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REALLY??? Is this really OK ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Absolutely not into bareback, and depresses me how many people are.

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Would not go near that with a barge pole personally

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It happens everywhere

My preference is bareback but 90% of the profiles that message me state safe, many several times

When I point that out to them they say it's in their bios because that's what most people want to see but everyone prefers bare if given the choice... no, choose one camp and stick to it, so everyone knows where they stand

That's why I believe FAB should let you state bare on your 'interests' and give us the option to automatically block certain interests, so you could block anyone that's states bare & I could block all the liars that state safe but play bare

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Surely you can just scroll past and not participate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens everywhere

My preference is bareback but 90% of the profiles that message me state safe, many several times

When I point that out to them they say it's in their bios because that's what most people want to see but everyone prefers bare if given the choice... no, choose one camp and stick to it, so everyone knows where they stand

That's why I believe FAB should let you state bare on your 'interests' and give us the option to automatically block certain interests, so you could block anyone that's states bare & I could block all the liars that state safe but play bare "

THIS! People are free to play how they want to play but don’t do one thing and claim another. I do oral unprotected which carries a risk but a risk that is much lower than penetrative sex so I’d like to minimise the chances of me catching something by only playing with guys who don’t play bareback.

No play is 100% safe but people being honest would lower the risk!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Kink shaming isn't acceptable either.. if I see things I don't like as a regular basis on my updates... I just block that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Disgusting behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one seems to be bothered theses days about infections and diseases they just go and get treatment like it’s a everyday thing

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Rediculous

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Safe sex should not be an option within likes.

Instead people should choose between 'safe sex' and 'bare back' just like they do when stating thier sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best thing to do is hotlist them and block anyone that meets them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i guess it was that he sent me a friend request ? ive declined and blocked him ..

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"It happens everywhere

My preference is bareback but 90% of the profiles that message me state safe, many several times

When I point that out to them they say it's in their bios because that's what most people want to see but everyone prefers bare if given the choice... no, choose one camp and stick to it, so everyone knows where they stand

That's why I believe FAB should let you state bare on your 'interests' and give us the option to automatically block certain interests, so you could block anyone that's states bare & I could block all the liars that state safe but play bare

THIS! People are free to play how they want to play but don’t do one thing and claim another. I do oral unprotected which carries a risk but a risk that is much lower than penetrative sex so I’d like to minimise the chances of me catching something by only playing with guys who don’t play bareback.

No play is 100% safe but people being honest would lower the risk!"

This......!

I haven't had bareback for thirty years, and then it was my now ex wife. Always wear a condom. (Except in a fantasy in my head of course)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewww, not into bareback at all.

Too much risk, too little reward.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Safe sex should not be an option within likes.

Instead people should choose between 'safe sex' and 'bare back' just like they do when stating thier sexuality"

Love this idea

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Probably best thing to do is hotlist them and block anyone that meets them "

This

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Do you HONESTLY believe this guy has 40 “bareback sluts” ( ) at his behest ? I very much think not. More likely 100 guys and a couple of greedy ladies… if even that ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life."

Swingers are fucking strangers all over the place. It's not this website's job to baby sit people..

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

I think/hope by group he/she means a chat group of some kind and not a local meet group but could be wrong. Don't think there are that many actively having bareback sex but maybe that is just the people we tend to meet although have seen at a party and one guy tried to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

Do you HONESTLY believe this guy has 40 “bareback sluts” ( ) at his behest ? I very much think not. More likely 100 guys and a couple of greedy ladies… if even that …."

Probably 1 guy wanking in his mum's garage.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

Do you HONESTLY believe this guy has 40 “bareback sluts” ( ) at his behest ? I very much think not. More likely 100 guys and a couple of greedy ladies… if even that ….

Probably 1 guy wanking in his mum's garage. "

Hope he has a big garage to squash his forty horny sluts in , or maybe just get empty paint can see how long it takes , to fill it.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Everyone has their own preferences.

They may not be your preferences, but others are allowed to choose what works for them.

