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By *octor_doctor OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

I’ve had mixed responses. Some women welcome it and embrace the bi side whilst forvothers it’s a no no.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

Good on you it’s a scary step to take and can definitely backfire - as I’ve learnt in the past - but ultimately life is too short to not be true to yourself.

The only advice I’d give is that it’s really easy to blurt it out then feel embarrassed and hide from what you’ve said, so don’t feel bad if you do that.

Also remember it’s probably going to be a shock for them too so give them plenty of time to ask questions and set boundaries.

I hope it all works out for the best

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By *av501TV/TS
over a year ago

Mancetter?


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks

Good on you it’s a scary step to take and can definitely backfire - as I’ve learnt in the past - but ultimately life is too short to not be true to yourself.

The only advice I’d give is that it’s really easy to blurt it out then feel embarrassed and hide from what you’ve said, so don’t feel bad if you do that.

Also remember it’s probably going to be a shock for them too so give them plenty of time to ask questions and set boundaries.

I hope it all works out for the best "

Fantastic response, ive come out lately to my sister, my best friend and to my long term girlfriend. We nowchave dressed sex together.....once she got over finding me in her lingerie

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By *udigaranCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Sounds great, and congrats on working it out! Bi guys are hot.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Well done you, I wish I was as brave as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

Told my wife I was bi-curious, really supportive and happy about it, wished I’d said something sooner.

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By *iboy1968Man
over a year ago

Cramlington

Really pleased for the guys and couples where it works out well unfortunately my experiences have been for the worse

The first girl friend I told about it I think swallowed a melon and wouldn’t even talk about it. She did say if I touch another guy she would drop me like a stone. That relationship didn’t last long after that.

Told another girl friend who had expressed her bi side so I thought it would go better let’s just say some people don’t accept bi guys as well as they accept their own bisexual female side

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks

Told my wife I was bi-curious, really supportive and happy about it, wished I’d said something sooner."

Lucky man, I can only dream.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

My ex said once that she wished I was bi and would like a mmf. I told her I was and we never looked back. She loved watching me suck cock.

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

It's not always easy so well done you.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

My dating strategy has now totally changed. I don't want to waste my time or theirs so I'm open about being bi and non-monogamous right from the start.

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By *octor_doctor OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Thanks for all your posts everyone. Some lovely responses and encouraging

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

Ashtead

Well done. Mine did not really like it. Fine to begin with but then seemed to get threatened by it. Made out loud in public ‘jokes’ - friends were trying to work out what her issue was. Hmm. Ruined the sex life!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We both discovered our bi sides around the same time. Steph had to work away one weekend so looked through fab for a suitable guy to keep me company

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I said that to my ex, she absolutely loved it and could wait for bi mmf

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

UK

We hear a lot of experiences from our club members. A surprising amount are positive.

Good luck to you. Now get that fine ass to a party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

So she knows your bi & on a swinging site & meeting others? Or she knows your bi? To us that means totally different things. We met at a swinging club so always open about what we wanted. We always talk before going to clubs to see what we are after as it can always change

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

My ex loved it and we had bi mmf loads, we fought over sucking big dick

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By *jdontplayMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

Well done. As others have said that’s a brave step but glad she’s responding positively. Had mixed responses from gfs (and bfs) in the past so these days am up front about it

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

I'm very open about it. I spend most of my time in the kink scene these days and it's generally very well accepted.

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith


"Well done. Mine did not really like it. Fine to begin with but then seemed to get threatened by it. Made out loud in public ‘jokes’ - friends were trying to work out what her issue was. Hmm. Ruined the sex life!"

You poor man. A GF who tries to humiliate you, how vile and small-minded of her.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Both get throat fucked by a big dock

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

my husband told me on our first date my answer was good so am i and we are both still playing nearly 30 years later

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I’ve told every woman I’ve dated in the past 10 years, never had a negative response

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Anyone that found out about Ivana ran a mile

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

I'm very bi curious but also dont know where to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done!

Big step take.

Good luck!

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

Its very liberating..there are a lot of females on fab who do not like bi guys and quite a few guys threatened by it in some respects but it pales against an overwhelmingly positive experience for us since being open with each other.

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By *ust Passing ThroughMan
over a year ago

poole

Just got to be brave enough

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Hi. I’ve just told my girlfriend I’m bi which she took really well. We’re having a little time for her to work out what that means for her and us. Just wondered what other’s experiences were and any advice.

Thanks "

Glad it went seemingly well OP, give yourselves both time to process and whatever happens well don't for telling her

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I told my partner during sex when we were discussing threesomes, she immediately got more turned on and asked when we could mmf.

She’s never said if she’d be happy with me playing with guys alone.

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Any hot bi curious guys mrs loves to see 3 way oral before we take turns fucking her and dvp

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