FabSwingers.com forum: Does posting a cock profile pic actually work ?

By *ollywood2020 OP Man
over a year ago

bristol

This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

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By *hroatitboyMan
over a year ago

GLA

If it’s a nice cock then it doesn’t affront me haha. Some don’t need to be on show though.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

It depends how big it is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even have one in my gallery.

Sometimes less is more.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

But it can depend if their has been any creativity rather than look I have a cock

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

It might work for me, but then...

But most of the time I'd rather something else, which is pretty hypocritical of me...

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Mine is only there temporarily for Johnson out Tuesday

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It's depends on the cock. Some can be very photogenic, others not.

Some don't like it, some do.

I guess the answer is, it's in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it bother you if couples are naked or if a woman is naked in their profile picture?

Each to their own I say. I love my cock, appreciate others won't buy given how little views my profile gets, I don't think it matters if it's on display or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is only there temporarily for Johnson out Tuesday

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very nice to you definitely shouldn't keep that under wraps

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Seems to work, but I prefer not to see them, so try to lead by example.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Mine is only there temporarily for Johnson out Tuesday

very nice to you definitely shouldn't keep that under wraps

I’ve hidden it again so as to not cause offence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with a cock in a picture, but a profile that has only dick pics is a turn off.

It takes more than a dick to be good in the bedroom. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is only there temporarily for Johnson out Tuesday

very nice to you definitely shouldn't keep that under wraps

I’ve hidden it again so as to not cause offence

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shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

This is a very strange quirk of this site indeed. Received wisdom seems to suggest cock pics are a no no which is really odd, because ultimately most are here for just that. I know they aren't as photogenic as a nice pair of boobs but aren't we also told by mainstream media not to sexualise breasts too? It's all very confusing.

Ultimately I'll post a cock pic if I want.(though not as profile pic) If someone decides to take a look that's their liberty.

I can't quite see how you can have tits and fanny plastered all over this site and be so pious about an image of a penis. Don't like it, move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

Us females also block them

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Mine is only there temporarily for Johnson out Tuesday

very nice to you definitely shouldn't keep that under wraps

I’ve hidden it again so as to not cause offence

shame

Oh don’t be too sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not a profile pic but I do prefer to see them up front.

If men weren't so notorious for lying about their dicks then I wouldn't need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people put on their pages is totally up to them - if admin don't like they will delete.

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"What people put on their pages is totally up to them - if admin don't like they will delete."

this

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By *bostCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

We’ll find out. Just posted one for ‘Johnson out Tuesday ‘ ha ha

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

I guess it depends on a lot off things I put my pic up cuz it’s my most fabbed am sure it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but haters are going to hate

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"[Penis Removed by poster at 06/09/22 14:55:55]"

That had to hurt

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

If it's only dick pictures on a profile we just delete and block them ! and even if we did agree to meet ?? would they would sat in the pub/bar with their smart phones held above their head with a dick pic on display so we'd know who they were ?? and what comes attached to any given body part tends to be governing factor with us but then we are rather strange/weirdo's xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan but then I’m not a size queen either! I’m okay with one artfully taken one in their gallery but hate being sent them in messages or seeing them as profile pics.

I’d add it to my profile but I use their inclusion as a way to quickly filter my messages.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

I totally agree with you. I think a person should make the choice whether they see your genitals or not. Thrusting them into peoples faces in a profile picture is super creepy to me. Instant block (and possibly a few choice words) if I get a message from anyone with a cock profile pic or an unsolicited dick pic.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I dont really care as if meeting will see their cock or fanny soon enough anyway. , enough women have pics of their fanny / asshole / tits out .. .so cant really see it being issue for men ,, I think what most forget is that men out number women by miles , so you see more cock ...

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Absolutely I’ve been inundated with women desperate to tell me to put it away since I got it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.

It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And tempted to change my profile pic to a cock pic as a kind of finger up to the original concept of this post!

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By *iss E99TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Taunton Somerset

Personally I’d like to see the body their cocks attached to and ideally the head attached to the that body.

Why do some guys send loads of photos of their cock and only this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just another part of you, skin and fresh like any other sort of your body. Don’t see what all the fuss is about. There loads of tits, arse, fanny, cum, sex pics and vids, and there is a question when you add pictures of what it shows, and cock is an option.

