FabSwingers.com forum: How many people have u honestly slept with??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in my slutty days, a lot

these days, a lot less

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we started swinging the wife has slept with over a hundred guys and fifty plus girls - and me , about twenty girls

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women I think about 15. Men about 100! I genuinely have no idea I know I stopped counting at 60 and that was a long time ago so its probably over 100 now!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly Id say about 40 women and I obviously cant recall the amount of guys. But it has to be at least 500 guys as I have much more luck with the guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

wow lol u guys make me look quite innocent then! but i like how the attitude of the swinging 60s still lives on today!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on who's asking lol..I'm a slut on here and a sweetheart elsewhere

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Only 8 for me so far (and that's including swinging partners... - we prefer to stick with regulars).

- Amy. x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being totally honest ....im still a virgin and don't know what sex is really ....honest ....really im not lying....I not even seen a ladys front bum yet and as for another mans thingy wotsit ....I think id fait at sight of one ........... there again im a lying toe rag lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? Quite a few!

I'd never sleep with anyone dishonestly! Not like some sneaky 'sex ninja'!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's 11 for me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex since 1995...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex since 1995..."

What's sex ????????

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/11/12 14:43:10]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex since 1995...

What's sex ????????

Well I've just heard it involves more than just yourself ...in which case I'm still a virgin...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We honestly don't know, he kept count once but stopped long before we started swinging together. We were both very free and easy when younger and we've been swinging very regularly for 10 years, so the answer is lots. Our same-sex count is less but still high.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Slept with? Not many.

But Ive shagged the arse off loads

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you count them

I had a girlfriend at Uni who after a year said to me we'd only had sex twice. When I queried this (I can't have been that d*unk)she said she only counted the times when we didn't use a condom, made me wonder if I truly was her second lover........

Also, if you're blindfolded it doesn't count according to Tor

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

28... but I'd swap it tomorrow for just 1 good lady for the rest of my days.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

no idea... fingers and toes only go up to 20

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be like counting sheep to me, i'd end up falling asleep half way through the list, if i can even remember them!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton

There's a saying this

If a man is asked ,mentally divide by 3 and if asking a woman multiply by 3

Men will boast and women will lie

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/11/12 15:03:09]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple, divide, sod that

22 men. Not telling about same sex, that doesn't count

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here."

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness - I have totally lost count; but would guess if I knew the numbers of men/women (inc couples) slept with and told you all id be called a slag/slapper ....im neither just a horny bisexual man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck knows ..... I only count the really exceptional ones anyway.

(bound to make them up their game a little now)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Honestly? I haven't got a clue. But I must be into the thousands.

Funny thing is that when people meet me they think butter wouldn't melt!

So there's not point trusting your judgement cos everyone gets it wrong with me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atboxWoman
over a year ago

burton

two before fab

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feck knows ..... I only count the really exceptional ones anyway.

(bound to make them up their game a little now)

Selective counting! that's the

way forward!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a virgin

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.

thanks for the recommendation Wyrd!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.

thanks for the recommendation Wyrd!

Oy, mitts off. I've been trying to tempt him up here for ages!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

Three!!

I'm a real boy!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

That Invictus is a right tart isn't he.....oh poo, meant to send this privately.

thanks for the recommendation Wyrd!

Oy, mitts off. I've been trying to tempt him up here for ages!!!

Fight!!!

Good things come to those who wait

You're still on my harem list, don't panic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Oy, mitts off. I've been trying to tempt him up here for ages!!!

Fight!!!

Good things come to those who wait

You're still on my harem list, don't panic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"no idea... fingers and toes only go up to 20

You mean 21

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how many people I've shagged and I remember each and every time.