As long as it's consensual, does it matter to anybody else?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Probably 1 guy wanking in his mum's panties"

Lolz!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Each to their own, but that said that is what the block button is for

I would rather know before I ended up in an awkward situation with someone expecting bareback

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I would imagine everyone female and male would prefer sex without a condom, the health risk is one thing and that will naturally be a consideration for both when deciding how they want sex. For me birth control is the biggest factor and that’s where the women can be far more confident of not getting pregnant as she knows her own protection. A guy on the other hand has no idea if there is thorough protection in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life."

I don’t see how it’s FABs responsibility to educate consenting adults on basic sex education. For me its just one of the many things that gets discussed prior to meeting as I take responsibility for my own health. There’s different people for everyone and all tastes.

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

It's extremely easy to avoid STDs - just stop having sex! Anything else has a variable amount of risk depending on your practices and your partners. There is no such thing as 0% risk - you could be in a monogamous relationship with an unfaithful partner without your knowledge.

It is up to everyone to decide what risk they are comfortable. If you have multiple partners, regular iCASH testing is a good idea - it is free and the NHS doesn't care if you are a swinger, they just want to keep you safe.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life.

I don’t see how it’s FABs responsibility to educate consenting adults on basic sex education. For me its just one of the many things that gets discussed prior to meeting as I take responsibility for my own health. There’s different people for everyone and all tastes. "

You don't think a company that makes money from promoting sex has a moral responsibility for it's members? Promoting safe sex should be a given as it's obvious by the number of unsafe sex threads far outweighs any safe sex message Fab puts out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i guess it was that he sent me a friend request ? ive declined and blocked him .."

Has he got veris showing, if so do what the guy above you had said so you'll know who he's met, Anna you can avoid,

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By *ountry PeaksCouple
over a year ago

In The Surrey Hills

Re the OPs question -

No filters on status updates is a blessing, in this case as you can see that there is a potential risk - in your eyes - locally, so you can avoid.

No difference to when some users post openly about ‘snow’, it will draw some in and repel others.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Tens of thousands of people here means thousands of them won't match you. Ignore them and find those who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safe sex should not be an option within likes.

Instead people should choose between 'safe sex' and 'bare back' just like they do when stating thier sexuality

Love this idea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life.

Swingers are fucking strangers all over the place. It's not this website's job to baby sit people.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of heavy judgement… each to their own we say

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By *lim and louiseCouple
over a year ago

dromore

How many men ,chat to couples and they state that they play only safe .then the man suddenly wants to go bareback

We as a couple have had a few like that ,we've stuck to our guns to,if he's not interested in covering up don't bother undressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink shaming isn't acceptable either.. if I see things I don't like as a regular basis on my updates... I just block that person. "

Couldn't agree more about kink shaming not being acceptable it's ironic really,swinging promotes itself as non-judgemental and welcoming to all yet here we have a thread full of judgemental comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP in answer to your question.

IMO it’s 100% okay.

People are free to do as they wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On PrEP and get tested regularly, and only been unfortunate to have caught Chlamydia from activity at Club and took 7# days meds. and waited a whole two months until tested again and rec’d the all clear.

Only sure way is to not have sex, since the risk of catching STI’s/STD’s is always present if unlucky (with or without condom)...

Each to own, simply enjoy and pass by others that don’t meet your liking...

Plenty fish in sea for ALL to have fun with like minded peeps.

Enjoy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

I’d much prefer my being the only gurl and 50# men exercising each of my holes

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By *ominyouMan
over a year ago

London

I see the bareback police are out giving tickets as usual. Do I judge any of you? If you don't like my profile feel free to scroll past and yes my group really does have 40 women and 50 men who enjoy bareback sex, All the women/couples in the group are far hotter than the ones gobbing off about them in this thread. Happy fabbing.

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Surely you can just scroll past and not participate. "

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I like it when people are open and frank on their status updates, it’s better than them hiding what I don’t like. I can block and move on

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth


"Safe sex should not be an option within likes.

Instead people should choose between 'safe sex' and 'bare back' just like they do when stating thier sexuality"

Dammit man! You found the foolproof way forward! I for one have NEVER had a straight man approach me for a fuck, oh, wait...

