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"Turn on or turn off " depends if their wife is okay with it... If she is then depends on the guy | |||
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"Each to their own But not for me if the wife doesn’t know " This really. I’m the guardian of my own morals - no-one else’s - but there’ve been several occasions when I’ve met or exchanged WhatsApp messages with someone supposedly single - only to receive a phone call from a very pissed off wife or girlfriend. It’s not for me - there are plenty of highly fanciable genuine single guys out there - and I’ve also had marvellous meets with the guy from a couple with full permission to play. Again - all fun with no drama. | |||
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"I'm indifferent. We won't meet a married man (knowingly) but apart from that it's their business really" This is us to | |||
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"I don't like the thought of emotionally hurting another woman. " This for me too! | |||
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"Turn on or turn off " Guess it depends if you’re married to them! | |||
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"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask. If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation? I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about " I dont play with random guys in clubs, all my club meets have been and will continue to be pre-arranged! | |||
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"Dam it, so there are people that meet married men with permission, I'm going to have to start blaming the lack of meets on something else then " make sure you get a note from ya wife and some will meet!! | |||
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"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask. If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation? I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about " I always ask in clubs. I'm not cake | |||
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"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once." People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else! | |||
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"Chances are this married mans wife has already cheated on him" And so what if she has? You or I don’t know that and I still wouldn’t go near a married man! But keeps making justifications. | |||
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"Duchessb go away you misery we get it you wont go with a married guy your loss no one cares " You realise if you had just said turn on there would be no further comment! You’re the one who wants to justify stuff or accuse others of being judgemental. And no it really isn’t my loss! | |||
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"Each to their own But not for me if the wife doesn’t know This really. I’m the guardian of my own morals - no-one else’s - but there’ve been several occasions when I’ve met or exchanged WhatsApp messages with someone supposedly single - only to receive a phone call from a very pissed off wife or girlfriend. It’s not for me - there are plenty of highly fanciable genuine single guys out there - and I’ve also had marvellous meets with the guy from a couple with full permission to play. Again - all fun with no drama. " This! | |||
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"Turn on.. run out that church and bone me on your wedding day." | |||
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"Duchessb your no ones hero just miserable women type who spoil fab for everyone else" You're mirroring her messages. If life is short, Don't make vows to one person. Fuck your way thru the world without having a victim not knowing your dick is being shoved in anything and everything. Sounds like you need approval | |||
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"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once. People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else! " Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong. | |||
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"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once. People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else! Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong." Great false equivalency! | |||
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"Off. I have my own reasons and I don’t want to hear any more justifications from people not being honest with their partners. I’ve heard them all. Do not send me abuse on this view, I’ve had that before also. Multiple times." | |||
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"married men we find best as they have been house trained" I certainly am but I know plenty who aren't. | |||
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"People just having fun man dont judge other peoples situations. We only live once. People judge that’s human nature and nothing wrong with people not wanting to be a party to hurting someone else! Yes and lynch mobs hanged people withouth a trail, judging people without knowing all the facts is simply wrong. Great false equivalency! " Have to agree. A cheat is a cheat. There is no judgement to be made. You may have reasons to cheat, but it doesn't make it morally right. | |||
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"Tbf if you've been to clubs and met people 95% chance you've played with a married man. You didn't know because you didn't ask. If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation? I'll leave these two questions here for you to think about " We always ask here and if we met someone in a club we'd ask too ,as some FB couples are married to others. Miss | |||
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"Turn on or turn off " Huge turn on...but then I'm biased | |||
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" If you didn't ask in the club why do you need to ask out of a club situation?? If it's ok to fuck with them and to not know in the club why isn't it out of club situation? " Because in club they don't know where you live. | |||
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"Turned on by the one I married " We totally get this hehe | |||
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"An angry woman banging on a hotel door would be a proper turn off so it’s a no from us. " This. Or finding your address on sat nav then having to explain a black eye. | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... " It's different asking and someone lying. For me it's about Karna and mutual respect. I think you get out what you give. If I ask and they lie, I'm not responsible but if I'm meeting a partner or boyf knowingly, it's my bad. I genuinely think if someone is cheating on their partner who they lie to every day, what kind of person am I spending time with. | |||
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"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is. " Agree with that | |||
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"So, basically guys, lie. Out of sight is out of mind. I'm up front about my marital status and my reasons for why I'm acting as I am but, obviously, it doesn't do you any good. So, just lie. Start lying and don't stop until you get what you want. We'll see how clever some of these self congratulatory women really are." I can usually tell when someone is lying. | |||
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"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is. Agree with that " I 3rd that | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... " I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. | |||
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"Hey I’m married!" Problem is, the wife is more likely to want to join in. | |||
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"Hey I’m married! Problem is, the wife is more likely to want to join in." That's good isn't it? Her joining in? | |||
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" " Hello usemyslutwife - close to you and fit your bill. Msg me | |||
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"So, basically guys, lie. Out of sight is out of mind. I'm up front about my marital status and my reasons for why I'm acting as I am but, obviously, it doesn't do you any good. So, just lie. Start lying and don't stop until you get what you want. We'll see how clever some of these self congratulatory women really are. I can usually tell when someone is lying. " Are you sure? | |||
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"Absolute turn off! I do not need nor want their baggage nor heartbroken wives again" And you don't think there's a load of women hauling a ton of their own baggage? I've yet to meet a single one without a whole shopping list of issues of their own. | |||
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"Absolute turn off! I do not need nor want their baggage nor heartbroken wives again And you don't think there's a load of women hauling a ton of their own baggage? I've yet to meet a single one without a whole shopping list of issues of their own." Not quite sure that was what the question was about but nice response sweetie | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. " Exactly this for me too! | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. Exactly this for me too! " Spot on! | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. Exactly this for me too! Spot on!" That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. Exactly this for me too! Spot on! That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it " I don’t willingly meet attached guys even those playing with permission! | |||
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"I genuinely wonder how anyone would know if someone was married though? Someone could say they can accomadate but favour hotel meets due to kid commitments at home. Not everyone wears a wedding ring for the tell tale tan line. People can easy face time from work/home alone. Maybe their partner works nights so they can chat all hours. Some folk use works phone, or hide notification pop ups so still chat on telegram/whatsapp. Some people prefer kik anyways... I only meet guys who accom in their own homes so I don’t have any flexibility on that front for any excuse whether it genuine or not. I’ve met married/attached guys in the past and the whole situation is just boring to me. Aswell as the risk of being the target of a hate campaign and I don’t really want to hurt anyone if I can help it. Exactly this for me too! Spot on! That makes a lot of sense not wanting to hurt anybody and is why I steer clear of women that are cheating, but say the guy has permission but before he can accommodate his wife would like to meet you would you be willing to say go for a coffee with them both before the actual meet when the wife was not home, I know it's a little off topic just wanting others take on it I don’t willingly meet attached guys even those playing with permission! " I think I've seen you say that in the past and is one of the reasons I let people know I'm married weather that be on here or if I'm at a club, but would like some ones take on it that does play with the likes of guys like me | |||
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"Neither but the advantage of them is that they'll go back to their wives and hubby is less threatened." Good answer! | |||
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"I don't care if he's married or not. Same with married women. As long as you don't bring me drama, I don't care what your marital status is. " I agree with this 100% | |||
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"married men we find best as they have been house trained" Haha | |||
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