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MFM threesomes - how often?

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By *jkuk72 OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Herts

As a single guy here, I am curious to hear how often you fab people have MFM threesomes outside the club environment. I have been lucky enough to have had a few nice meets, but not that many. Not looking for help or advice, just statistics . And no, I don’t work for Sydney University , just curious, that’s all

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By *igBeauty14Couple
over a year ago

grimsby

It’s my favourite thing to do. I’ve had a couple and none of them in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had MFM outside of a club, only FFM although to be honest I’ve only very rarely been on the lookout for it.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I've had a few in clubs and in private houses , my first in 2018...and I was nervous before hand , found it amazingly errotic and rewarding seeing the lady enjoy herself , and couldn't quite believe what had happened after ...

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

As much as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a few MFM but I prefer MMF.

Never been to a club x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are extremely lucky to have had lots of mfm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regularly probably a couple of times a month

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Something I (ms) am keen to explore given right situation. Not happened yet

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By *tagvixen40Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We try for at least once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few mfm all out of the club setting, but doesn’t happen all that often

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By *UCKiliketofuckMan
over a year ago

kettering

Iv never had one but always wanted one…. Just can’t find it. Not been my time

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't go to clubs, but I've enjoyed the pleasure of 2 men together several times

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Never tried but done mostly ffm fffmm

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Also ff and fff

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By *pun84Man
over a year ago

Doncaster


"As much as possible "

As i was scrolling thinking this exact same thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average either MFM/MMMF about once a month but always in clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would have one or two a week if we could find the right guys. So many guys on Fab, so few that we want to actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would have one or two a week if we could find the right guys. So many guys on Fab, so few that we want to actually meet. "

We are often told that.

We are reliable !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approximately about every two week to three weeks

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

All our mfm fun been outside of club as never been to swinging club before. Sadly not played with others for sometime now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly not happened yet!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Quite often. Mr has set us up with 2 one after another tomorrow. I'm so lucky.

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

we had a lot it's our main thing we do now

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Never had any combination of the 3 letters

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

We do love mfm had a few outside clubs but mainly with guys we’ve met in clubs previously and got to know no pressure in clubs but meets can be difficult

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

MFM are good, MMF are much better

We enjoy them as often as possible, (finding suitable, reliable guys isn't easy) but it's mostly in a club for convenience.

Outside? Only once in the last 6 months, but (hopefully) we will have the second planned soon

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have lots mfm 3sums and love it I love a woman that enjoys 2 or more guys at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had quite a lot of MFM meets over the years

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

Most of our meetings are mmf with lots being in private homes although some in clubs too

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By *ork and MindyMan
over a year ago

Southampton

We love it,also mmmf

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

A regular couple would be nice.

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By *jkuk72 OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"A regular couple would be nice. "

It would be indeed

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Love being the third in a MMF. with a loving straight or bi curious couple, clubs and beyond

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Think my last one was well over a year ago

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

Friday our next one

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

It’s the best thing especially if the guys like touching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy here, I am curious to hear how often you fab people have MFM threesomes outside the club environment. I have been lucky enough to have had a few nice meets, but not that many. Not looking for help or advice, just statistics . And no, I don’t work for Sydney University , just curious, that’s all "

Not that regularly but had numerous from this site over the years, none have been in clubs.

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

That’s what we are here for but not often enough.

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By *inky_CD71Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

A few. Great getting the pics shared afterwards. Got a couple in my gallery.

First MMF was hot and sweaty. The wife and I then met again a few weeks later and sent hubby pics while he was in the pub with his mates.

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By *hicDragon08Man
over a year ago

Woodbridge

What do the woman prefer? All in or just having ro cocks to play with?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"As a single guy here, I am curious to hear how often you fab people have MFM threesomes outside the club environment. I have been lucky enough to have had a few nice meets, but not that many. Not looking for help or advice, just statistics . And no, I don’t work for Sydney University , just curious, that’s all "

I've only had 3 mfm's in clubs (the sum total of all my plays out of 17 club visits), but many more in private meets, including fmf

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple. "

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Had afew M/M/F and good fun and don't do the club scene and some of them have been from males on here ( not many as way to many dreamers) and few from males we've picked up in bars/pubs or a pizza place once !