It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website."

You do you! Nobody is saying you can’t have them and not all women show close ups of their pussy anyway! They just won’t be to everyone’s taste and people are free to say and think that. Showing them may attract the kind of person you want to attract but will certainly put off others but then maybe the type it would put off wouldn’t be for you anyway!

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

" Showing them may attract the kind of person you want to attract but will certainly put off others but then maybe the type it would put off wouldn’t be for you anyway!"

Exactly. For better or worse, someone who hates my pics probably wouldn't like sex with me!

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's up to each person what they choose to show ,I'd just click off a profile if I could only see their cock .However it's their profile & they can post what they want.

My annoyance is those who attach cock pics to first messages they send me ,just why ?!.it's an instant delete and block.

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By *ll make you laughMan
over a year ago

uttoxeter

I’ve never had any luck with posting a cock pic

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My cock looks ridiculous, so I keep it out of my main profile pic

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

My annoyance is those who attach cock pics to first messages they send me ,just why ?!.it's an instant delete and block."

Completely agree. Freedom on profile pics and galleries should be individual though.

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By *aleunicorn500Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"And tempted to change my profile pic to a cock pic as a kind of finger up to the original concept of this post!"

Great idea. Suspect post was borne of the tactic to appear 'woke' and 'not like those brutes' in order to get more. I think he's answered his own question.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website."

The issue isn’t the pics being there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.

I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.

And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website.

The issue isn’t the pics bein

g there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.

I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.

And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.

where do we draw the line at then thought, once you start censoring one thing, then others can chime up but I am offended by xyz,, boobs banned as flashing , bare asscheeks etc .. . its an adult rated website for 18+ , its clearly marked as sensitive media in the site ... this isn't Facebook or some other vanilla website ...

its for adults that want to engage in various adult related activities .. seeing naked parts of bodies is going to be part of that ...

Prob the best solution is if you have to mandatory mark your pics with whats in them ...to even get them posted live .. then have a filter for users to remove said profiles or pictures from appearing that have genitals showing ... it would be easier just to use genitals to catch cocks/cunt pics equally tbh .

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

It’s fab swingers, we are all here for the same reason, so if you can’t handle seeing some cock I think you are on the wrong website.

The issue isn’t the pics bein

g there, it’s making people look at them whether they like it or not. I think people should be able to post whatever they want on their profile, just not on the profile pic.

I don’t actually know why it’s allowed on here when cyberflashing is illegal.

And I’d disagree that we’re all here for the same reason.

its for adults that want to engage in various adult related activities .. seeing naked parts of bodies is going to be part of that ...

I think we should be allowed to post what we like on our profiles, my genitals are on mine. It’s an 18+ site, as you say. But I don’t force those pictures upon people, you have to go looking to be able to find them.

I still think we should act with decorum here. I don’t think it’s appropriate to force people to see your genitals whether they like it or not. I think there should be some consent involved in that.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete messages with a cock as a profile pic without even reading, but then I don’t have close ups of my pussy in my gallery either!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

There's a difference between a cock pic over a toilet and a tasteful cock pic !

I've had to become something of a cock spotter

As Mrs j will say , I wouldn't by a car without seeing it first , or that's not going anywhere near me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the profile pic is just a cock it's instant delete.

What gets me is the effort that guys put into taking their dick pics. If we ask for a face pic they usually send something terrible they've put zero effort into.

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By *hades Of GreyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends how big it is x

This

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"delete.

What gets me is the effort that guys put into taking their dick pics. If we ask for a face pic they usually send something terrible they've put zero effort into. "

No effort needed with a face pic. Faces don't struggle to get hard enough to photograph.

However, it's always better when the face looks 'pleased to see' the photographer!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A cock profile pic can work, but it has to be done in a creative way that makes it stand out

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By *usicianMikeMan
over a year ago

Poulton-le-Fylde

I like to tease mine and have a full on cock pic in my friends only pics.

Feel like that's a good balance for an adult site?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

To answer your question... no.

