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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips or pointers how to make friends or even get to meet on here feeling a bit like billy no mates. I know it's hard for single males but please give me a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read all the other 1001 threads about single guys..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That good then lol

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

He is right do a search on here there are 1000;s of posts from single guys asking the same thing, and loads andloads of advice from members on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only looking for women - there are probably over 200 guys to every woman on here , so it's a bit like going into a nightclub and expecting every single woman wants you as soon as you walk in !For a single guy to find a single girl on here is by no means easy - it's not even that easy fir a couple to find the elusive single bi female lol !

It isn't you , so don't take it too much to heart - it's just a simple mathematical problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys I will do that I'm getting a little dis heartened by it all at the moment thought this was ment to be fun all I can see is darkness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It isn't you , so don't take it too much to heart - it's just a simple mathematical problem "

i fucking hate maths

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read some other comments left by other single fellas and yes I can see where I am in the grand scheme of things lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally cant understand why people who ask for help and have been verified dont display their verification.It is a hinderence to ur own progress among the countless others who show them.

even if its a cam verification just show it.

not accommodating is a problem to some.

its a slightly repeated pic.

check for local clubs/socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The person that verified me is a guy I used to work with he is also on here and is a bloody good lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The person that verified me is a guy I used to work with he is also on here and is a bloody good lad "

hide it then lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I go on cam regularly and thanks for the advice on pics will try to upload some new ones I do appreciate all the help and advice thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go on cam regularly and thanks for the advice on pics will try to upload some new ones I do appreciate all the help and advice thank u "

ahh good luck..

..maybe tone down the loving aspect...might scare the shite outta women lol..and definitely dont when ur dogging, cum inside her and say "I love u"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok didn't realise I was coming across as a loving kind lol but will bear that in mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changed some bits on my profile as for accommodating think my landlady would have a heart attack as no Partners allowed so swinging would kill her off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed some bits on my profile as for accommodating think my landlady would have a heart attack as no Partners allowed so swinging would kill her off lol "

yeahh loves lost now lol...

ur landladys on the site...met her last week...not bad for an auldyin I'd say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Changed some bits on my profile as for accommodating think my landlady would have a heart attack as no Partners allowed so swinging would kill her off lol

yeahh loves lost now lol...

ur landladys on the site...met her last week...not bad for an auldyin I'd

say"

Thought she was on the quiet lol bet she is a bit of a goer pmsfl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I send out messages maybe I need some help and advice on where I'm going wrong with them as well feel like I'm groping in the dark at the moment lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

And your status asking for regular meets is a no-go. Many do like to meet repeatedly but until you've met once then no-one can say if it's going to be regular.

It also makes it seem that you are only after one fuck buddy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok will look at that as well thank u this is getting easier to sort with good feedback thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a little more laid back in your approach - perhaps a status such as - genuine sensual guy looking for local couple or female to pop my fab cherry - may get a bit more attention .

Lots of us like the newbie - the experience is often so much more rewarding for all parties .

And once you are verified from a genuine meet , it will be so much easier

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't thank u guys enough for the support and help u have given me it really has been invaluable will change my profile in any way that will help me to meet people and make new friends

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