FabSwingers.com forum: Do couples like to be watched

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The one thing I'd really like to do is to watch a couple play, if I get invited to join in that would be a big bonus.

Is this something that would appeal to couples?

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I've had that pleasure and occasionally it can lead to being invited to join in.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

I like to watch whilst restrained, with couple allowing me to wank when THEY want me to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had that pleasure and occasionally it can lead to being invited to join in."

That's nice to know there are couples who are interested in this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."

Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes in a club environment

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."

Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that"

We see it as someone trying their luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked "

That's how I see it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Most people , the vast majority woukd not join in unless invited ...of course it's a bonus .if asked "

Our experience of clubs and people watching is obviously very different to yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Never thought of it like that, considered it less pushy saying that

We see it as someone trying their luck. "

Each to their own but thanks for the input

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

The other half and I like it, but all the guys we’ve chatted about it with on here have made clear they expect to be joining in.

Whenever I’ve suggested a watch only meet with a second potential play meet if we’re all comfortable they disappear!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in"

You are looking for exactly what we are. Just watching and being watched, live porn

no interaction.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I've had that pleasure and occasionally it can lead to being invited to join in.

That's nice to know there are couples who are interested in this"

Bonus for me was, she was only 26 and he was 32. I'm 66

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

"We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in

You are looking for exactly what we are. Just watching and being watched, live porn

no interaction."

Literally just read your profile & thought that's us!!

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

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By *aughty Hubby n Sexy WifeCouple
over a year ago

Scarborogh

We enjoy being watch in a club, it’s something we enjoy. One guy may get lucky one day, that’s Mrs decision and pushy gents get told to F off. Had a guy pull up a chair in a club abroad that was more off putting lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any couples that aren't too far away and would like a nice, respectful guy to watch them, send me a message

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By *eguyukMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This is exactly what I want to find a couple to just watch as I jerk off and dont get involved but hard to find

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I've never got evolved just watch and encourage them or sit in total silence

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

We joined Fab primarily to watch and be watched wether in a club, Skype (or others) or in a private meet. Same room sex really appeals to us.

Our fantasy is to meet a couple on holiday and go back to our hotel for some watching and same room sex. C.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."

Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing.

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing."

Same.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.

Agree, we have found it exciting being watched, but only by other couples. Not interested in putting on a show for single men, just not our thing.

Same. "

Nice pics, shame we aren’t in a position to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my ex loved being watched and occasionally having others join,found clubs to be the best place to indulge ourselves.If we didn't want company we went in a room with viewing windows,and if we were open to offers we played in an open room

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We like an audience in a club, got a round of applause once

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By *winging_couple300Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

It’s one of the things on our to do list, probably in a couples only environment at a club but definitely something we plan in the future.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

We love to watch and be watched with other couples.

Single guys do nothing that we want to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to be watched by a group of guys and occasionally….

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By *hrops56Man
over a year ago

Telford

I would love to watch a locallish couple or a couple on skype,whereby etc and I wouldn't expect to join in .It's all about respect and boundaries.

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By *ps4funCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I (Mrs) had this experience first time on last Saturday and I think... I like it

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I would love to watch a locallish couple or a couple on skype,whereby etc and I wouldn't expect to join in .It's all about respect and boundaries. "

Suggestions of Skype is actually what puts me off posting for this type of thing more often.

If I can’t trust someone enough to be in the same room and behave, I’m certainly not risking them screen recording it.

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By *as1373Couple
over a year ago

Taupo, New Zealand & Persian Gulf

"I (Mrs) had this experience first time on last Saturday and I think... I like it

Know we’d have liked it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes there are couples who like to be watched as we are one of them and like others have said boundaries need to be set/stuck to.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Me and Mr Fox would love this - I'm completely new to swinging so I feel like it would be a sexy and gentle first step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There nothing better than being watched in a club, it's such a turn on. If the guy/ guys take my fancy. Then I will invite them to join us

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Yes, have been in a party but privately it's very difficult to believe the 3rd party would behave and not try and join.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We love to be watched, and we’ve found people to be genuinely very respectful and only approach for a play if invited. Sure there will be some who take it too far, but our experiences have only been positive.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

"The one thing I'd really like to do is to watch a couple play, if I get invited to join in that would be a big bonus.

Is this something that would appeal to couples?"

Same with all these questions, some will done won’t!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Love being watched here x

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I’ve been fortunate enough to have been invited into couples playtime in this scenario.