Absolutely not.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line

If you know you want nothing to do with them, that makes sense. Fewer pics you don’t want to see popping up in your face.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

Strangely it does seem to work for some guys. I've seen profiles overflowing with dick pics, and they have meet veris. Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

Strangely it does seem to work for some guys. I've seen profiles overflowing with dick pics, and they have meet veris. Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for"

Are the pics in the public gallery or are they the profile pic? Big difference

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of."

You can see from reading this thread that that’s not always true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of."

But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not!

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I have one in my gallery that I posted recently. I only posted it because I thought it was a good shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

Guess it just depends what kind of meets you're looking for"

THIS!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I don't mind them on here as it is expected on this kind of site! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have one in my gallery that I posted recently. I only posted it because I thought it was a good shot

Love the tent pole one x

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

Maybe so then. I guess if you are looking for a big one then you won't mind them as profile pictures

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

not as a profile pic, but have one in gallery more torso picture have others but private pm

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.

But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not! "

I see a lot of statuses on women profile clearly stating looking for a big one size queen etc don't contact unless certain size. So surely them type will want to see it as evidence etc and will most likely get a response and message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on who's on who's attached to it

hahahaha

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By *teve09Man
over a year ago

Fakenham

The French never moan about coq pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.

But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not!

That’s what galleries are for though, surely? Even size queens might not react positively to cock as profile pic!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I really don’t like them as profile pics and don’t think they should be sent to inboxes unless requested - I will delete/ block on that basis.

I don’t mind if there’s one of two in their profile gallery, as you have the choice to view their pics or not. However, pics should be tastefully done and varied, not all cock pics, not over toilets or with pants round ankles and they’re not smacking you in the face or are particularly angry looking lol

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

"The thing is if you are attractive and the other person likes you doesn't matter what your profile picture is of.

But many women just delete messages with cock as profile pic so they won’t even get to whether you’re attractive or not!

That’s what galleries are for though, surely? Even size queens might not react positively to cock as profile pic! "

I think if you have a big girthy one they will love it if they are really into size

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By *ussy licker99Man
over a year ago

smethwick

"I really don’t like them as profile pics and don’t think they should be sent to inboxes unless requested - I will delete/ block on that basis.

If i had a decent sized one I would be definitely showing it off whenever I can.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I think they can be quite funny as profile pics. You see people discussing serious issues (eg mental health, or the queen's death) and then next to their comment is a disembodied dick.

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By *uboCouple
over a year ago

East kilbride

Much prefer a cock pic than a black silhouette thats for sure

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I think they can be quite funny as profile pics. You see people discussing serious issues (eg mental health, or the queen's death) and then next to their comment is a disembodied dick. "

Ha ha yes it's for this reason I changed my pic with finger up ass as thought it disrespectful this week x

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Seems to work for men ,but not for many women

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"This literally cringes me out and reminds me of flashers.

I'm a straight confident male but I wouldn't even dream of sending a dick with without a request and certainly wouldn't post it as my profile pic wtf....

No wonder couples block single males

This is my stance too! I've gone so far as to block them even if they look at our profile, it'll seem far fetched to some but it avoids them inevitably hassling us later down the line

If you know you want nothing to do with them, that makes sense. Fewer pics you don’t want to see popping up in your face. "

I made a thread about this recently but folks were less than understanding

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally don't like them as a profile pic, but tastefully done ones in public don't bother me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To put it simply, yes.

Everyone loves a coco pic on here. You’ll have your choice of a bevvy of beauties lining up..

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No. Not attracted to a man by what his dick looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t even have one in my gallery.

Sometimes less is more. "

Totally agree! Profiles with lots of cock pics turn us off immediately! male profiles full of these pics definitely seem not to have as many verifications by meets as the ones that have nice artistic body or face pics, wise up boys!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

While I totally understand not having a dick pic as a profile pic, I do think a male profile should have one

It's like looking for a new car and being unable to look under the bonet, I don't want to waste time sending endless messages until I know what the end prize maybe

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Oh dear, should We remove D's suited and shower shots then??? Personally I love it and the pictures..

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Does posting a cock profile pic actually work ?

Yes, if you want lots of messages from blokes offering to suck it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a body, a physique, and don’t much care if a cock is included in that or not, but a close up dick- pic is a no thanks…

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