FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swing/full swing regrets?

By *anfiona2 OP Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Have any couple moved on from soft swing to full swing and regretted it?

Just curious

We moved on to full swing and now much prefer it, love seeing Fi getting fucked in front of me while I am also fucking someone else

We both agree it is a much fuller experience rather than sort of holding back in soft swing

Wondering what other couples experiences were if they changed tack like us?

By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We went clubbing every month and soft-swung for a year before R was ready for a full swap. G was up for it a lot earlier but we'd agreed we would only do it when both were ready.

The night we had our first full swap we had another shortly after that first one. The first was in the couples playroom at Chams, as a 4some, and our second was paired off with another couple into separate rooms. So we achieved two new things on the same night, full open and full closed.

It just seemed so right, as you say a much fuller experience than a soft swing. When we were both really turned on by foreplay with someone else it wasn't very natural not to fuck with them. We are glad we waited until we were both ready though.

We do have some friends who only soft swing, and while it would be nice to stay swapped we respect their boundaries when we play.

By *anfiona2 OP Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what the fuss is...we do either but do what comes naturally. Sometimes you want to fuck, sometimes just to play!

By *anfiona2 OP Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

"Don't know what the fuss is...we do either but do what comes naturally. Sometimes you want to fuck, sometimes just to play!"

Just feels like half the experience

Like no kissing aswell

What's that about!

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We didn't start with soft swapping, we jumped straight in with full swap. Also had soft swap meets and just girl/girl with own partner....don't find any of them less fun or more fulfilling, enjoy them all.