FabSwingers.com forum: Hotwife meets solo

By *uriousblondwife OP Couple
over a year ago

wickford

We both discuss how hot the thought is of meeting people solo & the amazing sex that comes after but also are well aware of the reality if it doesn't match the fantasy, so to the hotwife cpls who have / do / want to do this, how has it gone for yous? Xx

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By *klondon1Man
over a year ago

London

Surely the line up of offers would snake back across the Irish Sea!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done this it is very hot when you’re at work and you get sent photos and videos of what they are doing Xxx

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By *londeHotwife87Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

As we are still very new to all of this, we have discussed the possibility of doing this in the future.

I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

"We have done this it is very hot when you’re at work and you get sent photos and videos of what they are doing Xxx "

Who’s at work?

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland

"As we are still very new to all of this, we have discussed the possibility of doing this in the future.

I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust."

No shortage of offers I’d say xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We do this and when it's good it's easily the most exciting thing we've done in terms of swinging. For me, I'd say the key is not being shy about saying no to someone if the conversation starts to feel a bit less than promising, or you meet and they're not as hot as they had seemed.

We arrange most of these meets through another site (a famous one originally set up to have affairs). A common scenario is that after a lot of chatting, we meet at a hotel bar (we prefer non-local people in this instance) and we all have a drink together and then Alice and the guy go off to the room.

99% of the time it has been incredible for our relationship. It's not always the best experience ever, obviously, but we've met less idiots this way than through trying to arrange mmf on fab.

OP, feel free to ask any questions. I'll invite Alice to contribute if you want to ask her anything directly.

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"As we are still very new to all of this, we have discussed the possibility of doing this in the future.

I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust."

Exactly the same for us, I think further down the line alone meets with someone we have already met would be an ideal scenario for us

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust."

Meets as in socials, or play meets?

We decided not to do this sort of thing with people we have played with previously, as it takes away some of that "meeting with a stranger for sex" sort of excitement. (Not that they are a complete stranger by then, but in terms of undressing, experiencing for the first time, etc...)

Of course, everyone and every couple are different and you'd need to do what feels good and safe for you.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Our experiences have been slightly different in that we tend to build up a relationship with a guy/bull initially and then it leads onto a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, nights out, stop-overs,etc.

Most satisfying if you find the right guy/bull.

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By *istress Spank and SissyCouple
over a year ago

"As we are still very new to all of this, we have discussed the possibility of doing this in the future.

I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust.

Exactly the same for us, I think further down the line alone meets with someone we have already met would be an ideal scenario for us"

Yes we will be looking along these lines, Mistress played with one guy while I was at work which I enjoyed pics etc but 2nd time I was at home and she was at his again pics and videos which was hot but it went silent and lost its allure to me so will be looking for me to be present for initial few meets from now on I think

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Best thing we ever done. Had a few 3somes, she liked him and now meets solo two or 3 times a month, hence the little activity on Fab from us.

We have great sex when she gets home and tells me the details.

The hard bit is finding that someone that is suitable

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

"Best thing we ever done. Had a few 3somes, she liked him and now meets solo two or 3 times a month, hence the little activity on Fab from us.

We have great sex when she gets home and tells me the details.

The hard bit is finding that someone that is suitable "

Agree with that, a lot of bulls tend to be married so arranging meets can be quite tiresome on a long-term basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife did this with couples for a while but she stopped after the last couple she played with made her feel like a prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done this a few times.

On a couple of occasions it was with guys we were already fully comfortable with, after meeting a few times before.

On one occasion it was a one night stand, bringing home a guy after a night out.

We thoroughly enjoyed those moments but rejected any opportunities since, as Mrs A prefers it when we're together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done this a few times. It's basically a date night for the wife.

In the past husband has paid for her outfit prior to the meet.

Also booked us our restaurant and on one occasion sat away from us in a bar and was ignored all night. He then had to her a taxi home as we went to our hotel room

Not for everyone but we found it hot

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

sutton

If anyone wants to share their hot wife with me, I’m available

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

It’s the only way I meet hot wives these days. Hubby gets all the videos and photos he wants. A few in my gallery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone wants to share their hot wife with me, I’m available

Tried messaging you

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Have been a bull in a few and others have just been vixens,I'm told the make up sex after is incredible. So it's a win win for all.

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By *londeHotwife87Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust.

Meets as in socials, or play meets?

Of course, everyone and every couple are different and you'd need to do what feels good and safe for you. "

I’m guessing it will kind of evolve for us over time, but we’d want to do a play meet first I’d think too.

Although, we are planning our first club visit(s) in the next few months, so who knows if we meet someone there that we decide to do a solo meet with.

Like you say though, we are all different and it’s about finding what works!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’ve always played alone, then tell hubby the naughty details

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Hello hotwives who play solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As we are still very new to all of this, we have discussed the possibility of doing this in the future.

I think for us, it would have to be with a guy that we’ve had a few meets with first though, to build up that level of trust."

I have just this arrangement with a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve always played alone, then tell hubby the naughty details

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By *uriousblondwife OP Couple
over a year ago

wickford

Alot of different views & its what works for each individual cpl that counts.