(166 men & 17 women)

But like _nvictus, I'd give anything, to just sleep with one man for the rest of my life.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

Come in No. 4 your time is up !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urreypair1Couple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I looked at this and thought "oooh this might be interesting " ....... i have read it , and now going to keep very very quiet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

let me think its in the regeion id say of ...... abt erm 1

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I looked at this and thought "oooh this might be interesting " ....... i have read it , and now going to keep very very quiet

Just saw where you're from! Went to school in Weybridge in 80's and St Georges Hills was the centre of the swinging and even as a teenager I knew that.... so, in your defence, culturally the number of partners in Weybridge is expected to be higher.......... Does that help?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about a 100 before i got married and 100 in the last 3 years.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

not a clue.

I stopped remembering names back in 2001 really

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No idea! I'd say around 100 give or take x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not a clue.

I stopped remembering names back in 2001 really

Same here lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

more than 1..... less than 1 million....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously!!! I stoped counting when I was 12! ........... only joking seriously mate I have no idea how many women iv had stoped counting at about 20 counting is not cool lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"not a clue.

I stopped remembering names back in 2001 really

Same here lol

lol - its so fucking bad in a good way lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Everytime i get with a woman she always asks me how many people i have slept with and i always tell i little white lie to make it sound not as bad as it is but i was curious, r u women as bad as us men?? My current number is 36 women and 0 guys..."
I dont have a problem with the number but... I would want to know why this information was important to them. In terms of risk... well, 5 can be as risky as 55... and I cannot really see a reason to discuss my past. But hey that is just me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you call living in Barracks or a warship sleeping with the same sex? (then is quite a lot) or are you asking how many you have had sex with?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey, thats loads We can cross off our meets list!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From this site....0 women and 10 guys.

In my lifetime, 10/12 women and probably 20 or so guys.

p.s. i count other cd's as guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm my 4 figure number yet. but have had over 100 guys this month sexually.

slept with its really not a lot lol. had sexual contact its lots.

only 8 of same sex though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, i remember the memorable ones both for good and bad reasons. but could not say exatly how many people i have ever had sexual relations with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

No hun I'm being honest only 2

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg I must be a real slut reading what people have put as how many they slept with Oooops

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

No hun I'm being honest only 2 "

I'm off to find another 3 inches and lose a few years

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

No hun I'm being honest only 2 "

timewaster!!!!!!!!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

No hun I'm being honest only 2 "

was more surprised youve not met anyone off here yet - blimey.. its a lotta fun you know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"28... but I'd swap it tomorrow for just 1 good lady for the rest of my days. "

im taken now vicci boy.. sorry lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Does anyone seriously keep count... sorry but I find it a little immature like notches on the bed post. As for me I know its more than a few, other than that I have no idea and don't see how its anyones business but mine. "

yeah questions like these alwats irritate me - they suck the fun out of everything. I mean - urrgh, its such an unholy place to chat freely about sexual stuff. Id much prefer it if we talked about bed linen myself.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

A guy asked me this question earlier this year and I estimated 100 plus before I ever started swinging - tried to make a list and got upto about 70 by the time I'd got divorced but odd ones keep popping into my head every so often...Definately well over 100 now, probably nudging towards 200 seeing as last time I had my tests at the clap clinic I'd had 30 guys in the 12 week period. I don't care whether someone thinks it's too many or not enough - and it's something I've never asked any bloke before, but if someone asks I'll give a true guesstimate - after that, it's up to them whether they want to proceed or not

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"I have slept with 2 men but 0 on here yet

youre joking?

I know you cant accom though someones got to take to fancying your cherry?

