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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

Something I see more and more lately, I don't really understand though, why would a couple want a man but be so scared that the fellow they invited to join them might like to see another cock?

Honestly, cocks and fannies will be out anyway, and if one participant doesn't want to be played with, then surely just setting boundaries should be enough.

I must be missing something here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it. I’m sure most people do respect boundaries - but it’s a psychological thing for the other man. If he doesn’t find men attractive then he may not be comfortable having sex around a man that might have a sexual interest in him.

If that’s the reason then that’s fair enough.

However if the reason is because they think bi men are somehow “dirty” (which seems to be a reason I’ve seen given on this forum) then that’s stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some bi men say they will play straight then attempt to play with the man. People may want to avoid that.

Bi/ gay men may be more at risk if having STI's. They may want to avoid that.

They might just not want to have sex with a man who has sex with men.

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By *othiandoggersCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Some bi men say they will play straight then attempt to play with the man. People may want to avoid that.

Bi/ gay men may be more at risk if having STI's. They may want to avoid that.

They might just not want to have sex with a man who has sex with men.

"
well said

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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

Ok, but I and many of the Bi-curious (terrible term, doesn't describe my inclinations at all!) aren't attracted to men in the first place. Sure, I like wanking another penis and will give oral, but unless that's part of the agreement then I'm absolutely not going to attempt it. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, but I and many of the Bi-curious (terrible term, doesn't describe my inclinations at all!) aren't attracted to men in the first place. Sure, I like wanking another penis and will give oral, but unless that's part of the agreement then I'm absolutely not going to attempt it. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority?"

You have sex with men.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Some bi men say they will play straight then attempt to play with the man. "

This has been our experience but maybe we've been unlucky....three times.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey

Not to see bi guys is just a preference for some couples. It's like age, cock size, ethnicity, physique etc.

Don't get wound up by it, just approach bi couples, there is loads on here x

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By *ob.42 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth


"Ok, but I and many of the Bi-curious (terrible term, doesn't describe my inclinations at all!) aren't attracted to men in the first place. Sure, I like wanking another penis and will give oral, but unless that's part of the agreement then I'm absolutely not going to attempt it. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority?

You have sex with men.

"

That's a bit of an oversimplification don't you think? Women will take part in gangbangs or dogging where men completely opposite to their preferences take part, doesn't stop them fucking. I prefer women to men, doesn't stop me playing with both partners if that's the expectation.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

Each to their own, if that's what they want then it's their choice as it's your choice to do as you see fit. If you come across a profile stating no bi men then just move on to the many others who don't mind that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, but I and many of the Bi-curious (terrible term, doesn't describe my inclinations at all!) aren't attracted to men in the first place. Sure, I like wanking another penis and will give oral, but unless that's part of the agreement then I'm absolutely not going to attempt it. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority?

You have sex with men.

That's a bit of an oversimplification don't you think? Women will take part in gangbangs or dogging where men completely opposite to their preferences take part, doesn't stop them fucking. I prefer women to men, doesn't stop me playing with both partners if that's the expectation."

If they don't want to have sex with bisexual men, they don't want to have sex with you.

Like Nortyair says - just find people who do want to meet bi men.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Ok, but I and many of the Bi-curious (terrible term, doesn't describe my inclinations at all!) aren't attracted to men in the first place. Sure, I like wanking another penis and will give oral, but unless that's part of the agreement then I'm absolutely not going to attempt it. Maybe I'm in the extreme minority?

You have sex with men.

That's a bit of an oversimplification don't you think? Women will take part in gangbangs or dogging where men completely opposite to their preferences take part, doesn't stop them fucking. I prefer women to men, doesn't stop me playing with both partners if that's the expectation.

If they don't want to have sex with bisexual men, they don't want to have sex with you.

Like Nortyair says - just find people who do want to meet bi men. "
Exactly c

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