FabSwingers.com forum: Females would you meet with me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not having best of luck in North east currently,

Just putting it out to the wider Fab community to get a confidence boost, would you meet with me?

have tried to ask for socials and such to help, would love a lady to chat to,

(Not great at social ques and massively out of practice at flirting so maybe q guiding hand/chat also)

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Bro this never works you have to go get them nothing in life worth having just comes to you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have been trying to make meets trying to see if I get social just not having much luck overall,

I know fab like everything is a numbers game and a lot of males take the piss with meets and the like also which never helps anything

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We're a couple, and I'm the make half, so maybe not your target audience, but your profile isn't anywhere near the worst we've seen and we'd message back if you got in touch - providing the initial message was something that a conversation can be built on.

However....you status about kebabs....that's going to make every girl who reads it move on to the next message. And there's ALWAYS a next message.

You've only been here four weeks, consider this:

We're pretty average looking and we get an average amount of messages. We meet no more than once each week, so four, maybe five times each month. At least two of those meets will be with people we already know, so we "need" three new guys each month.

On a very, very slow day we'll get ten offers. If we put up a new pic, we'll get fifty. Let's stick with ten. That's 300 in a month. And we need three. Or 1%.

Even if 30 of those guys tick all of our boxes, we're never going to be able to meet them. Just 1% of the guys messaging us are likely to ever get a meet.

So keep trying, read profiles really carefully and if there's any hint that you're not a match, don't message. Don't get downhearted if you don't get replies (that's Fab way of saying "not for me/us") and don't try and change people's minds of they do reply saying "no thanks".

Try and get involved in your local social(s) I'd you can. We get to ours a couple of times each month and it really, really makes a difference.

But above all, have realistic expectations, be patient and polite and we hope you have some luck in the future.

(Bry)

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Have been trying to make meets trying to see if I get social just not having much luck overall,

I know fab like everything is a numbers game and a lot of males take the piss with meets and the like also which never helps anything "

Are there no social events listed for your area...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks the latest status was ment to be in jest, will think about that more in future

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Next one is newcastle by looks on 1st of October, don't think I can afford a hotel though to stay and have a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing that jumps out at me from your profile is that tire into Anal, DP and fisting.

Do you really need to mention that?

Could t it wait until you’ve established a little trust?

Otherwise a refreshing lack of cock pictures for the usual “why can’t I get meets” post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So in terms of that it's more things I've done in the past with an x that I was happy to do , doesn't mean I want every meet to be that , but again thanks for input

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"So in terms of that it's more things I've done in the past with an x that I was happy to do , doesn't mean I want every meet to be that , but again thanks for input

The thing with us who are neurodivergent, we definitely can't pick up on a lot of social cues.

Women have an easier time masking as we often have other females giving us pointers..

Men don't seem to give each other the same support and rather seem to view each other as competition.

the men in the couples can attest to being some sort of afterthought.

From what I gather, presentation is very key to a lot of women on here and they do have their pick of men appearance-wise.

You are out of my age range ( too young) and out of my area range ( I live in London.)

If you are introverted, that makes things like this even harder.

Women on here have stated they want hair on the scalp and not on the face...so that's a thing....I don't know if it's because I'm older that bald men and men with beards do not bother me. Although my preference is for the full beard not the whole goatee thing.

Those of us who aren't gym bunnies and genetically blessed with low body fat have to wear more flattering clothes. On the plus side, refreshing not to be bombarded with nudes.

Verification is also very important to women I think. it comes with safety!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep would get the verification if I could ??

But yeah it's probably a difficult position for someone like myself maybe but just trying to enjoy life and have a good time and some fun experience.

Would do more club things but last time ended up in the corner after just not being able to get a convo flowing and lost the confidence in the night

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