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"Sometimes I like making hubby wear one while I play with a couple. It really turns me on x Mrs N" Do you feel empowered being in control of his cock? | |||
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"I have just ordered a steel cage that’s just 2cm long. I wanted one that squashes my cock up to look as tiny as possible and with no chance of getting hard. I’ve tried a chastity cage before that I enjoyed but I found it too easy to get out of. Hopefully a smaller cage should solve that and I think the really tiny cages look the hottest. I just hope I can get it on ![]() Would love to see this when its on! | |||
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"I love being put into a cage knowing I can’t wank or cum . Also love the idea that the wife has the key and I’m locked up. I adore being teased so that you get that feeling of not being able to get hard" You can still cum even with one on, When your being fucked by someone or by a strapon. | |||
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"I've got a couple of photos on our profile if anyone wants a look " You look fairly small when flaccid though, is that fair to say? That sounding video though, omg how long was that rod? Impressive work! | |||
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"One of my thoughts on this was the Caging of a husband prior to the wife being Bulled/Dommed. As a first act. Setting the control. However, I think most just believe that you are a single bi/gay guy wanting played with. Can totally get that, but it isn't the case. " I'd see it more as bull asserting his dominance. Locking the inferior cock out of the way so he can assert his ownership of the wife. | |||
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"You look fairly small when flaccid though, is that fair to say? That sounding video though, omg how long was that rod? Impressive work!" You could have stopped at "small" haha. I think it's 28cm, it's from Love honey, it's brilliant. By far the best sound we've got. It's designed to be double ended so two can play together... | |||
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"One of my thoughts on this was the Caging of a husband prior to the wife being Bulled/Dommed. As a first act. Setting the control. However, I think most just believe that you are a single bi/gay guy wanting played with. Can totally get that, but it isn't the case. I'd see it more as bull asserting his dominance. Locking the inferior cock out of the way so he can assert his ownership of the wife." Yeah, precisely. | |||
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"Not every wife of a caged man is submissive though. There's nothing remotely submissive about my Mrs! " As a sub myself it hadn't gone unnoticed ![]() | |||
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"I have just ordered a steel cage that’s just 2cm long. I wanted one that squashes my cock up to look as tiny as possible and with no chance of getting hard. I’ve tried a chastity cage before that I enjoyed but I found it too easy to get out of. Hopefully a smaller cage should solve that and I think the really tiny cages look the hottest. I just hope I can get it on ![]() It’s arrived! For those who wanted to see the photo, it’s on my public profile now! | |||
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"I have just ordered a steel cage that’s just 2cm long. I wanted one that squashes my cock up to look as tiny as possible and with no chance of getting hard. I’ve tried a chastity cage before that I enjoyed but I found it too easy to get out of. Hopefully a smaller cage should solve that and I think the really tiny cages look the hottest. I just hope I can get it on ![]() That looks fantastic, small with a lovely tight fit. Was it difficult to get on or are you fairly small when flaccid? | |||
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"That looks fantastic, small with a lovely tight fit. Was it difficult to get on or are you fairly small when flaccid?" It was a bit fiddly but it was my first time trying it so I think I’ll get the hang of that. It wasn’t really a problem in terms of squashing my cock up enough for it to fit. It feels lovely and snug. And I can’t see any chance of my cock escaping from that! And I really think it looks hot having a nice steel crown incasing my penis head. I love it. | |||
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"That looks fantastic, small with a lovely tight fit. Was it difficult to get on or are you fairly small when flaccid? It was a bit fiddly but it was my first time trying it so I think I’ll get the hang of that. It wasn’t really a problem in terms of squashing my cock up enough for it to fit. It feels lovely and snug. And I can’t see any chance of my cock escaping from that! And I really think it looks hot having a nice steel crown incasing my penis head. I love it." If you don't mind me asking, where did you get it? | |||
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"If you don't mind me asking, where did you get it?" From here https://www.houseofdenial.com/ They’ve got a good range. | |||
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"That looks so good. You just need someone to keep the key for you " I am starting to really warm to that idea. Absolutely no chance of using it for any kind of sexual activity while it’s trapped in there. All I can do is pee. | |||
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"That looks so good. You just need someone to keep the key for you " Often the issue! | |||
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"If you don't mind me asking, where did you get it? From here https://www.houseofdenial.com/ They’ve got a good range." Thank you | |||
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"Can you pee stood up? Be fun when you use a urinal stood next to other men. " Well it doesn’t spray out in all directions like my old one did but you still can’t really guarantee the direction so you’re best to pee sitting down really. | |||
