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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Ill hold my hands up and say that I'm a bugger for just deleting messages if I'm not interested rather than sending a reply. I don't get tonnes of messages every day but I do have my son to watch and I don't really get a lot of time to do the whole 'thanks but no thanks thing'

But after reading a few of your posts lately I thought ill try and see it from your point of view (the single man) and do a 'thanks for the message but no thanks because... "Insert reason here"

Well after 24 hours of that I'm reverting back to plan A. Because in general people can't take no for an answer. Lol.

So to the genuine nice blokes who take it on the chin Im sorry but I just can't bear it any more!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree sometimes if u were to reply to everyone u would need to be permenantly glued to the site. And even when u say thanks but no thanks they always come back with something else like but u haven't even seen my eight inch cock.... C'mon when we say no we mean no. Sorry rant over.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Totally agree sometimes if u were to reply to everyone u would need to be permenantly glued to the site. And even when u say thanks but no thanks they always come back with something else like but u haven't even seen my eight inch cock.... C'mon when we say no we mean no. Sorry rant over. "

Or 'can't you just make an exception this once just for me'

Sorry mate, unless you look like brad Pitt its unlikely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree sometimes if u were to reply to everyone u would need to be permenantly glued to the site. And even when u say thanks but no thanks they always come back with something else like but u haven't even seen my eight inch cock.... C'mon when we say no we mean no. Sorry rant over. "

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Totally agree sometimes if u were to reply to everyone u would need to be permenantly glued to the site. And even when u say thanks but no thanks they always come back with something else like but u haven't even seen my eight inch cock.... C'mon when we say no we mean no. Sorry rant over.

"

It's a shame coz you do get the odd one who says 'ok thanks for letting me know!' But they are in the minority x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't get a reply then I might try agin in afew weeks as I know individuals such as yourself do get swapped.

If there's no reply again then I tend to get the hint.

I don't take it personally as, like you say, you don't always have time to respond & if you're not interested then that's fair enough. Some people just aren't. You can't be everyone's type.

That's the point here, isn't it? You can be selective if you want?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I frequently get told it's my loss.

To which I reply that I'll keep a stiff upper lip and learn to bear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like a thanks but no thanks message then I would know not to bother you again. However I completely understand why people don't reply to messages .

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"If I don't get a reply then I might try agin in afew weeks as I know individuals such as yourself do get swapped.

If there's no reply again then I tend to get the hint.

I don't take it personally as, like you say, you don't always have time to respond & if you're not interested then that's fair enough. Some people just aren't. You can't be everyone's type.

That's the point here, isn't it? You can be selective if you want?"

That's good In my book tho like you say having another go a couple of weeks later doesn't hurt. It's when I reply no coz your married/too old/not my cuppa tea but thanks and then get yeah but blah blah x

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"I personally like a thanks but no thanks message then I would know not to bother you again. However I completely understand why people don't reply to messages ."

And it sounds like you'd be one if the few who would say thanks for replying no problem etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when someone deletes a mail i send i do not send another.

even though i like the look of them last thing i want to be know as is pushy.

so a delete is as good as no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard life for some lol

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I hate it when I say no thanks to young/old ,to be told age is just a number lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either respond if for example they are miles away or a cheater or I delete if the message really hasn't been fantastic, like the guy who called me babes three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I either respond if for example they are miles away or a cheater or I delete if the message really hasn't been fantastic, like the guy who called me babes three times "

i wont say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when I say no thanks to young/old ,to be told age is just a number lol"

I got that age is just a number rubbish from several young lads, thank god for the filters

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I hear you ....i have that very same problem sifting through all my messages wondering should I delete them all or reply and get the backlash ...its hard being me

Oh WOW !!! Theres a flying pig lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply to messages and it's a shame some people reply to mine with abuse. I've started saying that I can't at the moment as I'm at work. Having said that I always respect when the reply to my message is 'no thanks'...the bastards

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

In most single guys defense, I've knocked back probably hundreds with my standard message of "Thanks for the joke, sorry you're not my type. Happy swinging x" and have only had 1 or 2 follow up messages of "Why" and not a single abusive reply - any others have been thanks for the response...my numpty filters must knock out the ones that might be abusive seeing as I delete and block if the message doesn't include a joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ill hold my hands up and say that I'm a bugger for just deleting messages if I'm not interested rather than sending a reply. I don't get tonnes of messages every day but I do have my son to watch and I don't really get a lot of time to do the whole 'thanks but no thanks thing'

I totally agree with you on that if your polite and say no thanks some blokes just wont give in which then gets very annoying

But after reading a few of your posts lately I thought ill try and see it from your point of view (the single man) and do a 'thanks for the message but no thanks because... "Insert reason here"

Well after 24 hours of that I'm reverting back to plan A. Because in general people can't take no for an answer. Lol.

So to the genuine nice blokes who take it on the chin Im sorry but I just can't bear it any more!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I either respond if for example they are miles away or a cheater or I delete if the message really hasn't been fantastic, like the guy who called me babes three times

i wont say it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply "no thanks but have fun" then if they get shitty delete it is..lol

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