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By *ominyouMan
over a year ago

London


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club. "

Wow, rare for someone who is the subject of a forum ‘rant’ to post on the thread. You do like to take risks!

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By *ldguy68Man
over a year ago

London

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

Sounds like an amazing group, I definitely want to join

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By *ldguy68Man
over a year ago

London

Too many self-righteous bullies on here. Condoms DO NOT protect from many sti's, also most of these safe sex advocates practice oral sex the sad clueless hypocrites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people take precautions in the hope to keep themselves safe, whilst at the same time trying to value not only their health but a good time.

Be that sexual or even driving on the roads.

Damn right they'll judge others that they feel take less precautions and therefore step to the risk factor.

Be it fact or fiction that risks are higher.

It's a bit of tough shit if you're judged. Own it. (shrugs)

Let me add, I've not expressed my viewpoint on this, only how it's fair to be judged.

To me, way too often, not just in this sense, but in many, those suggesting they shouldn't be judged or only God can judge me crap, they are really hoping to avoid accountability, not judgement.

Have a good life, whatever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many self-righteous bullies on here. Condoms DO NOT protect from many sti's, also most of these safe sex advocates practice oral sex the sad clueless hypocrites. "

And your comment doesn't come across as self righteous bullying, right?

Maybe take a look at your last line.

Gawd, for an 'adult' site, it's laughable at how very few people here can actually debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A cess pool of STD. How many women feel pushed into unsafe sex, either by their husbands or partners? How many "single" men use the site to have unprotected sex and go back to their partners? Is it not time the site took some responsibility and stop bareback threads on forums? Their safe sex "page" is pitiful and hidden away near the bottom of the page. Remember, an STD could be for life.

I don’t see how it’s FABs responsibility to educate consenting adults on basic sex education. For me its just one of the many things that gets discussed prior to meeting as I take responsibility for my own health. There’s different people for everyone and all tastes. "

If you don't feel comfortable making your own decisions about your sexual health, you probably shouldn't be having sex, let alone on a swinging site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

Wow, rare for someone who is the subject of a forum ‘rant’ to post on the thread. You do like to take risks!

"

is off to join the local ramblers ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

Wow, rare for someone who is the subject of a forum ‘rant’ to post on the thread. You do like to take risks!

is off to join the local ramblers ....

Some very naughty ramblers about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many self-righteous bullies on here. Condoms DO NOT protect from many sti's, also most of these safe sex advocates practice oral sex the sad clueless hypocrites. "

Because of course the risk is equal? Clue: it’s not!

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock


"Kink shaming isn't acceptable either.. if I see things I don't like as a regular basis on my updates... I just block that person.

Couldn't agree more about kink shaming not being acceptable it's ironic really,swinging promotes itself as non-judgemental and welcoming to all yet here we have a thread full of judgemental comments."

Totally agree.

Since the pandemic, the whole country has turned into some sort of ‘nanny state’ telling other people how to live their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink shaming isn't acceptable either.. if I see things I don't like as a regular basis on my updates... I just block that person.

Couldn't agree more about kink shaming not being acceptable it's ironic really,swinging promotes itself as non-judgemental and welcoming to all yet here we have a thread full of judgemental comments.

Totally agree.

Since the pandemic, the whole country has turned into some sort of ‘nanny state’ telling other people how to live their lives.

"

Though I quoted you, my reply is cross board, not specific to you, so please don't take it personally.

I disagree with this.

I've been in and off these forums for around fifteen years, and let me tell you, they are far less attacking on this subject than in previous years.

Once upon a time, any conversation on this matter would be jumped on with the majority standing against bareback.

Now we use terms like 'kink shaming', 'snowflakes' and the likes to try to silence people from expressing an opinion we don't want to see/read/hear.

Any advocate of bareback, by all means say so, maybe express why you feel it's fine.

But don't try to silence people from expressing a different viewpoint.

It's highly manipulative.

There's a huge difference between expressing a concern and kink shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am I the only guy that prefer sex with a condom even for play I like using the flavour condoms as the seem tighter

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club. "

It is in fact absolutely ok to judge others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

It is in fact absolutely ok to judge others. "

Anyone who says they don’t judge others is lying to themselves! There isn’t a human on earth who doesn’t judge others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's ok for people to have consensual bare back sex, yep. I'm not into it, so I would avoid men on this site who want it.

