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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

do young females really like the older mature men, is it fact or just fantasy

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By *iMandyWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I find men between 40 and 50 are usualy good

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

based purely on my own experiences of swinging, it a definate fact. although i do have reservations about meets with much younger couples or single ladies, just seems a little pervy to me to play with peeps around or younger than my daughters age i do get invitations to do so this is not a request that the practice cease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so there is hope for me some time then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find men between 40 and 50 are usualy good "
mmmmmmmm very interesting ,,, and just round the corner ,, lol

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"do young females really like the older mature men, is it fact or just fantasy "

They seem to and I, for one, can't begin to tell you just how pleased this auld bastard is to know it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well kath would certainly go for a ffm threesome with a youger lady, what a nice thought

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"I find men between 40 and 50 are usualy good "
yea mandy but men 50+ are always excellent. i volunteer myself to assist in your field research

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

There do seem to be a lot of people for whom 40 is a cut-off point, be it an upper or lower limit.

So in a couple of years, a lot of doors will shut and others will open....

...Which is nice!

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By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess


"I find men between 40 and 50 are usualy good yea mandy but men 50+ are always excellent. i volunteer myself to assist in your field research "

Don't publish the location of this field or you'll be overwhelmed by wannabees.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

location available to any ladies 18+ lol

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By *iMandyWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

LOL

yes my pref in men is between 30 and 65+

I get a lot of pleasure from them not like young guys with them its usualy all me me me.

you can assist me anytime.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"LOL

yes my pref in men is between 30 and 65+

I get a lot of pleasure from them not like young guys with them its usualy all me me me.

you can assist me anytime.get your jacket on and knickers off mandy, you have pulled you sweet talkeing thing lol

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno if I am qualified to comment on this subject, let me think, oh yes Kaynie my ex, she was 17 when we met, I was 47 just a young slip of a boy back then, not only did we enjoy 6 years together but what really shocked me at the time was her friends.

Kaynie was at college and told a few selected mates about our visits to Chameleons, she was inudated with requests to accompany us and we often took 2 or 3 and on one occasion 4 other girls with us. That was fun but the shocking part was how happy and eager they were to play with me, perhaps because they wanted to see what Kaynie saw in me, perhaps the mood on the day I don't know I was just in bliss at the time thinking 47 christmas's had come home at once.

Sadly we did go our seperate ways in the end (friends note Kaynie is doing very well now, married and has her first child and I am sure those that know her are happy that she is doing so well)

So single as I was I had to find lots of FB to take to the club, but surprisingly it was the younger girls who jumped at the opportunity, some I met on the net some at the club but here I was at 53 never short of a young woman whose average ages were around 22.

For the last 10 months I have been back in a relationship with a much older woman, Sasha is 27, we love to play and I never cease to be amazed at the amount of young couples that contact us and meet, of course it is the attraction of Sasha that gets them interested in the first place, it was always that way with Kaynie, but I am pleased that when they do meet us they readily accept me as I am and are happy to play with us both.

So yes there are a lot of younger women who would die before going with an older guy, especially a grandad like me but there are also an awful lots of girls who love the idea.

My policy if I have one is "find a princess treat her like a queen"

And if this post sounds like I am blowing mine and older guys trumpets, too right I am let the world know what fun us old gits can have

Anyone fancy a ride on my zimmer frame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lolol. Nothing beats a bit of experience, even if most of that has been accumulated over the past 6 months!!!

Difference now is that I'm a genuine oldie with genuine experience!!

Being serious, contrary to Jed's experience I've found that a lot of younger folk are just out for a laugh, are undependable, and the reason why I've set my lower age limit at 40.

Any lady or couple wishing to prove me wrong are of course welcome to prove me wrong!! lol

Please form an orderly queue!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hang on guys, and slow down, this is my thread so i should be first to do the sampling. eh eh and any young(er) females who like the idea can always message me,

christmas may come early !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talked about this a bit with a friend and although youth has its obvious benefits, I think older women especially, have had time to find themselves, understand who and what they want and be more focused and sensible (ok, form a line to refute this . In short, a much better bet, even if they do sometimes sag in the middle.

Anyway, it's generally not the middle bit the men are interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops, sorry. Reread the op and my answer's nothing to do with the question. Older women, well this one, obviously have fewer brain cells lol. Gosh, but I've had such fun losing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL

yes my pref in men is between 30 and 65+

I get a lot of pleasure from them not like young guys with them its usualy all me me me.

you can assist me anytime.

"

Hello

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fact, My boyfriend is many years older and i love him dearlyxx

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"hang on guys, and slow down, this is my thread so i should be first to do the sampling. eh eh and any young(er) females who like the idea can always message me,

christmas may come early !!!

