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"It’s the ‘recently’ that somehow bothers me. Ella. " It was a bit of a shock to me when I was asked to try being a Dom by an ex. To my amazement, I found I liked it. | |||
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"It’s the ‘recently’ that somehow bothers me. Ella. It was a bit of a shock to me when I was asked to try being a Dom by an ex. To my amazement, I found I liked it. " I think what Ella means is, what style of Dom are you? How do you approach negotiation, limits, safe words, aftercare. How do feel about RACK and or SSC? What experience do you have if things go wrong? How do you deal with triggers ? These things are important for us. "Recently" implies inexperience. Sorry. G | |||
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"It’s the ‘recently’ that somehow bothers me. Ella. It was a bit of a shock to me when I was asked to try being a Dom by an ex. To my amazement, I found I liked it. I think what Ella means is, what style of Dom are you? How do you approach negotiation, limits, safe words, aftercare. How do feel about RACK and or SSC? What experience do you have if things go wrong? How do you deal with triggers ? These things are important for us. "Recently" implies inexperience. Sorry. G" Ah ok. In regards to your comments, I would try to discuss the BDSM session with the partner beforehand, and agree safe words etc. | |||
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"We both play switch roles! It’s super fun. " I would certainly agree.  | |||
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"What is it you are wanting to talk about? Your experience, your feelings, where to educate yourself or learn more?" That would be a very concise summary of my aims, yes. | |||
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"Not a couple but I am in multiple D/s dynamics. Did you have actual questions you want answered? " I would say it was more general in nature: general experiences, feelings, what we have learned, new aspects of BDSM I may not have considered. | |||
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"Not a couple but I am in multiple D/s dynamics. Did you have actual questions you want answered? I would say it was more general in nature: general experiences, feelings, what we have learned, new aspects of BDSM I may not have considered. " You're going to need to be far more specific than that I'm afraid. There is very little 'general' in kink. From the experience level I am estimating you are at, there will be a whole load of things you won't have thought of. The only 'general' advise I can give is, whatever you want to do, learn how to do it properly and safely. | |||
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