You could have just bypassed the status, blocked the guy and gone on your way. Instead you've started a pile on. That's not ok IMO.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Why do people join a swinging site then get offended or appalled by the consentual behaviour of others and feel the need to express their disgust. It's not for you, turn the page till you find something that is for you!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

Bareback with strangers, particularly in groups, is just not a sensible idea. I automatically block accounts that mention it.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

In the grand scheme of all that goes on here, folks having bareback sex isn't on my list of concerns

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Do you that's true though? I'm guessing it's a chat group, rather than a meeting group? Maybe just where people fantasise, but even it's a group to arrange meets at least they're honest about what they're doing and want. People can at least then decide if they want to interact with them

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Right now somewhere on this site two guys who like wearing their wives knickers are arranging to meet for anal sex, not my cup of tea but best of luck boys enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Really is this OK ?!

Was the OP question.

Who knows if it’s ok? Not my gig I have to say but the op poses a question as to why she should be able to read or be subjected to the requirements (Read Fantasy) of others.

Being on a recreational sex site there is a chance there maybe others with requirements that maybe out side the comfort zone of others.

I would suggest the op stops participating in or searching for such sites.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Bareback, you have no standards, bell end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely not into bareback, and depresses me how many people are."

Why would a Personal choice depress your mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bareback, you have no standards, bell end"

One of many men who are ingratiating themselves to a wider audience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

Do you that's true though? I'm guessing it's a chat group, rather than a meeting group? Maybe just where people fantasise, but even it's a group to arrange meets at least they're honest about what they're doing and want. People can at least then

decide if they want to interact with them "

Of course it’s not true!

It’s the product of an over fertile imagination of which there are many on fab!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I don't get all the hate towards people doing what they want.

I don't want intimate meets.. but I don't block or go ewww to stuff that doesn't suit me..

Personally bareback is not for me but it does happen

.and its perfectly acceptable as long as people are all in agreement

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By *ominyouMan
over a year ago

London


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

Wow, rare for someone who is the subject of a forum ‘rant’ to post on the thread. You do like to take risks!

is off to join the local ramblers ....

Some very naughty ramblers about

"

I love it when people try to lecture using their own facts lol

Condoms only offer protection from chlamydia and gonorrhoea however the majority of sti's including herpes and syphilis are cortracted via skin contact.

Best to research before spouting off

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

i think if there was a way to get a accurate % on safer sex or bare sex i this the swinging world would be shocked i believe bareback would be a very hi majority bearing in mind 90%/95% of swingers dont use the forums or go to clubs they meet in private

ive met lots of couples over the years very few of them mention or even bring condoms even after talking about safe sex and same goes for guys many have that box ticked yet very few bring the condoms - i keep very small condoms as a point to prove ie the meet goes no further the safe sex tick box means nothing

i think at the very least if your a swinger safer or bare you should test regular

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Absolutely not into bareback, and depresses me how many people are."

Haha, only 4 or 5 would turn up and 3 of the guys that bid would not be able to get it up anyway.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Let people play as they wish you have no right to judge.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

We don’t do bareback but Jesus Christ the amount of self righteous judgement here is awful.

Don’t like someone’s preferences? Ignore it.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"We don’t do bareback but Jesus Christ the amount of self righteous judgement here is awful.

Don’t like someone’s preferences? Ignore it. "

Amen to that

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

Do you HONESTLY believe this guy has 40 “bareback sluts” ( ) at his behest ? I very much think not. More likely 100 guys and a couple of greedy ladies… if even that ….

Probably 1 guy wanking in his mum's garage.

Hope he has a big garage to squash his forty horny sluts in , or maybe just get empty paint can see how long it takes , to fill it. "

If they dress up as clowns they'll all fit in a mini

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in "

It's not ok to judge others, I suggest you go join a rambling club.

Wow, rare for someone who is the subject of a forum ‘rant’ to post on the thread. You do like to take risks!

is off to join the local ramblers ....