"
according to _umour so do you lol that why they leaving you alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it works, my man is 9 years my senior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

25 to 40 is my preferred age group but my very close buddy is 42 but acts 22 lol x its individual choice again some like em younger some like them older! never felt comfortable with older guy much younger girl and the same vice versa but thats just me and its each parties own personal choice and anyone who doesnt like it needs to mind thier own business xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like SOME older men, after all, my husband is 15 years older than me.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Obviously up to individual taste, but I have met some young ladies who do prefer older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always gone for the older guy since I was in my teens, at 15 my boyfriend (then husband) was 24.

Not sure why but I still prefer the older guy, patch is 38 to my 30.

Not saying I won't play with a younger guy, and I have, but there is something about the older man that just does it for me. I will go to 50 tops (yes my profile says different) but over that and they are getting close to my dads age and that to me is similar to people not wanting to play with someone the same age as their kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paul is my sugar daddy ... much older than me (5 months) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope for me yet then

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Could be tru for both sexes, we currently have a couple on here pursuing us actively, we are just into our 50's they are just into their 20's.

They have met several other mature couples and will not take no for an answer! They readily admit to prefering older mature people than couples of their own age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner prefers guys around mid to late 30's, not strict about it as personality/maturity in attitude etc is what it's really about, she is 22, so older to her but not to me.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

a few years ago i had a mistress for a couple of years who was just over 25 years younger than me, she didn't see anything wrong with the age difference and her friends didn't think it unusual for her to have an older lover. the older man / young woman situation has always been traditional throughout history but nowadays older women are taking younger male lovers too. as long as you're both happy age doesn't matter.

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By *ayceeCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Jon is 8 years older than me and I have always found myself attracted to older men. Don't think I have played with many my age or younger and a lot of the most pleasurable times have been with men quite a bit older..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always gone for older men. The exception to this being my Hubby who is 3 weeks younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer older men.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I suppose there is hope for me then

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

with so many of you ladies stating that you prefer the older man, then why the hell do i as an older man find it hard to find a woman be it single or as part of a couple without a cut off set at around the 45 years of age marker ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god no, anyone older than me is deffo off limits, i deffo do not do old men !

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

FFS, I'm too young, or too old!

Or I'm too far away!

LOL

Life!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What a coincidence, me too.

I'm also often too late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dond find it hard to get meets on here with couples of all ages and im 52 so hope for us all.Perhaps mature people give more pleasure unless younger couples prefer a 10 second shag hey.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol

Oh God.....let it be true!

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area


"well i dond find it hard to get meets on here with couples of all ages and im 52 so hope for us all.Perhaps mature people give more pleasure unless younger couples prefer a 10 second shag hey."
its the experience of age. an old bull and young bull loking over the herd. the young one says lets run down there and shag that cow. the old one shakes his head wisely and says lets walk down and do the lot.

point proven i think !!!!!!

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"LOL

yes my pref in men is between 30 and 65+

I get a lot of pleasure from them not like young guys with them its usualy all me me me.

you can assist me anytime.

"
my kind of woman

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Can someone tell Kitty that she is supposed to fancy older men!!!! (Give a guy a break!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just love older men always have and always will.i think! lol

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

love you Fermanagh, like to think us older men have maners and treat people properly, and have learned a trick or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im 28, to be honest older men dont interest me.

Thats not to say I wouldnt meet an older man. Its just not one of my fantasys.

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

always remember you will be an older lady one day! and i promise you youll have lots of young guys after your experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men never appealed to me, even when I was a youngster, and now that I am older they appeal even less!

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By *hepussypleaserMan
over a year ago

Saundersfoot

Sad to say, I'm 13 years older than both my lovers.....they seem to really appreciate the *ahem* older guy

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By *evin5050Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Fortunately still manage to keep up with ladies in their early thirties off here - but have turned down much younger couples due to embarrassment about body difference (on my part).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older men the older the better but I wudnt play with u as ur lady is slim n I sooo not hehe

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

there is 19 years between us and we have been together 10 years. I prefer guys older than me but on our profile I have a cut off of 40 at the moment, I often get emails saying I am a Hypocrite as my partner is over 40! but as I say that is why I prefer a change I already have one grumpy old sod why do I need to play with another!! lol

MrH has said when he was younger he always fancied the older female buy once in his 30s it went the other way.. tasts change I guess.

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Dunno if I am qualified to comment on this subject, let me think, oh yes Kaynie my ex, she was 17 when we met, I was 47 just a young slip of a boy back then, not only did we enjoy 6 years together but what really shocked me at the time was her friends.

Kaynie was at college and told a few selected mates about our visits to Chameleons, she was inudated with requests to accompany us and we often took 2 or 3 and on one occasion 4 other girls with us. That was fun but the shocking part was how happy and eager they were to play with me, perhaps because they wanted to see what Kaynie saw in me, perhaps the mood on the day I don't know I was just in bliss at the time thinking 47 christmas's had come home at once.