No hun I'm being honest only 2

was more surprised youve not met anyone off here yet - blimey.. its a lotta fun you know

Well I'm talking with someone on the site whom I connect with so fingers crossed as the mutual attraction is there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

What a strange response!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, no-1 wants 2 sleep with me? weep:weep.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"A guy asked me this question earlier this year and I estimated 100 plus before I ever started swinging - tried to make a list and got upto about 70 by the time I'd got divorced but odd ones keep popping into my head every so often...Definately well over 100 now, probably nudging towards 200 seeing as last time I had my tests at the clap clinic I'd had 30 guys in the 12 week

period. I don't care whether someone

thinks it's too many or not enough - and

it's something I've never asked any

bloke before, but if someone asks I'll

give a true guesstimate - after that, it's

up to them whether they want to

proceed or not

Make a list......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I keep a diary of meets now, just in case I ever catch an STD and need to let the folk I've played with know...it's not a notches on the bedpost for me, just trying to be a responsible adult...As I previously said, it's not something I've ever asked anyone about, apart from when me and my mates have been having d*unken chats that get round to our sex lives - most of them seem to find mine fascinating for some strange reason

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I keep a diary of meets now, just in case I ever catch an STD and need to let the folk I've played with know...it's not a

notches on the bedpost for me, just

trying to be a responsible adult...As I

previously said, it's not something I've

ever asked anyone about, apart from

when me and my mates have been

having d*unken chats that get round to

our sex lives - most of them seem to

find mine fascinating for some strange

reason

It's not strange! I like women who enjoy a good sex life!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 50 but less than 100. No idea other than that. About .a third women and the rest guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before fab women 90 men about 3/4 since fab women 90 men will now be 5/6 :D

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be well over 200 by now and I'm not telling lies I love sex what can I say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slept with? Not many.

But Ive shagged the arse off loads

yup same ere! Definately dont sleep with em!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I've honestly slept with three.

I've dishonestly slept with lots more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not that many then.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmmmmm, one or two

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 50 more than 30 . Wouldn't call it sleeping with though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

Around 30

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

lots, but I'm on a mission from God so I'm allowed

but not as many as the Mrs though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its somewhere over 100 and im new to the swinging scene so thats ladies from the everyday world although most my shagging antics were done when i was younger arhhh the memorys lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stopped counting on my 18th birthday.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dan = 50ish women only, straight dontcha know.

Emma=pre dan, about 30 guys and 3 women. Now 70ish guys 30 women.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've slept with all of them honestly!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecret ladyWoman
over a year ago

South Manchester...where no-one reads profile's !!!

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm....."

Funny thing with swinging I have found... women are known as sluts/slags/easy... men are studs ....seems like women aren't allowed to shag around...well that's what I've come across ...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

oh less than 100 men for sure and 0 women yuck not my thing lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You people count? Really?

Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.

Is that really bad?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You people count? Really?

Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.

Is that really bad?"

Pmsl....that is quality Fornix.x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You people count? Really?

Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.

Is that really bad?"

lol I've done that a few times. also had someone ask me for a meet. I've turned them down as not my type to be told didn't I remember them from the club a few days before. lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edsmadCouple
over a year ago

Castleisland

Only ever had sex with hubby but that could all change tomorrow night- going to a party - any advice lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 6 but I have enjoyed them all...some people have done more in an hour..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Over 100 but no one from here yet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

that will prob def change tomorow then xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"You people count? Really?

Confession time. I once read a profile and then saw a verification I left for said profile holder. I couldn't remember ever meeting them.

Is that really bad?

Pmsl....that is quality Fornix.x

I know! And I've only been here since May!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can honestly say I have only slept with the wife since we got married 30+ yrs ago.

Shagged loads but always go home with her indoors to sleep.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here."

Yep. I said but noone seems to want to comment! Funny that...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

No idea. It's like 'why are you having so much sex on this sex site?' Hmmmmmm.....

Funny thing with swinging I have found... women are known as sluts/slags/easy... men are studs ....seems like women aren't allowed to shag around...well that's what I've come across ... "

There's still men out there uneasy about female emancipation. The fact we might be having more sex than them makes them foam at the mouth.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god, here I go..... 26 women and 4 blokes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 30 but have lost count

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I got no clue

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have honestly slept with 9 people. I have dishonestly slept with 1 person. I have no idea how many people I have had sex with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!

Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.