"

Bare footed

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

It really is about personal preference but it would be good to be able to filter on preference

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Jesus the judgemental kink shaming in here is fucking ridiculous.

We play safe, but it's a personal preference. Don't act holier than thou because your risk assessment happens to be more sensitive than others.

We're all fucking strangers we meet on the internet, and it's fucking wonderful, let people do what they want, don't meet them if you don't like it, and move on.

We are all engaging in "high risk behaviours" compared to the monogamous. So be it.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


" IS there any kind of filter on what people post as their status ...this today on my local feed ..it makes me very wary of meeting anyone local if this is happening on my doorstep ...Im certainly no prude but it only takes one infected person !!!!........ " My bareback group is getting really busy, 40 bareback sluts and 50 men, cum join in " "

Yes, really. It really is ok.

Your welcome

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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Everyone has their own preferences.

They may not be your preferences, but others are allowed to choose what works for them.

As long as it's consensual, does it matter to anybody else?"

I totally agree with this comment, if you engage in safe sex only you have nothing to worry about on the whole, why is it anyone else’s business if someone likes BB? It’s their body and they should be free to take whatever risks they choose to.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Jesus the judgemental kink shaming in here is fucking ridiculous.

We play safe, but it's a personal preference. Don't act holier than thou because your risk assessment happens to be more sensitive than others.

We're all fucking strangers we meet on the internet, and it's fucking wonderful, let people do what they want, don't meet them if you don't like it, and move on.

We are all engaging in "high risk behaviours" compared to the monogamous. So be it. "

3 pounds in the swear jar please

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

Fucks sake

**Claxxon**

You are fined four credits for violation of the verbal morality statute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its consensual and all parties know what they're doing it's nobody's right to get so aggressive, vocal about it. I do porn also and we get tested after every meet. Never had an issue and all we've met keep clean too.we're already on a pretty deviant site so gatekeeping kinks is a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like to take risks, some like to play safe and some just say one thing and do another

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I recon there's more people do bareback on here than don't. Only one person I've spoke to in messages has said they wouldn't have sex without a condom and never had anyone insist on wearing then.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

It’s very likely to be absolute bullshit.

I love bukkake meets and I’ve had chats with at least 15 guys who’ve stated they have a group of guys etc etc etc

How many actually have? One.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the bareback police are out giving tickets as usual. Do I judge any of you? If you don't like my profile feel free to scroll past and yes my group really does have 40 women and 50 men who enjoy bareback sex, All the women/couples in the group are far hotter than the ones gobbing off about them in this thread. Happy fabbing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's ok for people to have consensual bare back sex, yep. I'm not into it, so I would avoid men on this site who want it.

You could have just bypassed the status, blocked the guy and gone on your way. Instead you've started a pile on. That's not ok IMO."

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

I think it's OK to ask the question if it's OK.. And to have an adult discussion about something that will effect many people.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I think it's OK to ask the question if it's OK.. And to have an adult discussion about something that will effect many people. "

“Adult discussion” doing a lot of heavy liffting, in this thread, and on the forums in general.

YMMV

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"I see the bareback police are out giving tickets as usual. Do I judge any of you? If you don't like my profile feel free to scroll past and yes my group really does have 40 women and 50 men who enjoy bareback sex, All the women/couples in the group are far hotter than the ones gobbing off about them in this thread. Happy fabbing."

Oh jeez that's a bit of an aggressive last sentence. You sounds like a real charmer.

Anyway having clicked the profile I see it's a kik group spread far and wide no doubt. Having run a couple of kik groups and seen hundreds/thoudands passing through I would guess most of the those people don't meet many others so anti-bareback warriors can rest easy

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By *ingdong11Man
over a year ago

emsworth


"Safe sex should not be an option within likes.

Instead people should choose between 'safe sex' and 'bare back' just like they do when stating thier sexuality"

Nope , def shouldn’t , that’s daft.

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By *estLondonDeepMan
over a year ago

London

I block folks who regularly post updates that really annoy me or I vehemently disagree with. Everyone has a right to their opinion, so I let them get on with it.

Keeps the blood pressure at the right level

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