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Socials .. are they dead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people still have the old fashion social or is it pretty much nsa fun all the way?

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By *lipandSlide777Couple
over a year ago

Bideford

Always have a social unless we have met before. Make sure they are who they say they are.

Don't always connect with both parts of a couple, so won't go any further than a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are very much alive.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

ALWAYS a social first

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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago

Sent to Coventry

Social first! I enjoy a chat and a flirt, and when there’s chemistry the anticipation of the next meet is lovely. When there’s no chemistry we’ve saved ourselves a potentially awkward meet x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We always have a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people still have the old fashion social or is it pretty much nsa fun all the way?"

Socials are very much alive

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What on earth makes you think they are dead?!

We're going to meet a Fab couple tonight at a restaurant just as a social.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I love socials.

I will never do NSA. Apart from Clubs of course.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I've never had a social

Well I have but after a play meet, I've occasionally met the same person again for a social meet

But never prior to a play meet, the thought of it feels awkward to me

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

Mrs doesn’t social. She chats in WhatsApp and gets a feel for a guy through that

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Always a social after a lot of messaging.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Morning yes always a social first .has to be an attraction

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By *unandgamegeekMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I had a social meet once back in March. Still ended up back in my hotel room for a bit of fun afterwards lol.

I also have a social meet up with a friend for a meal in Manchester every Christmas.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Social 1st, unless meeting at clubs.

I need sexual chemistry with the other party before play happens.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Socials are alive

Long live socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do socials, not really that interested just want to get down to the sex

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

No public social = no fun, simple as that

Just because get on on line doesn't mean shit, you dont know who someone really is untill you meet them in person and having experienced some major differences between online and in person I would never miss out a social first

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I’ve been privileged to have had a few socials. Some have ended in some form of play, some have ended in further socials and friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd prefer a nice social before committing to play with someone, help break the ice and ease any first meet nerves.

Plus I do love the build up, a couple of drinks, flirting, maybe some dancing and wandering hands... (not yet happened )

The majority of guys on here don't seem to want to put the effort in, most just want to send a few short messages and a fuck and go arrangement.

Hence why I've met very few singles. Most of my fun is now via clubs and with my partner involved.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always meet for a social first ,I need to see them Ftf to make sure there's attraction for me & I'd never invite anyone straight over for sex without a drink and chat somewhere first.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I've never had an arranged social go ahead, they've always either cancelled or gone quiet close to the date. I'd rather just save the time and meet up to fuck tbh.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Always a social 1st with us !! and can't even beat a larger social as used to be a great way to meet others and great for the newbies/nervous as there is no pressure just great conversations and most of all a laugh but sadly it does seem if you mention the "Social" mosr run to the hills

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I've never had an arranged social go ahead, they've always either cancelled or gone quiet close to the date. I'd rather just save the time and meet up to fuck tbh."

Whatttttt? No flirty little social over tea & biscuits? I need to move up North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We insist on one or it goes no further.

The only exception is if we have previously met and chatted at a club.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland


"I've never had an arranged social go ahead, they've always either cancelled or gone quiet close to the date. I'd rather just save the time and meet up to fuck tbh.

Whatttttt? No flirty little social over tea & biscuits? I need to move up North "

Fuck first, tea and biscuits after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na don’t think they’re dead, they’re still my preference for meeting new people!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Always a social first for me.

Also love the big group socials like Lichvegas.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I've never had an arranged social go ahead, they've always either cancelled or gone quiet close to the date. I'd rather just save the time and meet up to fuck tbh.

Whatttttt? No flirty little social over tea & biscuits? I need to move up North

Fuck first, tea and biscuits after "

You drive a hard bargain

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

DID some say BISCUITS ?? We do prefer a good cake and tea though ??

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

Social first and then naughty times later! Best way for first time meet up

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We always social 1st, I couldn't just jump into bed without knowing we all get on, there's attraction and some chemistry there.

Mrs

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Always nice to have a social first to see whether you click. There’s no pressure for it to go any further either if the chemistry isn’t there for both parties

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Tbh, some of the socials we've had have been better than some of the play meets!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope..I love socials ..big group ones or just one lady for coffee and cake

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

This is about where my expectation levels are now, I haven’t even had success at offering a coffee so far

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