Sadly we did go our seperate ways in the end (friends note Kaynie is doing very well now, married and has her first child and I am sure those that know her are happy that she is doing so well)

So single as I was I had to find lots of FB to take to the club, but surprisingly it was the younger girls who jumped at the opportunity, some I met on the net some at the club but here I was at 53 never short of a young woman whose average ages were around 22.

For the last 10 months I have been back in a relationship with a much older woman, Sasha is 27, we love to play and I never cease to be amazed at the amount of young couples that contact us and meet, of course it is the attraction of Sasha that gets them interested in the first place, it was always that way with Kaynie, but I am pleased that when they do meet us they readily accept me as I am and are happy to play with us both.

So yes there are a lot of younger women who would die before going with an older guy, especially a grandad like me but there are also an awful lots of girls who love the idea.

My policy if I have one is "find a princess treat her like a queen"

And if this post sounds like I am blowing mine and older guys trumpets, too right I am let the world know what fun us old gits can have

Anyone fancy a ride on my zimmer frame "

I notice this poster is no longer on this site, either his hearts packed in or he's gone back to Narnia.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno if I am qualified to comment on this subject, let me think, oh yes Kaynie my ex, she was 17 when we met, I was 47 just a young slip of a boy back then, not only did we enjoy 6 years together but what really shocked me at the time was her friends.

Kaynie was at college and told a few selected mates about our visits to Chameleons, she was inudated with requests to accompany us and we often took 2 or 3 and on one occasion 4 other girls with us. That was fun but the shocking part was how happy and eager they were to play with me, perhaps because they wanted to see what Kaynie saw in me, perhaps the mood on the day I don't know I was just in bliss at the time thinking 47 christmas's had come home at once.

Sadly we did go our seperate ways in the end (friends note Kaynie is doing very well now, married and has her first child and I am sure those that know her are happy that she is doing so well)

So single as I was I had to find lots of FB to take to the club, but surprisingly it was the younger girls who jumped at the opportunity, some I met on the net some at the club but here I was at 53 never short of a young woman whose average ages were around 22.

For the last 10 months I have been back in a relationship with a much older woman, Sasha is 27, we love to play and I never cease to be amazed at the amount of young couples that contact us and meet, of course it is the attraction of Sasha that gets them interested in the first place, it was always that way with Kaynie, but I am pleased that when they do meet us they readily accept me as I am and are happy to play with us both.

So yes there are a lot of younger women who would die before going with an older guy, especially a grandad like me but there are also an awful lots of girls who love the idea.

My policy if I have one is "find a princess treat her like a queen"

And if this post sounds like I am blowing mine and older guys trumpets, too right I am let the world know what fun us old gits can have

Anyone fancy a ride on my zimmer frame

I notice this poster is no longer on this site, either his hearts packed in or he's gone back to Narnia....... "

As of 6 hours ago he was still on site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys in their late 30's to 40's...by experience i find them much better lovers...only my personal experience before any young guys get on their soap boxes

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Dunno if I am qualified to comment on this subject, let me think, oh yes Kaynie my ex, she was 17 when we met, I was 47 just a young slip of a boy back then, not only did we enjoy 6 years together but what really shocked me at the time was her friends.

Kaynie was at college and told a few selected mates about our visits to Chameleons, she was inudated with requests to accompany us and we often took 2 or 3 and on one occasion 4 other girls with us. That was fun but the shocking part was how happy and eager they were to play with me, perhaps because they wanted to see what Kaynie saw in me, perhaps the mood on the day I don't know I was just in bliss at the time thinking 47 christmas's had come home at once.

Sadly we did go our seperate ways in the end (friends note Kaynie is doing very well now, married and has her first child and I am sure those that know her are happy that she is doing so well)

So single as I was I had to find lots of FB to take to the club, but surprisingly it was the younger girls who jumped at the opportunity, some I met on the net some at the club but here I was at 53 never short of a young woman whose average ages were around 22.

For the last 10 months I have been back in a relationship with a much older woman, Sasha is 27, we love to play and I never cease to be amazed at the amount of young couples that contact us and meet, of course it is the attraction of Sasha that gets them interested in the first place, it was always that way with Kaynie, but I am pleased that when they do meet us they readily accept me as I am and are happy to play with us both.

So yes there are a lot of younger women who would die before going with an older guy, especially a grandad like me but there are also an awful lots of girls who love the idea.

My policy if I have one is "find a princess treat her like a queen"

And if this post sounds like I am blowing mine and older guys trumpets, too right I am let the world know what fun us old gits can have

Anyone fancy a ride on my zimmer frame

I notice this poster is no longer on this site, either his hearts packed in or he's gone back to Narnia.......

As of 6 hours ago he was still on site! "

maybe he got excited and had a heart attack writing his biography......

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i like men older,my husband is nearly 11yrs older then me and always gone out with older men

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By *ooty and suuCouple
over a year ago

barnsley

depends how old and how mature

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