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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton

I would love to try the club scene but don’t really fancy going by myself….

Would anyone like to come with me one night?

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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton

Anyone?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think women been told not to go with men from fab to clubs. Can't remember why

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You should really go on your own it's much easier to interact with others when you haven't got a stranger tagging along

Most won't want to go with a stranger as if they act poorly it reflects on them

Clubs are friendly places, go with no expectations, don't act like an idiot & you'll have a great time

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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton


"You should really go on your own it's much easier to interact with others when you haven't got a stranger tagging along

Most won't want to go with a stranger as if they act poorly it reflects on them

Clubs are friendly places, go with no expectations, don't act like an idiot & you'll have a great time"

Thanks for the advice x

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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton


"I think women been told not to go with men from fab to clubs. Can't remember why"

Hmmm wonder why

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"You should really go on your own it's much easier to interact with others when you haven't got a stranger tagging along

Most won't want to go with a stranger as if they act poorly it reflects on them

Clubs are friendly places, go with no expectations, don't act like an idiot & you'll have a great time

Thanks for the advice x"

Yes best go on your own. Usually the popular clubs and nights ask you to book well in advance as there's limited spaces. Good luck op

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Might be better going with someone you already know, pop along to some socials around the club you want to go to and make some friends

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go by yourself. I don’t think many people would want to hold your hand and feel like they had to stay with you all night.

They’re not as scary as people think they are.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Just go by yourself. I don’t think many people would want to hold your hand and feel like they had to stay with you all night.

They’re not as scary as people think they are."

Well... apart from the mandatory group BDSM session for all new arrivals

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go by yourself. I don’t think many people would want to hold your hand and feel like they had to stay with you all night.

They’re not as scary as people think they are.

Well... apart from the mandatory group BDSM session for all new arrivals

LvM"

I forgot about our first time having a look in the dungeon. That scared me.

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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton

Thanks haha

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Just go by yourself. I don’t think many people would want to hold your hand and feel like they had to stay with you all night.

They’re not as scary as people think they are.

Well... apart from the mandatory group BDSM session for all new arrivals

LvM"

That's my kind of place though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go alone and be who you are. Dress to impress. Smile (you have a nice one). Assume there people are friendly (because most in the clubs are). Don’t assume that everyone you’re going to talk to is a potential for more. Treat it that you’re going to meet a new bunch of people, get chatting and have a social and then if something more happens then … that’s just a bonus.

And then come back and tell us how it went.

Good luck!

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By *rKingsman OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton


"Go alone and be who you are. Dress to impress. Smile (you have a nice one). Assume there people are friendly (because most in the clubs are). Don’t assume that everyone you’re going to talk to is a potential for more. Treat it that you’re going to meet a new bunch of people, get chatting and have a social and then if something more happens then … that’s just a bonus.

And then come back and tell us how it went.

Good luck! "

Thank you for the advice and the compliment! I’ll see which one is best for me to attend and I’ll let you know how it goes x

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