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By *jkuk72 OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


" Had afew M/M/F and good fun and don't do the club scene and some of them have been from males on here ( not many as way to many dreamers) and few from males we've picked up in bars/pubs or a pizza place once !"

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Most of my meets are MFM or more; I'm a good team player

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I would love to everyday, had the best experiences in this scenario

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women "

I would have to agree, I also think the fact that bi guys are well accepted here and it’s probably easier to get your dick sucked goes a fair way to persuading men to try bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every week

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Maybe every 3 months but we have friends who do it once a week, I think everyone’s different.

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By *jkuk72 OP   Man
over a year ago

London & Herts


"Maybe every 3 months but we have friends who do it once a week, I think everyone’s different. "

Indeed!

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

Sometimes having a good night can thrust you into wanting a few a week haha

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By *spotpleasurerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I've experienced both mmf and mff in clubs and privately. Threesomes are the main reason I'm on fab - for 1 on 1 there are so many ways to meet people. It's harder in real life to chat to a couple and ask if they fancy a threesome, at least here we're all after the same thing.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

I would have to agree, I also think the fact that bi guys are well accepted here and it’s probably easier to get your dick sucked goes a fair way to persuading men to try bi"

That's more about desperation though; can't find a woman to have some fun with, but there's any amount of guys willing to suck cock, so why not....?

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women "

Actually we find it's the other way around!

We have quite a few single woman who are regular play partners that have either approached us on fab or IRL.

Guys who can actually hold a conversation and turn up when they say they will, much harder to find!

K x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

Actually we find it's the other way around!

We have quite a few single woman who are regular play partners that have either approached us on fab or IRL.

Guys who can actually hold a conversation and turn up when they say they will, much harder to find!

K x"

Are any of these ladies straight, and looking for 121 with straight men?

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolves


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

Actually we find it's the other way around!

We have quite a few single woman who are regular play partners that have either approached us on fab or IRL.

Guys who can actually hold a conversation and turn up when they say they will, much harder to find!this seems to be the major gripe for couples, finding a guy who does what it says on the tin!

Most of my meets are MFM and having verifications can go a long way. I attended a couple of meets where it supposed to be 4 guys and I'm the only one who turned up.

But as an answer to OP: my fave thing and as often as possible..

K x"

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

Actually we find it's the other way around!

We have quite a few single woman who are regular play partners that have either approached us on fab or IRL.

Guys who can actually hold a conversation and turn up when they say they will, much harder to find!

K x

Are any of these ladies straight, and looking for 121 with straight men? "

Funnily enough I don't get chatted up by many straight women so you will have to find your own

K -the female half of the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only done it once but looking for more. It was with an older french couple who unfortunately aren't on this site but it was very fun and very horny.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would say I have had an equal mix inside and outside a club.

They are the easiest of 3 somes to have and me and a mate used to regularly team up for naughty fun.

Also in a club there is always a willing guy around if you are there as part of a couple.

The club scene reflects Fab in general; very few single women

Actually we find it's the other way around!

We have quite a few single woman who are regular play partners that have either approached us on fab or IRL.

Guys who can actually hold a conversation and turn up when they say they will, much harder to find!

K x

Are any of these ladies straight, and looking for 121 with straight men?

Funnily enough I don't get chatted up by many straight women so you will have to find your own

K -the female half of the couple "

That was my point

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

With my gf tend to have one every couple of months.

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By *ussinboots1888Couple
over a year ago

bradford

Had 3 in last 6 months or so but wanted more,usual story of something’s come up 10 minutes before shag time

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Couple of times each month we have MMF or MFM at home. Only once in a club, as we find they tend to be more MF(+M(e) watching) or MMMMMF in the open play areas.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough says he

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"As a single guy here, I am curious to hear how often you fab people have MFM threesomes outside the club environment. I have been lucky enough to have had a few nice meets, but not that many. Not looking for help or advice, just statistics . And no, I don’t work for Sydney University , just curious, that’s all "

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few mfm meets in the past on a mm couple profile, we had quite a few amazing meets sadly all good things comes to an end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a couple both outside of clubs.

We want more too, obviously. Life gets in the way though, which is probably a good thing. We don't want to get addicted.

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By *uncouplerkCouple
over a year ago

TD


"We've had a couple both outside of clubs.

We want more too, obviously. Life gets in the way though, which is probably a good thing. We don't want to get addicted. "

Haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s about once a month or 6 weeks for us.