But in the cold clear light of day the reality of the power of a woman's libido (remember men may be horny but how often can they get that attended to? A horny halfway presentable woman can ALWAYS get that attended too!) in a sexually liberated world.

We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.

So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?

How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?

I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.

But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.

Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.

Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?

As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.

If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.

And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.

And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.

I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.

And yes I did say four figures.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!

Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.

We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.

So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?

How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?

I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.

But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.

Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.

Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?

As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.

If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.

And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.

And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.

I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.

And yes I did say four figures.

I haven't read all of the posts but I will now. Why do you think you are being judged?

I used to know the number of people I had had sex with before I started swinging. Since I have no clue how many there were at my first club experience I have stopped keeping numerical track.

I could do with more than I get but that is my fault as I get too fussy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"And yes I did say four figures.

Pfffft, I'll only take you seriously when it hits 5 figures.

(Thats a joke by the way, but go for it all the same).

I don't think people ARE judging us, although who knows what tomorrow might bring. However people are coy about it. Maybe they think its not enough when they are on a swinging site, maybe like me they'll think its because everyone thinks 'slut'.

Both you and me are highly sexed single women. We have t get our jollies from somewhere. I can state with honesty that not one man has looked at me askance for being highly sexed. Its more likely to be women I am afraid. (Not you of course hun).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!

Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.

We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.

So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?

How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?

I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.

But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.

Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.

Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?

As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.

If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.

And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.

And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.

I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.

And yes I did say four figures.

"
I applaud you! You only have yourself to answer to. You seem the most together person we have seen on here. Those that judge, look inward! This site is about meeting people and taking the agenda forward. It's fun, ffs. Would love to meet you, you sound interesting, erodite, fun. Xxxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 100.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

the wife does around a hundred new guys a year, this is our ninth year of swinging, I do just over a third of that yearly total. But then you just can't compete with women can you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why do I think I'm being judged?

By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?

By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?

By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!

Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.

Am I a slag? Do I really care? But if somewhere, deep inside, part of you wants to say yes TD you are a slag then it's time to take that thought out and expose it to daylight and examine it to see if it's grubby and biased and perhaps even bigoted.

But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.

Acceptance and comradeship is good though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I lost count when it hit three figures

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the last line of this OP

The fact that you state '0' guys currently suggests this could be open to change

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

More than I care to admit...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *emo and HollyCouple
over a year ago

neath

one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"More than I care to admit...

Why?

Why is it embarrassing? We're all horny, libido driven friends here.

So why so hard to admit?

(nb: this is not just directed at you but at all the other posters who fudged or got coy or jokey).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I think I'm being judged?

By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?

By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?

By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!

Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.

But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.

Acceptance and comradeship is good though."

I'm not ashamed of how many guys. I love it

well said

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why do I think I'm being judged?

By the fear that makes people post jokey answers on an honesty thread - why the fear?

By the fact that so many profiles defensively claim they're not hardened swingers - what's so wrong with that?

By the way that (and people have stated on previous threads) guys prefer a woman who doesn't have loads of veris - though I could hide all but one!

Yes people judge. Even on here where we SHOULD be able to be able to relax and be honest.

But I won't judge you for a guilty, grubby thought like that. Why not? Because I know and am happy and content with who I am and don't need validation.

Acceptance and comradeship is good though."

I can see that. I posted jokily as I don't sleep with other people.

I have experienced the gender double standard and have commented on this before. I have had someone I met on here tell me that I shouldn't be doing this as "...[I'm] so much better than what the site can offer [me]". I have had men send messages saying that as I only have a few verifications I must be ok as I don't put out for everyone. What utter nonsense. I have had men tell me that they don't really like women who go to clubs and that has put them off meeting me. I have had men telling me that they prefer to meet married/attached women as being single must make me a bunny boiler to be doing this.

It's all a bit bonkers. I have a rampant libido and I will satisfy it however I like. Or not.

Enjoy what you do and fuck 'em.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling a tad inadequate with y'all being able to count and all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Enjoy what you do and fuck 'em."