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"Can you pee stood up? Be fun when you use a urinal stood next to other men. Well it doesn’t spray out in all directions like my old one did but you still can’t really guarantee the direction so you’re best to pee sitting down really." Having to sit down to pee means you can never forget that you are owned. | |||
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"Having to sit down to pee means you can never forget that you are owned." Yes ![]() | |||
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" I’ve also discovered that pee tends to trickle down the underside of my bollocks too. And everything’s just too tight to move it out the way." Yeah I've had this issue too. | |||
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" Having to sit down to pee means you can never forget that you are owned." Totally agree. Love going out and about too knowing she has the key on her necklace | |||
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"Having to sit down to pee means you can never forget that you are owned." I think this is a really important part of chastity. Constant reminder. | |||
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"I have been caged pretty much 24/7 for the last 2.5 years. Generally only out for cleaning or playing 5 asides. I’m at the stage where it feels strange not to be caged. Laura has complete control over if or when I can cum and we both love it that way. She looks fabulous when out with a key on her necklace, but to me she always looks fabulous ![]() Love for my mistress to cage me 24/7 full time so she is in complete control too and wear the key around her necklace while out so others can see that mistress is in full control of her cuck and obviously she fucks whoever she wants | |||
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"Is being able to get hard in your cage a sign the cage is to big?" How tight is it when its soft? Thats the question x | |||
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"Is being able to get hard in your cage a sign the cage is to big?" I'd say so. Ideally you want the cage small enough that getting hard is impossible but still comfortable to wear when your cock is soft. | |||
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"Hubby loves being in his more so whilst watching me with other guys " Your very lucky would love my hubby to join me sometime | |||
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"Love wearing mine, it's a bit clanky though" Go smaller and get one with built in lock so no need for clanky padlock. | |||
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"Interesting I might get my hubby one. New to this so a bit of advice would be good. Wheres the best place to get one how long do they where it...for a couple of days, weeks?? ![]() Aliexpress is a great option price wise. A lot depends on his structure down there. Eg balls hanging low, size of balls etc. I'd recommend a plastic cage with a variety of rings and spacers to start with, probably about 30 quid off amazon. Once you're happy you understand sizes then I'd buy a metal one, probably from aliexpress, but there are more expensive ones available. Metal ones with built in locks are the best in our opinion. I'd highly recommend he's fully shaved down there. You can wear it as long as you want if it fits properly, however night time erections will be "painful" but that can be a positive for you if you are that way inclined! Have a look at our photos, I don't wear it often, it's more just another sex toy for play. | |||
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"Interesting I might get my hubby one. New to this so a bit of advice would be good. Wheres the best place to get one how long do they where it...for a couple of days, weeks?? ![]() That's great thanks for the advice ![]() | |||
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"Never worn one and never will. But they look fucking horny on fully-dressed sissies. " ![]() | |||
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"However night time erections will be "painful" but that can be a positive for you if you are that way inclined!" Oh ain't that the truth! First one I used I woke up at 4am in some discomfort as the ring was too small. Problem was the pain got me more excited which simply made the problem worse. Was beginning to panic and had to resort to frozen peas to get the damn thing off. ![]() | |||
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![]() "However night time erections will be "painful" but that can be a positive for you if you are that way inclined! Oh ain't that the truth! First one I used I woke up at 4am in some discomfort as the ring was too small. Problem was the pain got me more excited which simply made the problem worse. Was beginning to panic and had to resort to frozen peas to get the damn thing off. ![]() | |||
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"I’ve wavered . Should I lock back up and finish month or wait till next year ? Xxx" I think you know the answer. Rather disappointing you've left yourself lf down ![]() | |||
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"I’ve wavered . Should I lock back up and finish month or wait till next year ? Xxx I think you know the answer. Rather disappointing you've left yourself lf down ![]() That’s exactly how I feel xxx | |||
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"I’ve wavered . Should I lock back up and finish month or wait till next year ? Xxx I think you know the answer. Rather disappointing you've left yourself lf down ![]() You know how to rectify it. I guess as punishment you can experience the new Lockvember too. | |||
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"I’ve wavered . Should I lock back up and finish month or wait till next year ? Xxx I think you know the answer. Rather disappointing you've left yourself lf down ![]() NOvember ![]() | |||
