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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do single men fail to turn up?or is that the reserve of women/couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys deffo do this

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By *lubchuckerMan
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Couples seem to be worse for no shows from my experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s certainly not restricted to guys.

All genders, couples/singles can be no shows for a variety of reasons.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"It’s certainly not restricted to guys.

All genders, couples/singles can be no shows for a variety of reasons."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s certainly not restricted to guys.

All genders, couples/singles can be no shows for a variety of reasons.

This "

Yep! It's why I won't fart about arranging private meets on here, you never know who the time wasters are.

Kitty

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By *anchester_subMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Definitely happens to guys too

Lost count of them

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.

I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.

I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable."

Intrigued??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.

I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable."

They put on some podge over the lockdown?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course single Men can do this.

I imagine it can be more nerve wrecking meeting alone with two people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the early days we had so many single guys ghosting us or failing to turn up that now we’ll only agree to meet very well and recently verified men.

Fantasists and wank puffins abound!

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By *ancsman2Man
over a year ago

Warrington

From my experience couples and single ladies don’t show either I think if you make plans to meet someone you should turn up that’s why now I insist on meeting for a brew first

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By *urvy123babeWoman
over a year ago

cambridge

Luckily, it’s never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yep! It's why I won't fart about arranging private meets on here, you never know who the time wasters are.

Kitty "

We stick to a small number of trusted repeat meets from Fab now.

That and clubs.

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had multiple single guys and couples ghost us.

We have got to the point now it’s club meets only for us due to the sheer volume of time we have wasted chatting and building a connection with people only to be ghosted

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By *oundandround69Man
over a year ago

Reading

Not just single guys that don’t show up.

I’ve been let down by single women and couples.

I think you have to try and out the time wasters before the arrangement is made.

Sometimes difficult I know.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

Our last meet was a no show. Arranged to meet half way, moved twice until an hour before it was us driving all the way (40 mins). He was texting as we drove down. Let him know when we got to the arranged pub, he said 5 mins. Bought him a drink as arranged - then "sorry I've bottled it"

I suppose at least he didn't just not pitch up. Has left the site now

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By *aveyDipperMan
over a year ago

Teesside


"Our last meet was a no show. Arranged to meet half way, moved twice until an hour before it was us driving all the way (40 mins). He was texting as we drove down. Let him know when we got to the arranged pub, he said 5 mins. Bought him a drink as arranged - then "sorry I've bottled it"

I suppose at least he didn't just not pitch up. Has left the site now "

I don’t get it, if you are a swinger and have the opportunity to swing then what’s there to bottle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I need to take some of this advice as I've just been ghosted by someone who introduced me to his mum from here wtf like?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a social for a cuppa us the best way to go

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Well our limited experience couple's are far worse by a country mile for not showing up !!....even at social events it far more likely the couples not showing up than the single males ?? ..

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield


"Think I need to take some of this advice as I've just been ghosted by someone who introduced me to his mum from here wtf like?!"

Whats his mum like

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.

I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable.

Intrigued?? "

More people working from home so more chance of the wife/gf being around unexpectedly is my hunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to us twice now, will only meet single men who have a few verifications now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a gender issues.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Lol many many men do this in my experience over the years. Though it’s pretty quick to sniff out Wasters in here

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Do single men fail to turn up?or is that the reserve of women/couples?"

Single guys do this ALL the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled for two hours for an advertised naughty meet with a couple. On arriving I was met by a husband who said sorry we can’t meet as I haven’t mentioned anything to the wife yet. I was extremely annoyed and have since blocked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a gender issues. "

I agreed, you get people who don't turn up from all genders. Although, as annoying as it is you shouldn't let this ruin your experience as there a loads of wonderful people who will meet

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"I travelled for two hours for an advertised naughty meet with a couple. On arriving I was met by a husband who said sorry we can’t meet as I haven’t mentioned anything to the wife yet. I was extremely annoyed and have since blocked then"

That's horrendous. For her as well!

I once drove down to Derby to meet a guy who talked a big talk, and I thought as he'd given me is mobile number and we'd spoken was genuine, but who then stopped answering his phone. I had a cup of tea in a cafe and drove home.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington


"Since the end of lockdown the number of single guys no-showing massively increased.

I have a hunch as to why, but will never be provable.

Intrigued??

More people working from home so more chance of the wife/gf being around unexpectedly is my hunch "

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