I'm trying to!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Enjoy what you do and fuck 'em.

I'm trying to!

Me too but I had to cancel going out tonight.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Enjoy what you do and fuck 'em.

I'm trying to!

Me too but I had to cancel going out tonight.

Me too. Mother Nature is a cruel mistress.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *weetcheekstooWoman
over a year ago

southampton

"Slept with? Not many.

But Ive shagged the arse off loads

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They're not sleeping when they're with me.

A lot, but not saying because people still judge others for being promiscuous, even on here.

I've noticed that too. WTHonestF is that about?

Lol!! You can swing but only with a limited number!!

I know

It happens though, I also know for a fact some people will warn others off from meetings by private message with rumours and heresay about them.

Pathetic isn't it?

Maybe us 'promiscuous' people should warn each other off the ones who warn each other about us.

Or something.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I wish I could say higher as I live sex but just not got the time!! Prior to fab 1 guy since fab about 23 guys and 1 girl !!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Got to be more than 200 by now. Don't really know; don't really care.

Not in to the numbers game. It's an irrelevance.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

As far as I am concerned it's no ones business except my own, if you admit to loads then you're called a slut/slag/slapper and if you say not many you're either too fugly or too fussy, like I said, at the end of the day it's no ones business but my own.

Devil

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!

Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.

We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.

So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?

How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?

I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.

But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.

Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.

Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?

As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.

If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.

And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.

And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.

I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.

And yes I did say four figures.

Go you!!

Lets face it - most guys would probably love to be in that position - but don't have the energy!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I came into swinging virtually a virgin. I'd slept with 3 or 4 girls before Rachel and lost my cherry a year or so before. Then we started swinging after about 6 months, had a long period of not doing much due to exams and when we finished we went a bit crazy. If you mean had sex with rather than slept with then I managed about 35 women in 3 months and Rachel played with nearly all the women I played with, plus about 20 guys.

Now she's in France and we've been teetotal for a couple of months.

I don't think numbers matter much really as long as you're having fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's well into 3 figures.

There was never a competetive element to this - it just grew, like Topsy.

There was a time I could track down all their names, most recent addresses and would happily recognise their birthday.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 women altogether.

Came out of a long term relationship(my number was 2 including her) not so long ago and didn't cheat during it. May 2011 she suggested seeing other people.

So between then and now 15 people. I try to stick with regular people where possible but some fbs ended up in relationships so had to stop seeing them and move on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 but a fab virgin lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oonytoonMan
over a year ago

derby

"28... but I'd swap it tomorrow for just 1 good lady for the rest of my days. "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oonytoonMan
over a year ago

derby

I don't keep exact count but as op mentioned women do ask so I tried to think of them all a few years back which was around 40ish back then

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/12/12 04:06:30]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 men and 5 women

I can use this post again as a memory aid

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

27 men and 5 women

I can use this post again as a memory aid

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/12/12 04:07:32]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Mr Lincs 11 women & Mrs Lincs 5 1/2 guys (1 couldn't get it up)

5 threesome partners so far, 4 from this site. We also stick to regulars.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this yesterday & I honestly cannot begin to count or remember all of there names.

Is that bad?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Not enough. I need more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

Who keeps count? I certainly don't

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !"

I like a wee cuddle in the morn tho...then a filthy resuming spitroast

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !

I like a wee cuddle in the morn tho...then a filthy resuming spitroast"

yuck, yuck and double yuck, that is the most disgusting thing that i've ever heard you say... a cuddle WTF?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slept with? Not many.

But Ive shagged the arse off loads

"
+1

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been fucked by 13 guys in one night.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None... because we don't sleep with people we fuck em !

I like a wee cuddle in the morn tho...then a filthy resuming spitroast

yuck, yuck and double yuck, that is the most disgusting thing that i've ever heard you say... a cuddle WTF?"

dont break my heart Atomic!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The title of the post should read

'How many people have you fucked'

Hope that helps....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I stopped counting after 2.