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"Love cages! Building up longer and longer. Especially love when Mrs licks my cock through the bars and teases the fuck out of me for a few days! When it finally comes off and I get hard and cum, it is the best feeling! ![]() So jealous. Very lucky. | |||
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"Love cages! Building up longer and longer. Especially love when Mrs licks my cock through the bars and teases the fuck out of me for a few days! When it finally comes off and I get hard and cum, it is the best feeling! ![]() Did she not get the memo that it should only be removed for cleaning? ![]() | |||
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"Love cages! Building up longer and longer. Especially love when Mrs licks my cock through the bars and teases the fuck out of me for a few days! When it finally comes off and I get hard and cum, it is the best feeling! ![]() ![]() Shhhh! Don't give her ideas ![]() | |||
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"Love cages! Building up longer and longer. Especially love when Mrs licks my cock through the bars and teases the fuck out of me for a few days! When it finally comes off and I get hard and cum, it is the best feeling! ![]() You may find the calendar in the house mysteriously disappears on 31 October ![]() | |||
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"We have just started using one. Me the male half have to say I love it. The build up is amazing and by the time I’m out I’m ready to go. It’s strange when you first go out and about with one on and suddenly remember it especially if the wife and key aren’t there. Defo more fun to be had. " Just make sure you don't get hit by a bus when you are out lol | |||
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"May be a silly question but how do you go to toilet with a cage on especially if it's locked? And if someone else has the key? What if they don't unlock it? Curious " They have holes at the front to pee out of, although need to be lined up or it's a mess! It's a bit if a trust thing, I trust that if I need it off Mrs will give me key. I wouldn't give anyone else key though! ![]() | |||
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"And if someone else has the key? What if they don't unlock it? Curious " If you get one with a built in lock, nearly all of them use a generic key. Obviously if you use a real padlock one, things are a bit more serious, but ultimately no different to if you let someone tie you to the bed or you tie someone to the bed. The hottest thing is being out on a date night and her having the key on her necklace in display sat across from you at the table. | |||
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"And if someone else has the key? What if they don't unlock it? Curious If you get one with a built in lock, nearly all of them use a generic key. Obviously if you use a real padlock one, things are a bit more serious, but ultimately no different to if you let someone tie you to the bed or you tie someone to the bed. The hottest thing is being out on a date night and her having the key on her necklace in display sat across from you at the table. " I’ve always wanted to see a key on a necklace in public !!!! | |||
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"I've got a couple of photos on our profile if anyone wants a look " The cage in your photos looks amazing - cast metal parts instead of wire. Could you advise make & model, and maybe where you got it from please? | |||
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"I've got a couple of photos on our profile if anyone wants a look The cage in your photos looks amazing - cast metal parts instead of wire. Could you advise make & model, and maybe where you got it from please?" It's an Ali Express "special" it's not perfect and has a couple of rough bits but it's very nice for the money. https://a.aliexpress.com/_EzQVl5Z | |||
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"The only thing I hate about them is going to the toilet . " I agree but I use it as a reminder of the submission that I’ve given my key holder. | |||
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"Well, you can’f really - that’s the point. Sometimes it can swell very uncomfortably though" Yeah but guys get hard on’s all the time and what about morning glory ? | |||
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"How many people enjoy wearing them? I find it so hot that I can't pleasure my penis when dressing and playing. I've also reached a milestone today; been locked all afternoon, and visited two shops and checked in at the hotel. I feel so hot!" sounds like you should try locktober and pass your key over to a safe pair of hands... ![]() | |||
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"Well, you can’f really - that’s the point. Sometimes it can swell very uncomfortably though Yeah but guys get hard on’s all the time and what about morning glory ? " That’s normally when I find the most swelling to be honest - still doesn’t really get hard as such though | |||
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"Well, you can’f really - that’s the point. Sometimes it can swell very uncomfortably though Yeah but guys get hard on’s all the time and what about morning glory ? " Depends on the cage. With mine, I get a little hard on but its not a full on morning glory display its quite restricted. Its actually more useful than an alarm clock haha. | |||
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"Do you just wear the cage to bed or do you wear knickers over it to keep it in place " Cage only here. | |||
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"I love it when my wife puts me in my cock cage and arranges to meet her boyfriend. Best ever was when she went to a club with him and left me in my cage at home. My mind was going crazy and cock trobbin!!" I have the same cage | |||
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