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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I would love to know what you think of fab and what your experience on here has been like whether positive or negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly positive, the only negative is some of the crude language and race fetishisation linked to my skin colour.

I’m also not a fan of the whole ‘I’ve never fucked a black woman’ approach as if I’m a box to be ticked. Also dislike how many approach me for ‘race play’ but overall I like it here. I just block those I find offensive.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is mostly negative

I find it very crass when men message me and mention race as it makes me feel like that's the only reason they're messaging me and it's a straight turn off for me

Between that and the borderline racist and the absolutly racist comments I can understand why there are 1 so few black women on here and 2 why the majority of them refer to stick to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation? "

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation? "

Not a fine line but when you're speaking to someone and they randomly start telling you how many black women they've had sex with, slightly strange don't you think?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation. "

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Mine is mostly negative

I find it very crass when men message me and mention race as it makes me feel like that's the only reason they're messaging me and it's a straight turn off for me

Between that and the borderline racist and the absolutly racist comments I can understand why there are 1 so few black women on here and 2 why the majority of them refer to stick to their own "

I know this happens and it’s so sad to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ? "

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ? "

If they want to fuck them JUST because they’re over 6 foot you could call that fetishisation I guess. If you mean me, we’ll I’m 5ft11 so I specify 6 foot plus because certain positions are nigh on impossible when the guy is shorter than me!

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you? "

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic? "

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok. "

You see I struggle to understand that comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment "

She means because race isn’t a physical characteristic. Physical characteristics are things like height, weight, size, shape, facial features, hair, scarring and birthmarks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever been attracted to someone purely because of ethnicity or race. I’ve never not been attracted to someone for the same reason. Each person is unique and should be viewed and regarded as such

Here endeth today’s sermon

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment "

Height isn't debatable. You are a certain height. You can wear heels or platform's to increase it but short of walking on your knees or stooping there's little you can do to change it.

Skin tone varies as much among black, asian and all other ethnicities as it does white. So saying someone is 'black' doesn't mean a one size fits all appearance, whereas a 6ft 3" man is 6ft 3", whether he's black, white, asian, tanned, pale, goth in full white make up.......you get the drift?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think I’ve ever been attracted to someone purely because of ethnicity or race. I’ve never not been attracted to someone for the same reason. Each person is unique and should be viewed and regarded as such

Here endeth today’s sermon"

It really is this simple

Yet so many people struggle to understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment

Height isn't debatable. You are a certain height. You can wear heels or platform's to increase it but short of walking on your knees or stooping there's little you can do to change it.

Skin tone varies as much among black, asian and all other ethnicities as it does white. So saying someone is 'black' doesn't mean a one size fits all appearance, whereas a 6ft 3" man is 6ft 3", whether he's black, white, asian, tanned, pale, goth in full white make up.......you get the drift?

A"

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By *uitednbooted2 OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment

She means because race isn’t a physical characteristic. Physical characteristics are things like height, weight, size, shape, facial features, hair, scarring and birthmarks."

I agree, race isn’t but surely skin colour is physical! Just like blonde or brunette hair! My brain is scrambled with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment

She means because race isn’t a physical characteristic. Physical characteristics are things like height, weight, size, shape, facial features, hair, scarring and birthmarks.

I agree, race isn’t but surely skin colour is physical! Just like blonde or brunette hair! My brain is scrambled with this "

Might be a generational thing cause it's actually not difficult to understand at all

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you think there is a fine line between preference and fetishisation?

I don’t think the line is that fine tbh! When you want to fuck someone purely because of their skin colour that’s fetishisation.

What about a woman who will only fuck a guy over 6 foot tall ? What’s that categorised as ?

Are you genuinely interested in the view of black women or was this topic started just so you could to whataboutism when ever anyone responds to you?

I am genuinely interested otherwise I would not have asked. I am trying to understand the difference between someone having an attraction preference based on skin colour and that of any other physical characteristic?

Being black isn't a 'physical characteristic' but ok.

You see I struggle to understand that comment

She means because race isn’t a physical characteristic. Physical characteristics are things like height, weight, size, shape, facial features, hair, scarring and birthmarks.

I agree, race isn’t but surely skin colour is physical! Just like blonde or brunette hair! My brain is scrambled with this "

What shade of blonde or brunette? And those can be temporary.

Again. Height is fixed.

Expect when you get really fucking old and shrink a few inches.

A

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