FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Has anyone noticed this?

Jump to newest
 

By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly just to have a perv and wank

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

One explaination might be that they see someone on their viewed thing and forget who you are or why they didn't respond, then remember again.

Or that you are on the borderline of response and they are weighing it up.

Or that there is something about you that makes you unsuitable for meeting but they still like to rub one out to your pics.

Who knows

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes happens to me quite a lot. I put it down at bey may be interested but not quite ready too meet or interact with me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the internet. People look at something, forget they looked at it, look at something etc.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it happens. I just assume they’re still thinking about it… and try to resist the urge to message in case it’s not welcome

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Goldfish moments!

Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Perhaps they're big fans of Bullseye and are having Look at what you could have won moments?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Oh you lot make me giggle!!! They are all highly likely aren't they?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you actually work out the logic of Fab ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I get too many messages and fatigued at reading them. If their profile or start of message doesn't appeal. It's an auto delete. But no idea why they would bother checking you out later on. For a woman, there's litterly millions of male profiles to view so no idea why they would do this. Maybe really nosey about what you put on your profile, if you're the person who regularly uploads photos or status updates?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I get too many messages and fatigued at reading them. If their profile or start of message doesn't appeal. It's an auto delete. But no idea why they would bother checking you out later on. For a woman, there's litterly millions of male profiles to view so no idea why they would do this. Maybe really nosey about what you put on your profile, if you're the person who regularly uploads photos or status updates?"

We do upload quite often! It's super strange, there's at least half a dozen couples this has happened with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know who looks at me in a daily basis. But when I have looked it’s mostly dudes, that’s why I stopped looking at them that looked at me.

*see, it’s a lot of looking and not much doing!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "

Yeah I do this. I don’t respond when I’m not interested and I’m too busy to reply, or if I get the feeling that turning someone down will result in further “why?” type messages.

Then the profile viewing - I’ll see that person in my recent views/wink history etc. and press on their profile without realising that they are the person who messaged me before.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nothing that mysterious, same people keep coming up in your searches and it’s quite easy to forget who’ve you’ve already looked at, especially so if a profile picture has been changed.

I quite often find until I look at a profile, I can’t remember if I’ve seen them before or not.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

I've noticed that I end up checking out profiles of local people we have met at socials or clubs, that we have no intention of playing with.

But it's generally because we know they are real, so like to see their new verifications as they're probably real people too.

(Bry)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"Can you actually work out the logic of Fab ? "

Fab and logic go together like a chocolate fireguard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "

We get that a lot !

Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?

We get that a lot !

Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol"

What really . You don't appreciate those one liner, 3 word messages.. Well really

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a guy on here that winks at us fairly regularly.

We look at his profile because we are amused and horrified in equal measure by his status and bio updates.

He’s too interesting to block but too angry to contemplate meeting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rFoxAndXeno OP   Couple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"There is a guy on here that winks at us fairly regularly.

We look at his profile because we are amused and horrified in equal measure by his status and bio updates.

He’s too interesting to block but too angry to contemplate meeting. "

Some people are honestly fascinating!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks? "

YES, all the time, I find it very odd but I thought it was just me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uncouplerkCouple
over a year ago

TD


"Oh you lot make me giggle!!! They are all highly likely aren't they? "

It made us laugh lots too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"I want to preface this by saying I'm not complaining, guilt tripping or questioning how anyone uses the site. Just curious!

Has anyone else noticed (or does anyone do this, and can explain why) that you'll wink, mail or otherwise interact with folks in some way, and they won't respond (absolutely not an issue of course) but they'll frequently visit your profile over the following weeks?

We get that a lot !

Better that than the ‘hi, how are you’ meerkat messages lol

What really . You don't appreciate those one liner, 3 word messages.. Well really

"

They make our day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn/Stourport

I’m guilty of this

I fall down the rabbit hole of reading verifications of people we are talking to and then end up nosing at their profile. And it’s like six degrees of separation because you then find someone you’ve verified and end up looking again.

I need to get out more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top