Happy hotwifing guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our experiences have been slightly different in that we tend to build up a relationship with a guy/bull initially and then it leads onto a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, nights out, stop-overs,etc.

Most satisfying if you find the right guy/bull."

This would be our ideal option. Not easy though

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

There are some lucky husbands out there

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

We play alone most of the time but we dont discuss our meets in detail after ..what goes on during a meet stays on the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some great experiences being with a married woman on her own (with husband’s knowledge).

There’s a subtle difference of thrill depending on which half of the couple takes the lead in organising it.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

All my meets I go solo. V stays home & I send him videos & pictures. I love it, its like being single for a night & has a feeling of real freedom to do whatever I want.

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Wifey used have a regular that she enjoyed.

And as always the ‘Reclaim’ when she got home was hot, Hot, HOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet solo

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet solo and LOVE ITB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet solo and LOVE ITB

It’s a very horny dynamic, a husband enjoying his wife playing away.

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We have dabbled with the solo meet idea in the past, but only now the pandemic is settling have we been able to finally actually do it! It's been a revelation actually, especially for those of us that have young families and find meeting as a couple challenging.

Since we moved to the USA, we have had to find other apps to find people though. Especially ENM, poly, open. Which feels different, at least in America.

Sexually though, it's incredibly liberating, and the reclaim is phenomenal.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We talk about Sue going solo but as of yet not found a guy local trustworthy and available.. maybe one day it may happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has done this a few times and I’ve the footage . It’s been amazing for me personally . But depends on the meets I suppose and who it is

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

This is how we play in the main due to family.

Lots of photos and videos are sent and often a phone call of L going at it..

Its hot as hell for us both.

Then she comes home throughly used dripping wet and tells me every little detail.

I cum without stimulation most times.

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By *uriousblondwife OP Couple
over a year ago

wickford

Very hot

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Most satisfying if you find the right guy/bull.

This would be our ideal option. Not easy though

It’s not easy, but we’ve found one or two guys/bulls over the years where this dynamic has worked well for all concerned.

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wife has done this with a couple of guys who we had met together previously. Did this in hotels and it was great. A real turn on for all.

Then we decided to take it to the next level and meet at one guys house. That ended very badly when the guy continually tried to force p0ppers on the wife despite her protesting. She left. That meet probably gave insight as to why a good looking guy in his 40s was not in a serious relationship for the 10 years we had known him.

So it can be good but even if you know them you have to be careful. It’s pretty much put us off single guys.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Great fun so long as the lady doesn't get too attached. Twice now after meeting couples at my home to reassure him that his wife was playing with a clean, and reliable guy in a safe environment, the ladies would text me and ask if they could come round and play. I thought that these get togethers were with their husbands knowledge, but then the shit hit the fan when it emerged that they had no idea that we were meeting, and it became apparent that the ladies had started to develop feelings for me. So I'm a bit undecided about future solo encounters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both discuss how hot the thought is of meeting people solo & the amazing sex that comes after but also are well aware of the reality if it doesn't match the fantasy, so to the hotwife cpls who have / do / want to do this, how has it gone for yous? Xx"

This is something we've discussed and my wife loves the idea of meeting alone. It's definitely an idea that intrigues me too.

A good connection and trust between all parties is essential though I would say.

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By *ravellerukMan
over a year ago

Burnham

Was something wife and I were just discussing this week as she’s due to go on holiday again. And last time was when it all started, a week of teasing each other while she was aWay got us to the point of trying out Hotwifing, and her meeting alone on her journey home.

Was a very nervous build up, and there’s been hiccups on the way but generally that experience and all since have been incredibly hot

For both of us

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"This is how we play in the main due to family.

Lots of photos and videos are sent and often a phone call of L going at it..

Its hot as hell for us both.

Then she comes home throughly used dripping wet and tells me every little detail.

I cum without stimulation most times."

Sounds very hot

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By *ravellerukMan
over a year ago

Burnham

"This is how we play in the main due to family.

Lots of photos and videos are sent and often a phone call of L going at it..

Its hot as hell for us both.

Then she comes home throughly used dripping wet and tells me every little detail.

I cum without stimulation most times."

That sounds very much like our situation. No time to meet together, but maximise meeting apart. Little FaceTime call doesn’t go amisss too

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

from what i know it happened 3 times my wife alone, huge turn on.

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By *P4SEXMan
over a year ago

preston

Yes, from experience I think this works quite well. It also offers up some exciting scenarios, playing on hubbys mind as he waits in the bar, then gets pics and videos from the room, showing him what is happening.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Trust is the most important thing.

We like to meet prospective play mate's first socially together first if we are BOTH happy then play happens alone.

The guy has to respect the husband and understand that the meet is for him almost as much as it is for her.

I try to stick with trusted friends who understand the dynamics of our relationship and the fact hubby isn't a cuck.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

Always fun and good to send pics and videos of the meet to hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we are very much looking to get into, its a huge turn on for us both

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

My old FB used to have solo meets, I used to 'warm' her up before and finish her off when she returned

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat

This is something we are very much looking to get into, its a huge turn on for us both

I'm sure you won't be short of offers.....

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

"I meet solo

So do I

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

sutton

This is something we are very much looking to get into, its a huge turn on for us both

I’d be happy to help

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