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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" The person blocking will have their own reason for it .. It could be that they don't have any interest in a profile. They don't like a profile. They don't like a profiles photos The profile is of a member/s too far away .... Ect, ect .. It's best not to read too much into or get offended by random blocks. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Many times and never sure why but I you just keep going there loss I guess | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" There's always a reason for the person doing the blocking. You don't need to know that reason. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yes, and a couple of times have had a wink, to draw attention to it, on both occasions I have had no previous contact with hem. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Oh more than once I got told on here by someone that they blocked anyone who was more than 30 miles from them as they didn’t want to have to wait when they wanted sex. I have been blocked for sending a polite message, sending a face picture as requested, and after a conversation that had been going on for 3 weeks Who knows what goes on in peoples heads, it’s fab | |||
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"The most recent person messaged to tell me off for being angry and criticised my weight before blocking me. Not sure what I was meant to be angry about. " Some people are just twats don’t worry about it and keep doing you xxx | |||
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"The most recent person messaged to tell me off for being angry and criticised my weight before blocking me. Not sure what I was meant to be angry about. Some people are just twats don’t worry about it and keep doing you xxx" Im sure I've deserved some of the blocks I've received but that one was just daft! | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" I presume that there is always a reason for why I am blocked. But two in particular amuse me: The first is when a straight guy will message me and get me talking about what I enjoy, my fantasies, sharing videos etc. and then the next morning I'll be blocked. I just hope that they are doing okay! I wouldn't want to be the source of any existential guilt! The second is when I am chatting to someone and when it comes to exchanging face pics, they block me after seeing me. Now, that might be a result of my ugly mug, but on a few occasions I have a feeling that they know who I am, or, perhaps, that they think they do. | |||
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"There is always a reason. You just might not know what that reason is. Don't read too much into it." This is so true, just because you don’t know the reason doesn’t mean they don’t have one. Could be as simple as they’re not attracted to you and don’t want you coming up in future searches. No biggie | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yep...  | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" It's not for no reason, you just don't know the reason
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"I sent a very polite message to a couple with no inappropriate text or pics and immediately got blocked. " Maybe there was something about your profile they didn't like | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Never been blocked or not come across anyone that said they blocked us lol | |||
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"yeah sent a face pic we nice intro message then blocked didn't know i was that bad haha "Ditto but also by people I've not messaged. So I guess some either have really good control features or just hide from everyone. | |||
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"Yep and no reason I know of, there's a woman on the forums I know has me blocked but no idea why! Have never interacted with her either in dms or on the forum. Ti's a mystery but I'm sure there's a reason. " Could be something on your likes list she doesn't like or an opinion you expressed in the forum she didn't like. The list goes on | |||
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"It happens all the time Lots of fantasists on here with no intention of meeting, they get their wank fodder, block and move on to their next prey Forget about them they aren't worth your time " Exactly this x | |||
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"It happens all the time Lots of fantasists on here with no intention of meeting, they get their wank fodder, block and move on to their next prey Forget about them they aren't worth your time " Fair one. Move fish in the sea and all that I suppose. | |||
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"It happens all the time Lots of fantasists on here with no intention of meeting, they get their wank fodder, block and move on to their next prey Forget about them they aren't worth your time " I think this is very relevant too. | |||
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"We don't take it personally but great comments,the couple who blocked us contacted us first,flirted outrageously,even sent pics of themselves sounded really interested in meeting .. Within 2 days they'd blocked us totally out of the blue??????? Their problem their loss plenty more fishies in a very very naughty sea.... To all who commented stay real and just the way you areXxxxx" Look like a nice couple no doubt you'll have plenty more opportunities  | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" nope I may not know why someone blocked me but they obviously had a reason x | |||
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"Yep, but not don't take offence as some people use it as a filter so they don't come across your profile again which is fair enough
Miss S x"I agree, if people say no thanks, I block so as not to bother them in the future | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yep and I still dont know what for??? | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" yes , | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" yes ,I got blocked just for agreeing that someone had stolen their photos. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" I block those I'm not interested in. That is anyone I don't find attractive, barebackers, TVs, TSs, Gays, and those only looking for Bi men. I'm not being rude. It's my personal preference. We all have those. It just saves me wasting time looking at profiles again that I'm not interested in. Happy fabbing. | |||
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"Why would you? We’ve blocked countless but it’s always their own fault. No point doing it for no reason is there. " We got a wink form a couple the other day, read their profile. We’ll talk about precise instructions. If you go to do x y z a b c or d we will just block you. Thought shill I bother, F it just blocked them. Far too complete with more of a chance of just getting blocked. Why would you make it so hard for people? | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Its never for no reason You just might not know what the reason us | |||
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"Yes because I didn't add them as a friend even though we'd never even chatted "Same here, but we had been chatting and because I wouldn't accept his friend invite he blocked me, I blocked him back lol | |||
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 if I look on new pics then try and view profile and it let's me know that I'm blocked then I do become quite curios how I could be blocked by someone I was unaware of | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" We think so . As previously said , people ask if they’re on others hot list , we ask are we on your block list ? | |||
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"If I write to someone and its read and deleted I block so I don't write again. I craft individual messages so it's takes a while and I don't want to send another message to someone who is not interested. " I do this too | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" plenty of times I’ve clicked on profiles and found that I’m blocked and have never even spoken to them lol is what it is | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" There is always a reason, it might just be that you don't know it. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" yup get blocked quite often just after 1 msg for no reason at all  | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yes, many times. The easiest way to get blocked for no reason is to go into Fab chat rooms. Sometimes in chat, I will go to look at a profile of somebody in the room only to find I am on their block list. This is despite the fact I have never talked to them before or looked at their profile before. As Jim Morrison said people are strange. | |||
