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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Turn on or turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm indifferent. We won't meet a married man (knowingly) but apart from that it's their business really

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Turn off - not for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

But not for me if the wife doesn’t know

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

married men we find best as they have been house trained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Only if they've been given a good service and run in, plus have a full user manual and MOT.

Otherwise, no. No one needs to be a party to a break up.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Turn on or turn off "
depends if their wife is okay with it... If she is then depends on the guy

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Each to their own

But not for me if the wife doesn’t know "

This really. I’m the guardian of my own morals - no-one else’s - but there’ve been several occasions when I’ve met or exchanged WhatsApp messages with someone supposedly single - only to receive a phone call from a very pissed off wife or girlfriend.

It’s not for me - there are plenty of highly fanciable genuine single guys out there - and I’ve also had marvellous meets with the guy from a couple with full permission to play. Again - all fun with no drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam it, so there are people that meet married men with permission, I'm going to have to start blaming the lack of meets on something else then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is.

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By *omeotango121Man
over a year ago

sussex

Married men are a turn on. Don’t want drama just fun.

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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago

Newferry, wirral

prefer married guys with or without their other half, less complications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married guy here (incoming fire) I just want drama free fun with a women also in my position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm indifferent. We won't meet a married man (knowingly) but apart from that it's their business really"

This is us to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends.

Married men that are cheating, turn off.

Married men who are playing with wife or with permission, I don't mind.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Same position as for married women. For the most part we prefer playmates not to be cheating (don't mind at all if they are in an open thing) but it's not a hard and fast rule.

We've played with attached playmates with permission, and attached playmates without. It's a preference we make no bones about being prepared to bend for the right playmate because ultimately it's their promise to break, not ours.

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By *ew Adventures 75Couple
over a year ago

croydon

Shows how wrong I am …. Massive turn on !!! Sorry not sorry lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't like the thought of emotionally hurting another woman.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Off unless his Mrs knows .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like the thought of emotionally hurting another woman. "

This for me too!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Turn on or turn off "

Guess it depends if you’re married to them!

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Turn on !

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By *ordy73Man
over a year ago

lancashire


"Turn on ! "

Pm ?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are married, we swing, it would be hypocritical for us to say married men and married women do not turn us on.

Do we meet married men, yes, but unless we are meeting a couple the question never arises. We meet men.

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We have met married guys without any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one midlands

Lol

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'm married but have full permission to play solo

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We only swing in clubs, and I particularly enjoy sex with strangers so I never find out enough about the single guys I'm fucking to know whether they are married or not. However I wouldn't choose to meet a married man outside the club environment.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Makes no difference to us. A man being married doesn’t automatically mean he is cheating. And even if he is, that’s his choice and he has to live with the consequences and his conscience.

I’m sure some of the “single” men we have met have not been single.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Turn on

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By *arcosaMan
over a year ago

London

It's been made pretty clear, 99.99% of women won't even look at a married man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask.

If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation?

I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask.

If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation?

I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about "

I dont play with random guys in clubs, all my club meets have been and will continue to be pre-arranged!

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

If they're cheating it's a definate off for us...put yourself in their partner's shoes, you wouldn't like it

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Can't say ot really turns me on though I'll play woth them in clubs only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dam it, so there are people that meet married men with permission, I'm going to have to start blaming the lack of meets on something else then "

make sure you get a note from ya wife and some will meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off.

Karma exists. Plus you don't know the damage you can cause if someone finds out.

On top of that, if they cheat on the person they supposedly love, what dregs are you getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask.

If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation?

I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about "

I always ask in clubs. I'm not cake

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Each to their own. We met married men and will continue to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once."

People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is to short man

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just sex

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By *anchester_subMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No my issue if they are or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chances are this married mans wife has already cheated on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chances are this married mans wife has already cheated on him"

And so what if she has? You or I don’t know that and I still wouldn’t go near a married man! But keeps making justifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duchessb go away you misery we get it you wont go with a married guy your loss no one cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Duchessb go away you misery we get it you wont go with a married guy your loss no one cares "

You realise if you had just said turn on there would be no further comment! You’re the one who wants to justify stuff or accuse others of being judgemental.

And no it really isn’t my loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on.. run out that church and bone me on your wedding day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wife seductions you are my hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duchessb your no ones hero just miserable women type who spoil fab for everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own

But not for me if the wife doesn’t know

This really. I’m the guardian of my own morals - no-one else’s - but there’ve been several occasions when I’ve met or exchanged WhatsApp messages with someone supposedly single - only to receive a phone call from a very pissed off wife or girlfriend.

It’s not for me - there are plenty of highly fanciable genuine single guys out there - and I’ve also had marvellous meets with the guy from a couple with full permission to play. Again - all fun with no drama. "

This!

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Turn on.. run out that church and bone me on your wedding day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Duchessb your no ones hero just miserable women type who spoil fab for everyone else"

You're mirroring her messages. If life is short, Don't make vows to one person. Fuck your way thru the world without having a victim not knowing your dick is being shoved in anything and everything.

Sounds like you need approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An angry woman banging on a hotel door would be a proper turn off so it’s a no from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way, if the guy's married or not it's his business, but a married guy is probably safer and cleaner as he couldn't afford to take anything home to his wife,

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once.

People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else! "

Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off. I have my own reasons and I don’t want to hear any more justifications from people not being honest with their partners. I’ve heard them all.

Do not send me abuse on this view, I’ve had that before also. Multiple times.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once.

People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else!

Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong."

Great false equivalency!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Off. I have my own reasons and I don’t want to hear any more justifications from people not being honest with their partners. I’ve heard them all.