Seeing as my parent 'promised' no girl would be interested in me - the first was to break the duck, the second was to prove the first was not a fluke!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

[Removed by poster at 02/12/12 19:48:07]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

[Removed by poster at 02/12/12 19:48:58]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Hmmm seems like I'm thread death for this topic!

Too much honesty just takes the shine off. It's all well and good if they're horny - a count that rivals hefner is amusing when horny.

We're on a swingers site. I can't be the only one to be in four figures - I'm just the only one to state it with no shame or attempt to fudge the numbers or get coy.

So why the tumble around this thread since I made the.point?

How many of you have realised that you're not as open-minded as you thought and have put me in a box and labelled it slut and taped it up with bio-hazard all over it?

I play safe, I get tested. I just own up to having played a lot. And I will continue to do so.

But I won't lie about it or fib coyly.

Just in the last two days I have been really horny so I went out and found an answer - I got two shags (the first was disappointing). I'm not even in the UK.

Does that make me a slag? If I was a man and bragged about the sex on my holiday would I be a slag or a stud?

As always I had condoms and used them. I was sober when I pulled (yes I had a drink but I would have been borderline for driving) so made informed choices.

If I was in a relationship and he could keep up with me I would be monogamous. Few men can. So I swing.

And yet it seems there are swingers and swingers. Guess I must be one of the hardened swingers that profiles are biased against. But I don't feel any shame for who and what I am.

And I challenge any of you who have made any judgement of me due to "The Number" to induce any feeling of shame.

I'm a woman with a high libido, stamina and time to explore both with a wide variety of men so that is what I do.

And yes I did say four figures.

Another fecking typo - I'm not deleting the damn thing again this time!

Hey TD (or SLF...that's Stiff Little Finger if you're as old as me) I had to go back up and re-read the thread cos I thought you were being a bit defensive and someone must have had a go for how many folk you'd fucked but I didn't find anything - hope you didn't get any PMs slagging you off...

Don't really understand your response, I think the jokey responses to the post were more regarding the "slept with" title rather than any downer on how many folk anyone had shagged - I responded seriously - if I'd fucked more folk I'da said - I've never been bothered by my tally (or what I can work out of it) and if asked by 'nilla friends I give the same response and do get looked askance at, but these are my friends - I mentioned having 30 guys between 12 weekly tests to one of my mates and got a but then she was more interested in how I managed that in 7 weeks of playing as I'd been poorly for a few weeks and also had Mother Nature to contend with so was only really talking about 3 parties, a club meet and a couple of 1:1s

I'm sure that "some" people will think I've had too many men, you've had too many men and if it was a bloke's conquest they may see it differently - all down to preference at the end of the day - if someone prefers not to contact me or you cos we're "slags" (cue naff Regan accent...) then fair do's - plenty more guys and girls to choose from

I met a girl who'd fucked 40 odd guys over a 10 hour period...I 'd in admiration and tipped my hat to her and admit to a tinge of jealousy for not having that ruddy stamina!

Not sure now what I meant to accomplish with this post but I'm waffling a bit now - TD/SLF, you keep doing what makes you happy - the folk on here that judge you badly for it - it's there problem, not yours...Once I'm recovered from my hip surgery, can I come stay with you for a few weeks please???

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Aaaargggghhh. Last but one line...THEIR not THERE

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think at last count it was something like 5 female and something like 26 male( some numerous times)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aulusMan
over a year ago

Chester

This thread did make me think and I've had a happy hour or 2 trying to figure it out and trying to recall names/places etc.

Reckon its over 70 ladies I've had full 'knowledge' of and approx another 40 or so I've 'heavy petted' with. lol

I would say that most of these have been in my normal life over the years with about 15 or so being fellow fabbers.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've slept with seven men...lost count of those I've stayed awake and shagged though!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any one want to help me get up to double figures...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

47 so far

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/12/12 13:12:39]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread