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" If hubby likes football and she likes rugby and they go and watch separately surely it’s the same if a man has certain interests and she doesn’t " It depends if they sneak off to the football or rugby and lie about where they have been or if they have both agreed they can go separately | |||
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"Any women on here looking for married men ? If hubby likes football and she likes rugby and they go and watch separately surely it’s the same if a man has certain interests and she doesn’t Obviously this applies vice versa and a married women has the right to choose too But I’m interested in your perspective " It’s all fine and dandy as long as the wife and hubby have talked about it and she’s happy that hubby is at the football match and not out with the guys or something. | |||
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"We primarily like to meet MF couples (long term or married) that is key to us as our definition of swinging is the old fashioned 'partner swapping'. We do occasionally meet with singles but not singles who are married. For us if someone is married and engaging with other for sex when their partner does not know - it's basically cheating, so it's not for us. Many married folks give excuses - my other half knows - I'm in a sexless marriage but that is a red flag to us as well because it mean emotional baggage or something toxic is happening. We will add if you are married and looking to engage at least be honest about it, because that gives the people you are engaging with a choice. To cheat on your partner and to cheat other on your status is a double no no. Not everyone will agree but as you said.... thoughts please. " I get why you say this but it's also a huge judgement by yourselves. In my case my wife has given me permission because she was pregnant and struggled with sex and didn't want to swing for obvious reasons, she knew I had urges so said I could play away but would like to know. The judgement always levied towards married men is we are always liers and cheats. | |||
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" I get why you say this but it's also a huge judgement by yourselves. In my case my wife has given me permission because she was pregnant and struggled with sex and didn't want to swing for obvious reasons, she knew I had urges so said I could play away but would like to know. The judgement always levied towards married men is we are always liers and cheats. " There are no rights of wrongs everyone has a different take on the subject. It's also not judgement by us - it's our preference that is all. If someone (man or woman) chooses to go behind partners back that is cheating. If they have permission okay as long as they tell interested parties so they can make choice. In your instance - wife pregnant we would say no - as that is emotional baggage we don't want. | |||
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"We primarily like to meet MF couples (long term or married) that is key to us as our definition of swinging is the old fashioned 'partner swapping'. We do occasionally meet with singles but not singles who are married. For us if someone is married and engaging with other for sex when their partner does not know - it's basically cheating, so it's not for us. Many married folks give excuses - my other half knows - I'm in a sexless marriage but that is a red flag to us as well because it mean emotional baggage or something toxic is happening. We will add if you are married and looking to engage at least be honest about it, because that gives the people you are engaging with a choice. To cheat on your partner and to cheat other on your status is a double no no. Not everyone will agree but as you said.... thoughts please. " We work to a very similar set of rules where we can x | |||
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"Any women on here looking for married men ? If hubby likes football and she likes rugby and they go and watch separately surely it’s the same if a man has certain interests and she doesn’t Obviously this applies vice versa and a married women has the right to choose too But I’m interested in your perspective " If the wife knows it’s not an issue | |||
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"I have been guilty of saying I'm just popping out to the pub for a few quiet pints with friends not mentioning it's the six Nations " Shocking! | |||
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"I've found married men entitled and boring. " we find a lot of men on here entitled and boring... not all though | |||
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