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By *otwifeEmilyUK OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Do most couples attend clubs / events with friends or just go alone?

We have been thinking about giving some a go but we don't know whether it's best to go with a few people you already know or whether to just go it alone! We don't want to be sat in the corner with nobody to talk to haha!

Thanks in advance

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We always go on our own. Go for walks around the club and you should definitely get chatting to people. Also put up a status that you're going, put on "who's nearby" when you're near the club, you'll likely to get messages or winks from others who are going.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's always nice to go to a club when you'll know a few people , but we never want to appear clicky or clingy with people we know . Often you can have a brilliant night if you don't know a soul there, just have to make the effort to talk to people!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Do most couples attend clubs / events with friends or just go alone?

We have been thinking about giving some a go but we don't know whether it's best to go with a few people you already know or whether to just go it alone! We don't want to be sat in the corner with nobody to talk to haha!

Thanks in advance"
we always went alone and just made friends there. You won’t be short of people to speak to trust me!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I'd give the sane advice I give to single guys, go alone, clubs are friendly places, and the hosts will be more than happy to show you around & introduce you to people

A group be it two couples, are harder to approach, people may think it's a pre arranged meet & you don't want others to join you

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We've always gone along on our own and had a great night.

It can be quite daunting to go and speak to random people but everyone we have spoken to has always been really welcoming and lovely. It's well worth just biting the bullet and saying hello to anyone who catches your eye.

We found our local club to be faaaar more welcoming than any other pub etc we've been to and nearly everyone is up for a chat.

We are all there for a good time after all

Best of luck if you decide to head along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do most couples attend clubs / events with friends or just go alone?

We have been thinking about giving some a go but we don't know whether it's best to go with a few people you already know or whether to just go it alone! We don't want to be sat in the corner with nobody to talk to haha!

Thanks in advance"
You will find loads of people to talk to if you put the effort in, no good just sitting there, we understand its a bit daunting the first time.e but remember everyone had those first time nerves. We just jumped straight in and went to the one most local to us and everyone we've met has been great, once you've been a few times you will recognise people and find it just like being on a normal night out x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I go on my own. I find that people are generally very friendly, even if they don't want to play with you

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By *otwifeEmilyUK OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Thanks everyone! Sounds like we just need to dive in to it haha!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks everyone! Sounds like we just need to dive in to it haha!"

You'll be fine. It's natural to be nervous, but the nerves will lessen when you're inside. A member of staff will give you a tour and explain things. Most people inside will be friendly, they're just normal people..but a bit kinky!

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By *irestorm81Man
over a year ago

Richmond/Harrogate


"Thanks everyone! Sounds like we just need to dive in to it haha!"

You’ll be absolutely fine! Just be yourselves, be friendly and polite to folk and try to chat to people even if they might not be potential ‘playmates’

If you’re thinking NE clubs ClubF is friendly, I go as a single man and can chat to people easily enough As well as other things…

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