happens but bjs are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always too busy enjoying my cock being in a girls mouth to be that caught up on deepthroat, it’s my head that gets the most pleasure so I’d rather that be in a mouth with a tongue against it rather than a throat

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley


"Is it a big thing for a man if a woman cannot deepthroat? Does it really disappoint you if she loves giving BJ's but can't deep throat due to gag reflex?

I love cock worship but as much as I've tried I just cannot get past the gag reflex. Men I meet seem to be obsessed with the fact I can't.

Also any tips on what might help? "

Most guys love to be deep throated, but anyone decent will be more than happy with you "working" within your comfort zone.

Do whatever you feel is comfortable...I'd have thought that most guys would appreciate you giving them the pleasure of a blowjob in the first place, and that should really be enough

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