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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So thinking about going to butlins, newbies, mf couole, shy etc, help????!!!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Help with what. Butlins adult weekenders are just a big party weekend. Fancy dress. Live music and Dj’s and drinking. Lots of drinking lol. Dancing. Plenty of friendly people.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Near Birmingham


"Help with what. Butlins adult weekenders are just a big party weekend. Fancy dress. Live music and Dj’s and drinking. Lots of drinking lol. Dancing. Plenty of friendly people. "

Agreed!

We went just the 2 of us in June and had a fabulous time. There are usually chats before if you are worried about being on your own (we didn't bother).

If you are looking for fab fun, anyone within 1/4 mile is usually on site too. Don't over think it, just go and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, neither of us want to arrange to

Meet technically, but more want to accidentally chat with guys/couples etc that I also

Looking for sexy after party fun, almost how

Do you give off signs or similar wity out showing pics of who are, sounds mad but we know

What we mean

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

If your looking for fun. There’s fun to be found

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely looking for fun, but at same

Time neither of us want it to

Feel

Arranged/set up,

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been to a Ministry of Sound weekender and booked for another this year.

It’s just a brilliant vibe…everyone all looking to have fun, dancing and enjoying themselves.

There’s also plenty of people on FAB near.

You won’t stick out as being on FAB and with having no pics on your profile no one will recognise you.

It’s like a giant disco…unless you’ve got a T-shirt saying you are swingers then no one will guess.

We got asked a couple of times if we were on FAB but we have plenty of distinguishable pics…we could have played all weekend if we wanted.

There’s 16 from FAB going to this one that we know of.

K

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By *ax6593Man
over a year ago

tyneside

Been going for years it’s great love the weekend one big party !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Definitely looking for fun, but at same

Time neither of us want it to

Feel

Arranged/set up, "

Why's that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few reasons, as so new to it all little bit nervous also we’ve always liked the idea after a night at pub and made new friends they perhaps have been invited back for drinks, then somehow things got naughty unexpectedly

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A few reasons, as so new to it all little bit nervous also we’ve always liked the idea after a night at pub and made new friends they perhaps have been invited back for drinks, then somehow things got naughty unexpectedly "

You want it to be spontaneous. The problem with that is that someone has to make the first move and you need to be very sure that everyone is in full agreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely looking for fun, but at same

Time neither of us want it to

Feel

Arranged/set up, "

Because, being a single male profile, she has no idea about Fab and his plans

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"Definitely looking for fun, but at same

Time neither of us want it to

Feel

Arranged/set up,

Because, being a single male profile, she has no idea about Fab and his plans "

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Near Birmingham


"Definitely looking for fun, but at same

Time neither of us want it to

Feel

Arranged/set up,

Because, being a single male profile, she has no idea about Fab and his plans "

We did meet some people through fab, but also had an amazing time pulling some absolute stunners just by mingling and messing around on the dance floor

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By *imingtopleaseMan
over a year ago

cas., brum or somewhere at mo

It great to meet strangers who on same wavelength. Going this weekend replay at Skegness. Be a laugh

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"A few reasons, as so new to it all little bit nervous also we’ve always liked the idea after a night at pub and made new friends they perhaps have been invited back for drinks, then somehow things got naughty unexpectedly "

We?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes this is a singles profile as I am single, have a fwb who isn’t aware I’m on here, we’re not in a relationship just friends really that fuck, we have discussed involving others, and have rolplayed

With toys about it, we’ve also discussed about somehow arranging something aswell, however we both said the same thing that arranging, setting something up would ruin how we’d want to go about it. Hope this makes sense and clears everything up,

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yes this is a singles profile as I am single, have a fwb who isn’t aware I’m on here, we’re not in a relationship just friends really that fuck, we have discussed involving others, and have rolplayed

With toys about it, we’ve also discussed about somehow arranging something aswell, however we both said the same thing that arranging, setting something up would ruin how we’d want to go about it. Hope this makes sense and clears everything up, "

If you're not prepared to say outright what you're after and rely on signs and giving off vibes I think you'll be disappointed. If your fwb has no idea you have a profile here and you haven't discussed this in detail with her how on earth do you think this will all fall into place with absolutely no effort on your part save going to Butlins and hoping for the best?

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By *ove2PlayLincsCouple
over a year ago

Gainsborough

We went to the 90s last weekend. Our vanilla friends had to leave on the Sunday but by the time we got a reply we liked we'd gorged on burger king so it was a non starter.

Gutted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes fwb doesn’t know I’m

On here, we’ve both discussed certain things and how we’d both want them

To happen, I’m

Not hidiing anything from her, also

For

All

I know she’s on here!!! We be both discussed and suggested ways either of us could somehow manage to get ourselves in certain situations.

Nothing to hide just at this point enquiring

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Well good luck to you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you. We both know what we want and how we’d both want it to happen..potentially. May sound odd etc but it just what we want

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you. We both know what we want and how we’d both want it to happen..potentially. May sound odd etc but it just what we want"

It's good to know what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you. We both know what we want and how we’d both want it to happen..potentially. May sound odd etc but it just what we want

It's good to know what you want.

"

Thank you. Yes single profile, no we’re not a couple, yes she doesn’t know im on here, I don’t. Feel

That she should

Know im here, yes we’ve both talked about ways of making certain things possible, im

Not dishonest. She may be on here I don’t know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you. We both know what we want and how we’d both want it to happen..potentially. May sound odd etc but it just what we want

It's good to know what you want.

Thank you. Yes single profile, no we’re not a couple, yes she doesn’t know im on here, I don’t. Feel

That she should

Know im here, yes we’ve both talked about ways of making certain things possible, im

Not dishonest. She may be on here I don’t know "

Well as they say, you do you

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s just like going to any club - if you are chatty then you’ll chat to people, then things may progress.

But remember, just because you are both open to finding others, a lot of people are vanilla and they may not assume you want more, so you may need to spell it out.

Also remember, it’s also the real world…being on FAB doesn’t make it any easier to chat someone up.

K

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