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"The easiest way to get blocked for no reason is to go into Fab chat rooms. Sometimes in chat, I will go to look at a profile of somebody in the room only to find I am on their block list. This is despite the fact I have never talked to them before or looked at their profile before. As Jim Morrison said people are strange. " Just to address the point raised about being blocked because of being in the forum, is it really that strange to block someone when the views they express in a forum post are quite clearly in contravention of your own beliefs ? So often on here I see people being called out for blocking people they disagree with and that being used as an argument that they have lost whatever discussion is under way but another way to look at it is that quite clearly they’d never be a match for meeting up so why would you want them coming up in future searches? In this way the forum can be a better filter than profiles. There’s many threads that I have used to identify those that I just wouldn’t be compatible with. People are never blocked for “no reason” , that reason is as simple as they wouldn’t want to meet you so why would they want you looking at their profile or coming up in future searches. | |||
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"Yes because I didn't add them as a friend even though we'd never even chatted
Same here, but we had been chatting and because I wouldn't accept his friend invite he blocked me, I blocked him back lol"Omg, but helps filter your platform on the site. Some strange folk | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" There is always a reason behind it just so many of them so you will never know unfortunately. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yep, just the way some people are, oh you’ve sent a nice message - blocked haha! | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yeah, an ex fuck buddy did this regularly. He was all about the mind games, would say he had to cancel then still turn up then make out he hadn't cancelled (messages were on Snapchat so I couldn't prove otherwise), said he didn't want to meet anymore, then ask me when we were meeting the next day, made a video on the agreement he'd send it to me then refused to send it and said it hadn't recorded when I know it had. Outright admitted he was like this with everyone like it was normal behaviour. We'd be having a canny little conversation then I'd be blocked out of nowhere. Then he'd unblock me a week later and carry on the conversation like normal. I just found it amusing for a while, until one day I didn't. I blocked him and have kept him blocked so I wouldn't be available for him when he unblocked me. He has unblocked me cos I can see his picture on my WhatsApp blocked list. I only put up with it so long because the sex was amazing and I didn't know about fab then. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Wow, yes loads of times. I have lost count of the number of times I have clicked on a profile only to find I am blocked. 99% of the time I have never looked at the profile before. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Some on here will block simply because you are not what they are looking for - to save wasting their time | |||
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"Yes because I didn't add them as a friend even though we'd never even chatted
Same here, but we had been chatting and because I wouldn't accept his friend invite he blocked me, I blocked him back lol"I’m intrigued… how do you block someone who has already blocked you? We may make use of this possibility  | |||
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"Yes because I didn't add them as a friend even though we'd never even chatted
Same here, but we had been chatting and because I wouldn't accept his friend invite he blocked me, I blocked him back lol
I’m intrigued… how do you block someone who has already blocked you? We may make use of this possibility "Type name in search once able to see the drop down menu use it and block | |||
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"Well a strange reason..I recently got blocked by another TV... because I fabbed a few of there photos.... maybe I didn't fab enough of them.. "or maybe it’s because you have a photo of a skull on the end of a stick on a profile photo | |||
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"I think I have been blocked, but by someone I’ve not had any interaction with "Sorry I confused you with my cousin friend’s Ricky Machado | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Several times and I haven’t got a clue why. It often puzzles me as I’m a very polite and respectful and am a very easy going person. Funny how different people get varying perceptions……. | |||
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"I think I have been blocked, but by someone I’ve not had any interaction with
Sorry I confused you with my cousin friend’s Ricky Machado "Easy mistake to make | |||
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"It might even be they recognise you " that happened to me and I got blocked | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx The person blocking will have their own reason for it .. It could be that they don't have any interest in a profile. They don't like a profile. They don't like a profiles photos The profile is of a member/s too far away .... Ect, ect .. It's best not to read too much into or get offended by random blocks." Would be polite to say why?! | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yip. Chatting to someone and they said they don't block unless the person is rude, I wasn't and was blocked. Shit happens, move on they don't know what they have missed out on. They obviously weren't for you.xx | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" The person blocking will always have a reason for them, the fact you might never know why - confirms may be you are on different pages !! such is life - dont worry and move on!! | |||
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"People do it for all sorts of reasons, frequently because people are pushy or crass Always gets me when people then make a status about it like they've been booted from a fb group "Especially when the target of their anger and rage can't actually see it | |||
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"I got blocked this morning in the chat rooms for looking at one of the most rude profiles I've ever read. Full of reasons why this couple would block including reading their profile and fabbing their pics. It also included the statement that blocking was nothing personal but was because they thought you were a bellend. I started to fab their picture and sure enough by the third fab I was blocked! It's not me who is the bellend! Anyway it was so absurd I found it funny! " So they're profile said if you fabbed their pics you would he blocked? And you fabbed their pics and some how are shocked that they blocked you? | |||
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"I got blocked this morning in the chat rooms for looking at one of the most rude profiles I've ever read. Full of reasons why this couple would block including reading their profile and fabbing their pics. It also included the statement that blocking was nothing personal but was because they thought you were a bellend. I started to fab their picture and sure enough by the third fab I was blocked! It's not me who is the bellend! Anyway it was so absurd I found it funny! So they're profile said if you fabbed their pics you would he blocked? And you fabbed their pics and some how are shocked that they blocked you? " I'm not shocked, just found it funny that someone would post public pictures and then block someone for liking them. I only managed to Fab two before I was blocked. I just found it a bit strange. They also had 80+ friends pics and were adamant they weren't going to accept any friends requests at all. It's not a problem, I just found it rather amusing at the time. Plenty more fish in the sea. | |||
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"Quick question have you ever been blocked for no reason what so ever?Xx" Yes their loss..
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