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Can't Travel or Accommodate

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By *imply_Sensual OP   Man
over a year ago

warrington

I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few."

Get a hotel very close by?? Like next door? Lol x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Dogging

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

Or maybe they are hoping for an offer to be picked and dropped off....Which I doubt they get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoping to meet someone close who can accom?

I think when they say they can't travel, they mean they don't have a car and so rely on public transport and so travelling faor dostances would be an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dogging "

Presumably very close to their house!!!!

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

accrington-ish

Back garden perhaps....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few."

Not likely to meet really, are the? Just plain strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has come up before in the Wales forum, I didn't post as I had a car at the time.

Now however, this does apply to me. I no longer have said car (due to change of job) but, strictly speaking, I cant accom.

But depending on several factors (who the meets with, what time of day the meet is, where the Other person is located) I either accom or travel (by taxi)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Webcam, phone and possibly a local club if they ever attend, and other local house parties.. just suggestions,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because it says something on a profile doesn't mean it's true!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

There's certainly a few females with profiles that state they want collecting and dropping off!! Personally I wouldn't be that dependant on a meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people think accomadate is an all night guest !! We dont do bed and breakfast lol. however for a few hours if fine

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"There's certainly a few females with profiles that state they want collecting and dropping off!! Personally I wouldn't be that dependant on a meet!!"
you sound great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because it says something on a profile doesn't mean it's true!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Also bare in mind 'can't accomodate' can also mean 'not willing to accomodate new meets until I know you' rather than an outright no.

I've had meets at their home with 'can't accomodate' profile users once they've got to know me.

...I think I still have some of the body parts in my fridge...

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

It just means they will not accommodate at their home or travel a long way for a meet. Any meets have to be local to them. Either at your place or a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried asking but they usually don't reply.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've often wondered about this as well & if they haven't made themselves any clearer in their profile text, I just move on to the next profile.

This is similar to a couple that select 'Not looking for single guys' on their profile but then put up an ad in the MEETS section, asking for single guys.

A futile endeavor because they've already blocked single males from emailing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often wondered about this as well & if they haven't made themselves any clearer in their profile text, I just move on to the next profile.

This is similar to a couple that select 'Not looking for single guys' on their profile but then put up an ad in the MEETS section, asking for single guys.

A futile endeavor because they've already blocked single males from emailing them."

If they mail a guy that block is lifted for that person, so maybe they have looked and opened that block for many who can message them about the meet request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a mistake on thier part Id say. Like I see lots of guys profiles saying straight and yet asking to meet guys. When I message them pointing this out they thank me and change profile normally this sort of thin happens to newbies. I even managed to get a 69 off one thankfull guy who was obviously bi not straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a mistake on thier part Id say. Like I see lots of guys profiles saying straight and yet asking to meet guys. When I message them pointing this out they thank me and change profile normally this sort of thin happens to newbies. I even managed to get a 69 off one thankfull guy who was obviously bi not straight lol"

I love bi guys and have discovered a very amount of guys who put straight but play with guys. Usually cos they know bi will put the ladiess off, others cos they say they love the ladies in every respect but when they play with guys its just sex and they don't find the guys attractive or anything

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree that most things wrote on profiles sometimes change..... I was seeing a fb that said she couldnt accom.... This meant it was difficult to arrange and no one had stayed over...... But I did

I was going to say dogging in there front or back garden but others read my mind lol

Ive been asked if Im in a relationship because it says I cant accom on my profile...... My house is rented out and I stay at my sisters....... I can accom when shes at work but Id rather travel to my meets place.

I can also accom at my place in Turkey

I have pick some up bought em back here then took em home

Whatever works at the time is good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few."

They expect you do fund hotel and come to them I guess;

meeting someone off here is all about mutual respect for each others circumstances... take me I live with my sister and here lots and I have only brought two fems back there and that's cuz they been on holiday; but never took any men back there; I am fortunate to have a good bunch of mates who can accommodate and im not adverse to going 50/50 on hotel bills....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few."

Been thinking that too...I've had a couple of offers and when I've asked how we are going to meet if they can't accom or travel I was blocked...timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just means they will not accommodate at their home or travel a long way for a meet. Any meets have to be local to them. Either at your place or a hotel. "

Exactly!For me anyway and I have no problem getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It just means they will not accommodate at their home or travel a long way for a meet. Any meets have to be local to them. Either at your place or a hotel.

Exactly!For me anyway and I have no problem getting meets "

Love your profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never understood it, anyone can travel, just get on a bus or a train!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because it says something on a profile doesn't mean it's true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few.

Get a hotel very close by?? Like next door? Lol x "
Cheaper to pay for it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local hotel within walking distance? Rely on the other person to pick up and drop off? Etc...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"i never understood it, anyone can travel, just get on a bus or a train!"

true anyone can get on a bus or tain but anyone can also choose not to as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done a quick search, and I mean quick to see if this has come up before - I didnt find anything.

But, when someone has on their profile that they cannot either travel or accommodate - how do they meet? Just curious about this because I have seen it on a few."
usually you will find that its a typing error.

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

I can't travel far as I don't drive, and I don't accom due to having children at home, so meets for me are either at theirs, clubs or go halfs on a hotel

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By *imply_Sensual OP   Man
over a year ago

warrington


"I can't travel far as I don't drive, and I don't accom due to having children at home, so meets for me are either at theirs, clubs or go halfs on a hotel "

But, if you dont travel, how do you get to these places? You are a perfect example of wy I am asking the question, and no its not having a dig at anyone, I am just trying to understand because when I see a profile that says they cant do either, I dont bother sending a message or trying to make contact.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Maybe they never leave their bedroom's

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)


"I can't travel far as I don't drive, and I don't accom due to having children at home, so meets for me are either at theirs, clubs or go halfs on a hotel

But, if you dont travel, how do you get to these places? You are a perfect example of wy I am asking the question, and no its not having a dig at anyone, I am just trying to understand because when I see a profile that says they cant do either, I dont bother sending a message or trying to make contact. "

I can travel locally, I say I can't travel so people know I can't go too far.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Clubs and hotels come to mind. If they really want to meet then they will be prepared to sort out something mutually acceptable.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have it on mine as I was fed up of messages from men more than 100 miles from me expecting me to travel to them. I also get fed up with the ones that think it is the woman's responsibility to accommodate.

If someone interests me then I am willing to negotiate and I do meet at clubs and hotels.

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