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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you stop urself cumming to soon

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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Not sure.. but I have the opposite problem, takes me ages to blow.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

i dont

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont

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unlucky lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"i dont

unlucky lol"

i mean i dont stop myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont

unlucky lol

i mean i dont stop myself

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i know lol can you imagine the orgasm you would have if you didnt cum an saved it near the end by stoping an starting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about something else. For instance, grammar, punctuation and use of English.

2 birds, 1 stone.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Delay condoms

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"i dont

unlucky lol

i mean i dont stop myself

i know lol can you imagine the orgasm you would have if you didnt cum an saved it near the end by stoping an starting"

true.....not easy though

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By *ticky 69Man
over a year ago

Stirling

Is it really a problem? If so, for you, your partner or both? Can't you just slow down for a bit

Always works for me. If you're genuinely concerned your GP might be able to help with some simple prescription drugs that also help overcome (no pun intended!) premature ejaculation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to me

after about 5mins but when i feel im gna cum i stop an fink of things that aint about sex.. I say to my self..boats & fish over n over lol but it works plus try not to fink about it b4 sex an just relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont rush into it. They hate it sometimes if you dont cum soon, on the other hand, hate it when you cum too soon.

Find out what works for you and take it from there.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Edging is a good technique that will help you recognise sooner whet you're heading for the point of no return.

Also try a different position - for example, lady on top is often good for her but less intense for you and can give you more control.

However the best thing is psychology. I found when I was younger I was so worried about cumming too soon, that I came too soon!

Nowadays I'll spend an evening in a club and not ejaculate until we both get home.

Read about techniques for being multi orgasmic. Separating out orgasm from ejaculation is a real key - its your ejaculation you wAnt to prolong, not your orgasm.

Hope some of tgat helps.

Ps - stop worrying about it!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

dont worry about it - women love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think about Margaret Thatcher, that stops me straight away lol

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Train yourself to have a 'dry cum' or mini-orgasm without ejaculating, it de-sensitizes you and you can keep going quite a long time after. Just slow down when you are near and stop when the feeling starts to build, takes practice but worth it.

Another good idea, don't pull out when you do cum but keep going. You might be able to stay hard.

Finally, tell her she's so sexy you couldn't hold back, then take a rest and carry on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you stop urself cumming to soon"

Watch gay porn if u don't like men lol

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Don't cum for 3 days then cum once *before* the meet and you should last longer while still having enough to blow. Alternatively, vary your pace, slow and fast when you need to. You can also stop and have some intimate moments, kiss her (particularly her adam's apple

) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally awesome comments, I am laughing so much xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't cum for 3 days then cum once *before* the meet and you should last longer while still having enough to blow. Alternatively, vary your pace, slow and fast when you need to. You can also stop and have some intimate moments, kiss her (particularly her adam's apple

) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you

if you are shagging a woman who has an adams apple i would double check she didnt have a cock lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you

if you are shagging a woman who has an adams apple i would double check she didnt have a cock lol

That's funny lol

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

) Make it an 'event' and all about her, don't worry, she'll take care of you

hmmmm....."her" adams apple?!?!

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Despite the name, both men and women have an Adam's apple, it's just less prominent on women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average it will only take a guy 5 minutes to cum. I swap between penetration and oral or other types of play. Or blow your load and start again. I don't like thinking of something else as I want to keep my mind on the job.

At the end of the day It's practice and whatever works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think about something else. For instance, grammar, punctuation and use of English.

2 birds, 1 stone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dont worry about it - women love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First one don't take long but after that I'm away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of Anne Widdecombe in a negligee....

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

Why would you want to stop yourself?

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

All the planning and do this of do that! Is it worth it? Just be natural!

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

Nature wants us to spill sperms as soon as possible

so that it could start making our successors before the female could get away lol

just that times have changed sex is for pleasure now

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Well to me an orgasm is just the end of the main course after all the foreplay - lots of foreplay, lots and lots of foreplay

Never really been a concern to be honest.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Think of Anne Widdecombe in a negligee....

Risky strategy, that! You could lose your erection.

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