Do not send me abuse on this view, I’ve had that before also. Multiple times."

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By *orders CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Kelso


"married men we find best as they have been house trained"

I certainly am but I know plenty who aren't.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once.

People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else!

Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong.

Great false equivalency! "

Have to agree. A cheat is a cheat. There is no judgement to be made. You may have reasons to cheat, but it doesn't make it morally right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Indifferent, but find a lot just want to turn up, have a quick fuck and go which is a turn off. I wouldn't meet anyone too local who was taken either as don't want to be bumping into them together in the high street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think married women are a turn on particularly if they are cheating.

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

Personally I can’t see many females coming on here and saying they don’t mind married men as they will be absolutely bombarded by all the guys following the thread ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

A married man who is cheating = turn off

A married man who had permission = turn on

I will never knowingly help myself to someone else’s man if it’ll hurt someone. It doesn’t matter how seriously they’re attached, it could be a wife, girlfriend, FWB, anything. If a man has any kind of relationship and playing with me is out of bounds, then I don’t want to. Me getting some dick will never be more important than another woman’s feelings.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask.

If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation?

I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about "

We always ask here and if we met someone in a club we'd ask too ,as some FB couples are married to others.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turn on or turn off "

Huge turn on...but then I'm biased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends if a guy is tall handsome has a six pack ripped physique with a 8 inch weapon I think most women may turn a blind eye

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By *obandruthCouple
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Turned on by the one I married

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation?

"

Because in club they don't know where you live.

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By *ew Adventures 75Couple
over a year ago

croydon


"Turned on by the one I married "

We totally get this hehe

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Will never knowingly play with a married man or woman playing without permission. Had too much drama in the past which ended with the police involved and very nearly ended up in court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An angry woman banging on a hotel door would be a proper turn off so it’s a no from us. "

This. Or finding your address on sat nav then having to explain a black eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... "

It's different asking and someone lying. For me it's about Karna and mutual respect. I think you get out what you give. If I ask and they lie, I'm not responsible but if I'm meeting a partner or boyf knowingly, it's my bad.

I genuinely think if someone is cheating on their partner who they lie to every day, what kind of person am I spending time with.

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

Me & my partner live separate lives she knows that i was in a threesum we live to gether because I can't afford to move same for her I still won't say anything to her about it tho that's my own life now

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

At the risk of offending-turn on.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Turn off, unless the other half knows. I'm not sneaking around for anybody.

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By *arcosaMan
over a year ago

London

So, basically guys, lie. Out of sight is out of mind. I'm up front about my marital status and my reasons for why I'm acting as I am but, obviously, it doesn't do you any good.

So, just lie. Start lying and don't stop until you get what you want. We'll see how clever some of these self congratulatory women really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey I’m married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is. "

Agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, basically guys, lie. Out of sight is out of mind. I'm up front about my marital status and my reasons for why I'm acting as I am but, obviously, it doesn't do you any good.

So, just lie. Start lying and don't stop until you get what you want. We'll see how clever some of these self congratulatory women really are."

I can usually tell when someone is lying.

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By *ewismixedbbcMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is.

Agree with that "

I 3rd that

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

I'm married

I clearly state that on my profile

But I have my reasons,

If you don't want to meet me then so be it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... "

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Hey I’m married!"

Problem is, the wife is more likely to want to join in.

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London


"Hey I’m married!

Problem is, the wife is more likely to want to join in."

That's good isn't it? Her joining in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Hello usemyslutwife - close to you and fit your bill. Msg me

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By *arcosaMan
over a year ago

London


"So, basically guys, lie. Out of sight is out of mind. I'm up front about my marital status and my reasons for why I'm acting as I am but, obviously, it doesn't do you any good.

So, just lie. Start lying and don't stop until you get what you want. We'll see how clever some of these self congratulatory women really are.

I can usually tell when someone is lying. "

Are you sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute turn off! I do not need nor want their baggage nor heartbroken wives again

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By *arcosaMan
over a year ago

London


"Absolute turn off! I do not need nor want their baggage nor heartbroken wives again"

And you don't think there's a load of women hauling a ton of their own baggage? I've yet to meet a single one without a whole shopping list of issues of their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute turn off! I do not need nor want their baggage nor heartbroken wives again

And you don't think there's a load of women hauling a ton of their own baggage? I've yet to meet a single one without a whole shopping list of issues of their own."

Not quite sure that was what the question was about but nice response sweetie

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Some bitter, twisted and self entitled responses.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Big turn-on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. "

Exactly this for me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it.

Exactly this for me too! "

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it.

Exactly this for me too!

Spot on!"

That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it.

Exactly this for me too!

Spot on!

That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it "

I don’t willingly meet attached guys even those playing with permission!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways...

I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it.

Exactly this for me too!

Spot on!

That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it

I don’t willingly meet attached guys even those playing with permission! "

I think I've seen you say that in the past and is one of the reasons I let people know I'm married weather that be on here or if I'm at a club, but would like some ones take on it that does play with the likes of guys like me

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I've met married men, usually find out when they say, "I'd better go, otherwise the missus will wonder where I am".

I never ask.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Neither but the advantage of them is that they'll go back to their wives and hubby is less threatened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's this whole turn on turn off all about haha I thought people just used the search bar until I found this forum

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By *lut4str8Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Big turn on

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South West (Devon, Somerset).


"Neither but the advantage of them is that they'll go back to their wives and hubby is less threatened."

Good answer!

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By *ueenmalaysia9TV/TS
over a year ago

islington


"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is. "

I agree with this 100%

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By *ueenmalaysia9TV/TS
over a year ago

islington


"married men we find best as they have been house trained"

Haha

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