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By *b750Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Can be very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never enough!

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Never enough!"

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Not enough but i prefer bi MMF anyway.

It's good to share

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We are drifting more and more to clubs. It's easier to socialise. No chance of being let down and there is no embarrassment of meeting someone and not wanting to play with them. So much more relaxed than home meets. So our MMF's are almost exclusive in clubs these days

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"We are drifting more and more to clubs. It's easier to socialise. No chance of being let down and there is no embarrassment of meeting someone and not wanting to play with them. So much more relaxed than home meets. So our MMF's are almost exclusive in clubs these days"

I find meeting in clubs is much better and there doesn't seem to be that awkward first meet situation either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are drifting more and more to clubs. It's easier to socialise. No chance of being let down and there is no embarrassment of meeting someone and not wanting to play with them. So much more relaxed than home meets. So our MMF's are almost exclusive in clubs these days

I find meeting in clubs is much better and there doesn't seem to be that awkward first meet situation either. "

Whilst we enjoy clubs and attend often we rarely play with another guy there.

When we have it’s felt hurried and ultimately unsatisfactory.

A flirty social followed by some hot text exchanges and than a long evening at a hotel a few days later really floats our boat.

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"We are drifting more and more to clubs. It's easier to socialise. No chance of being let down and there is no embarrassment of meeting someone and not wanting to play with them. So much more relaxed than home meets. So our MMF's are almost exclusive in clubs these days

I find meeting in clubs is much better and there doesn't seem to be that awkward first meet situation either.

Whilst we enjoy clubs and attend often we rarely play with another guy there.

When we have it’s felt hurried and ultimately unsatisfactory.

A flirty social followed by some hot text exchanges and than a long evening at a hotel a few days later really floats our boat.

"

Agree with that but has to be an un rushed social first with like you say drinks and some flirting. Hot texts are great.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

The only experience we have of MFM fun is with one of my best mates - however it was a (on/off) relationship that lasted the best part of 20 years.

We had a lot of fun together in that time.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Before I had so many other commitments, it used to be something that happened at least once a week with established friends because I can accommodate in comfortable surroundings. Almost everyone told me though that finding reliable and trustworthy guys like myself who could tick all their boxes, and accommodate overnight if required wasn't as easy as it sounds.

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Never, I have never had one.

As a SF it's hard to find one guy.

I click/trust/satisfying but finding two at the same time is-it seems- non existent.

I have always wanted an MFM but don't want it to be in a club.... So I doubt it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never, I have never had one.

As a SF it's hard to find one guy.

I click/trust/satisfying but finding two at the same time is-it seems- non existent.

I have always wanted an MFM but don't want it to be in a club.... So I doubt it will happen.

"

Perhaps if you got some recommendations from

Couples or look at their verification trail for the first guy and if that worked then find the second guy together with him?

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Had a few MFM meets. We’re great fun all round.

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Me n the wife have got our first mmf meet tomorrow, we're looking forward to it.

Hope not to nervous or get let down by second M, like in the past.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Almost every club visit sees me enjoy one or more threesomes or moresomes, and over time we have met a couple of guys that we got on well with and have met occasionally (and not often enough!) outside the club scene.

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Never, I have never had one.

As a SF it's hard to find one guy.

I click/trust/satisfying but finding two at the same time is-it seems- non existent.

I have always wanted an MFM but don't want it to be in a club.... So I doubt it will happen.

Perhaps if you got some recommendations from

Couples or look at their verification trail for the first guy and if that worked then find the second guy together with him? "

Note to self

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

A few but not enough, we are still seeking that regular plus one x

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

When time allows probably twice a month? Has been more but that’s the ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh you couples, on my dream list, but not a one off,

Message me

Mark

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Me n the wife have got our first mmf meet tomorrow, we're looking forward to it.

Hope not to nervous or get let down by second M, like in the past."

Did you have a great time?

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By *ravellerukMan
over a year ago

Burnham

With my wife we manage an MFM only 3-4 times a year as our calendars are just crazy.

Had one 3sum on my own with another couple,

Hoping for more of them, but life has a habit of getting in the way

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

All our meets have been mfm with one mmmf never been to a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough.

Once a month a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a hot thing to get down too, any couples want to use me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only in fantasies

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By *uds1Couple
over a year ago

lanark

A few

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