FabSwingers.com forum: First experience and bucket list

By *angoandJuliette OP Couple
over a year ago

Edge of Pleasure Town

What was your first experience with swinging and what is at the top of your “to do” list?

Our first experience was a “failure to launch” with a pushy guy and his unwilling GF, we hightailed it out of there sharply.

We are both hoping for a MMF play with Queen being the centre of attention!

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mine was to find someone who I could totally please in every way she desired?

I did this on my first meet but she wanted a relationship which put a block on things but was after 4 year of really good fun

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Seeing the then GF give a guy a BJ when they didn’t know I was watching, found it horny & spoke to her about it later

2 weeks later we were in at a swinger night at a local, and having some fun.

Not sure what’s left in my bucket list as I’ve been around it the lifestyle many years & tried most things.

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By *arried ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Newark

First experience was at a club. We'd fantasised about threesomes and moresomes for ages, often talking while playing with each other. Then we decided to try it. So we let ourselves be approached by a single guy and fooled around as mmf.

Bucket list? Still unsure if DVP is a fantasy or a wish for both him and her. He wants multiple women fawning over him, though probably would be a bit overwhelmed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was after an MSN chat with an old friend who basically introduced me to the old MSN chatrooms and from there I moved on to go to a club and then meet my ex-wife.

Top of my list at the moment is just to make new friends as well as maybe connect with old friends

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By *hornleeMan
over a year ago

Stockton on Tees

First was a lovely couple from Weymouth, same as started chatting on the old MSM rooms arranged a meet. Was brilliant and that was the first time I'd sucked a man's cock just did it felt like the right thing to do don't know if they've done it previously but was awesome, that was also the first time I'd licked a creampie. Can't get enough of both now

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Our first experience we sinned and had fun with friends!

who are still really good friends luckily lol

We don’t really have a bucket list as such, maybe we will do in the future who knows?!

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Great thread,our first experience was with a great guy who joined us twice,we both enjoyed helga twice and we filmed too....

Now our ultimate and final bucket list/fantasy is a fwb bi lady for mainly helga to enjoy and me to enjoy knowing helga is so so happy, horny and content Xxxx

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We planned ours for maybe 2 years.

L went out in her own. Forgot everything we discussed from photos videos etc.

She enjoyed herself too much and got carried away.

After a couple of weeks i stopped sulking and its all been amazing since...

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ours was a social meet which we followed up with a not so good play meet a couple of weeks later.

Now it just to find a regular couple to spend time with and have fun.

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

First was an unplanned 3aome with a g/f of Mrs Lux who seduces us both over way too many bottles of wine.

Bucket list… well maybe to repeat an unplanned playtime perhaps meeting someone in a bar or on holiday..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still to have a meet on here, would love either to meet a cuck couple, or MMF threesome

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

First was also a non launch but an amazing kisser & great guy, just nervous as it was his first also.

Bucket list is either our first club experience or a hot male stripper takes me from the crowd & uses me

I know which is more likely though

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My first experience was after an MSN chat with an old friend who basically introduced me to the old MSN chatrooms and from there I moved on to go to a club and then meet my ex-wife.

Top of my list at the moment is just to make new friends as well as maybe connect with old friends "

That brings back memories!

I was very lucky with first few meets off here total gents who guided me well, still in touch now with a couple and that’s from years ago.

But my first experience was actually playing an Ann summers game with a couple my then husband and I were friendly with which took an unexpected turn when he accused her of fancying my husband for ages at which point she accused him of fancying me! The friendship kinda recovered after but it took time. I’m still in touch with her they have since split also but nothing to do with this.

It’s a tricky thing to navigate and at that time I had neither the maturity or experience to know how to handle that.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

My first experience (vix) was in a club, hound had been to clubs before... I was apprehensive but excited and trust hound completely but.....

We were in a dark room and I was sucking hounds cock when another cock appeared next to my ear from the darkness. I hadn't expected anyone to wanna join us... I hadn't really thought through all the scenarios before we went... so we left the dark room in a hurry lol.

The next time we went, I was more prepared, we had discussed what we were comfortable with and needless to say I loved it as we now go to clubs as often as we can... and our original boundaries have been stretched beyond recognition lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was with mature neighbours wife in my teens

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

"What was your first experience with swinging and what is at the top of your “to do” list?

Our first experience was a “failure to launch” with a pushy guy and his unwilling GF, we hightailed it out of there sharply.

We are both hoping for a MMF play with Queen being the centre of attention!"

But your profile says not looking for single males? Wouldn't you need one for a MFM

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Still exploring and hoping to build up to having our first swinging experience.

Top of our list is mfmf.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

My first 1 to 1 experience with scarlet was a visit for coffee that moved quickly to her bedroom, but the first with others was at a social event which was held in a club in Leicester and was a total let down (nearly gave up due to a pushy male half of a FB couple). This all changed when a lady friend of Scarlets joined us an hour before checkout in the hotel room. There was a gentle knock at the door and I stood naked behind it open a crack, she asked if she could talk to scarlet and I let her in explaining I was in the state of undress lol. When I closed the door and jumped back in bed she asked scarlet if she could share me with her before the checkout and we had some fun

. I was given my first FMF which is one of my fondest memories of my time with scarlet.

Top of my to do list is to get back into the scene and visit a club again.

Sparks

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

Mine was to try pegging before 40 , it’s actually really rare to find a woman that’s into it, well only two weeks left so I don’t think it will happen

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

First was a d*unk threesome with a friend of Jack that Sasha fancied. Was amazing.

Have done so many things since.

Current bucket list number one for Jack (me) is fucklicking, and Sashas is probably d.p.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

First was with a couple we knew for years was in the lifestyle. Just the 4 of us for a couple of years until they moved to Canada.

Bucket list? Not sure to be honest, happy with what we get up to

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ours was a threesome with a close female friend of ours.

To have sex with a couple on their wedding day is top of our fuckit list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first was with a couple. I knew the guy a little - we often drank in the same pub. One evening he had a few and confided he really wanted to see his Mrs get fucked.....a few days later he watched me playing with her.

Fuckit list- a long slow all day MMF - fucking, sucking, dozing...not rushing. These days always seems to be a time limit!!

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