I’m happy to participate in any straight scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy being watched in a club environment, but are often put off by single men getting too close (like sitting down beside us) or reaching out a hand to touch before they ask - the answer is always no!

We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.

It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to watch a couple just sit at the end of the bed, cock in hand, watching and wanking! Any couples intrested please get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We enjoy being watched in a club environment, but are often put off by single men getting too close (like sitting down beside us) or reaching out a hand to touch before they ask - the answer is always no!

We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.

It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that."

Close enough to make this happen if you guys so wish

Had a long term couple who I used to watch. Unfortunately they moved abroad and we lost contact. I Never got involved and I was happy with that.

Something very erotic seeing the lust and naughtiness happening right in front of your eyes as the couple play

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Yes, we love being watched; it's one thing we do when we go to clubs.

I think you can always find the right space to be seen without guys getting too close if that's your preference. You just need to find the right space/room. If you go into an open area eg, orgy room/cinema room it's more difficult. But a room with a door (left open) would work better as you can make sure the guys stay at the threshold; which they generally do and then ask can they join first.

It really depends on what you're looking for. If guys do try to get too close then a firm 'that's close enough' usually suffices. Look forward to putting on a show at our next club visit. And if Mrs wants you to join us...

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We love to on a show and be watched, especially on the roof terrace at Chams in the summer and always on the beach overseas

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

Cuckold husbands likes to watch a lot, it turns me sooo much when i see husband watch me when i fuck his wife x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ...lol

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By *limeyoMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

I’d love to just watch and wank, it’s a self control thing, and like said further up , playing with live porn

Anyone couples/women in Shropshire?

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By *udigaranCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Don't mind people watching but I get a bit uncomfortable when single guys are standing practically at your shoulder and wanking. It just makes me really self-conscious. Ideal for me is a room with windows or two way mirror I guess. Helps me not to be self conscious.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We enjoy being watched in clubs, provided those watching remain respectful. We've not had anyone try chancing their hand to join in before but, without and invite, they'd be swiftly told which direction they should walk away in.

Last time we were watched, we got some lovely messages on here the day after which is even more of a thrill

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes in clubs - usually leads to non-usher respectful guys getting to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love people watching us but not in person in case they tried to join in

You are looking for exactly what we are. Just watching and being watched, live porn

no interaction.

Literally just read your profile & thought that's us!! "

And us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love putting on a bit of a show but most single men in clubs regularly invade our personal space trying to cop a feel or to get closer than the next man.

It can be very off putting when we're in the middle of something and are interrupted like that.

Close enough to make this happen if you guys so wish

Had a long term couple who I used to watch. Unfortunately they moved abroad and we lost contact. I Never got involved and I was happy with that.

Something very erotic seeing the lust and naughtiness happening right in front of your eyes as the couple play

Thanks, but we keep that to a club environment.

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I enjoy watching couples play with no involvement from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve watched a cpl who wanted me to film their antics on their phone which I did on the condition that my only involvement was filming. It was a win win for all 3 of us.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"The other half and I like it, but all the guys we’ve chatted about it with on here have made clear they expect to be joining in.

Whenever I’ve suggested a watch only meet with a second potential play meet if we’re all comfortable they disappear!"

Would be more than happy to be just a Voyeur and with no participation, we're close by drop me a DM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I have got older I love to watch couples I have watched in clubs but would love to watch a couple in private.

I don't want any contact I live in hope of finding someone

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join."
our first meet was exactly this, and to be fair, even tho he was a few feet from us, he just sat and watched, being more nervous than we were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you both think it would be a bonus to join is probably the reason a lot of couples won’t invite people to watch. Most people will try and join.our first meet was exactly this, and to be fair, even tho he was a few feet from us, he just sat and watched, being more nervous than we were. "

We’ve only done it in clubs and there’s always been an attempt to touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love being watched, but unfortunately we wouldn't invite anyone unless in a club. You guarantee they would want to join in, would make things uncomfortable for all.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Some do some don't

This is something you could easily do in a club though, lots of couples who like to be watched attend clubs for that exact reason, although don't expect a 1 on 1 show though they'll usually be a crowd watching them, some time through a window, behind a rope or a barn door type room

I've had sex on a stage in a (swingers) bar abroad, there's probably similar things here in the U.K. too

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Love watching but i would never get involved... even if invited rules are rules ...

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Love been watched by guys, and if any of those guys I like I would happily invite them in If I didn't want to be watched I would go to a private room

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