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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx"

Perfectly fine. Not an issue. So why not text or ring to say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx

Perfectly fine. Not an issue. So why not text or ring to say that? "

Simple. They have had their wank so the bottle goes.

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We have had the same experiences on a number of occasions.

Very rare we get an explanation.

Some guys may just like the thrill of talking about it? X

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx

Perfectly fine. Not an issue. So why not text or ring to say that?

Simple. They have had their wank so the bottle goes."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience of organising gangbangs with previous partners,the vast majority of men prefer the fantasy to the reality

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"In my experience of organising gangbangs with previous partners,the vast majority of men prefer the fantasy to the reality"

Think you're right

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By *ermaidTWoman
over a year ago

and around..fresh waters

Most love the idea.... shame really. Although I've been very lucky and mine turn up.

Maybe it's the experienced swingers more So than the ones who chuck hat in ring that make it better?

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By *wingersimonMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

One of my very early swinging experiences (circa 98/99) was organising a gangbang for a couple. I had sent details to about 15 guys and 8 turned up - that included me, her hubby, and the guy whose flat we were using. She had a great time and of course I learnt later that a 50% turnout was pretty good. However, I was fuming at the no-shows. Some sent multiple texts confirming they would come. The experience made me always turn up to any event or meet I said I would go to. Leaving people in the lurch is so irritating.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"In my experience of organising gangbangs with previous partners,the vast majority of men prefer the fantasy to the reality"

This is why I don't think I could do one. It seems like a fun thing to do, and in the right circumstances it probably could be loads of fun, but I imagine the reality would be me standing shoulder to shoulder with a bunch of dudes I don't know, bollock naked and wanking, probably a bit cold and wondering if I should start making conversation or if eye contact would be weird or not.

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By *utchyjackMan
over a year ago

Newquay

Most of the guys on fab are pic collectors and time wasters, they make it very difficult for the few genuine guys, I have in the past arranged a few gangbangs and spent alot of time messaging guys, before you know it they are asking for pics and telling you how good they are at performing, then they want to know the names of other attendees and want you to sort it for another day or time that suits them better.

Can't they get it that you are offering them a free fuckfest, what they say they are on fab for in the first place. I've now learnt that as soon as they start asking questions I block them.

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"In my experience of organising gangbangs with previous partners,the vast majority of men prefer the fantasy to the reality

This is why I don't think I could do one. It seems like a fun thing to do, and in the right circumstances it probably could be loads of fun, but I imagine the reality would be me standing shoulder to shoulder with a bunch of dudes I don't know, bollock naked and wanking, probably a bit cold and wondering if I should start making conversation or if eye contact would be weird or not.

"

This is a very valid point and maybe a post all of its own. GB's are not for everyone. That is a certainty.

Still doesn't stop you send a quick text though!

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By *eiclad33Man
over a year ago

all over the country

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"Most of the guys on fab are pic collectors and time wasters, they make it very difficult for the few genuine guys, I have in the past arranged a few gangbangs and spent alot of time messaging guys, before you know it they are asking for pics and telling you how good they are at performing, then they want to know the names of other attendees and want you to sort it for another day or time that suits them better.

Can't they get it that you are offering them a free fuckfest, what they say they are on fab for in the first place. I've now learnt that as soon as they start asking questions I block them. "

We're same. We can usually spot them a mile off and the two ladies I tend to organise for won't have 'newbies' anymore.

It was following some other GB's listed on Events and the OP's moaning in their status about no-shows that caused me to post

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By *eiclad33Man
over a year ago

all over the country


"Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx

Perfectly fine. Not an issue. So why not text or ring to say that?

Simple. They have had their wank so the bottle goes.

"

I would love to have the bottle to attend one as I think I would love it, fair play to those who do. X

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In my experience most guys are wannabes and the whilst the idea of group sex is brilliant to them the reality of turning upto a gangbang and fucking in front of other people scares them. They would rather just run than admit it - hence why they don’t text or get in contact.

I have found that if you want guys to turn up then you are best asking people who have been to gangbangs before. At least you know they will know what to expect.

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By *damsmith12233Man
over a year ago

leicester


"I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why??? "

Fantasists more than likely and possibly playing behind a partners back

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"In my experience of organising gangbangs with previous partners,the vast majority of men prefer the fantasy to the reality

This is why I don't think I could do one. It seems like a fun thing to do, and in the right circumstances it probably could be loads of fun, but I imagine the reality would be me standing shoulder to shoulder with a bunch of dudes I don't know, bollock naked and wanking, probably a bit cold and wondering if I should start making conversation or if eye contact would be weird or not.

This is a very valid point and maybe a post all of its own. GB's are not for everyone. That is a certainty.

Still doesn't stop you send a quick text though! "

Oh yeah completely agree with you, it's just common courtesy

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By *lakeyboyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

We could ask them!

I've still got quite a few gangbang no shows on my blocklist who are still active profiles on here.

I know we can't name and shame so will keep schtum but there has to have been no show-ers who have read this post knowing its aimed right at them.

They won't - but - I'd admire them if anyone who has stood up a gangbang leaves a message admitting why they did it.

But like I say they won't. Not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple answer is they have changed their minds for whatever reason xx

Perfectly fine. Not an issue. So why not text or ring to say that?

Simple. They have had their wank so the bottle goes."

Think you hit the nail on the hard with this one.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

How.many have you arranged successfully

Do you not have a list of past show ups

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"How.many have you arranged successfully

Do you not have a list of past show ups

"

I've arranged about a dozen or so in my career. I do have a 'list' of some I could name and shame yes but its a big no-no on here. I'd get shouted at!

To be honest these days I seldom invite 'newbies' so its not as much as a problem for me as such. However, over the bank hols I was watching from afar how some other GB's being held had gone on and a few of the organisers had updated their status moaning about 'no shows' and as well as utterly baffling me I thought it'd spark lively discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How.many have you arranged successfully

Do you not have a list of past show ups

I've arranged about a dozen or so in my career. I do have a 'list' of some I could name and shame yes but its a big no-no on here. I'd get shouted at!

To be honest these days I seldom invite 'newbies' so its not as much as a problem for me as such. However, over the bank hols I was watching from afar how some other GB's being held had gone on and a few of the organisers had updated their status moaning about 'no shows' and as well as utterly baffling me I thought it'd spark lively discussion. "

Real shame, ruins it for the real genuine people.

Many get cold feet,all talk no action.

I was running a car club and clubbing events, and a close play group share,

Very same problem, no shows!!

I packed it all in. Time is valueable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to attend a regular gb in north east. Used to enjoy her as hubby watched us all enjoy her.

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By *utchyjackMan
over a year ago

Newquay

Don't bother with new guys now, stick to tried and tested, only ever approached guys with verifications, but even had no shows from them, been ghosted and had every excuse you can think of. It's just annoying when you spend time trying to organise especially when you can host such events.

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By *uninlondon69Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge South

When I was arranging regularly pre-covid I didn't accept bookings by text or email. I always got a voice call from a non-witheld number. Led to a loyal core of regulars and occasional newbies, but few no-shows.

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Probably because they're cunts?

We had the worst response on fabs where everyone who expressed an interest in attending our gb either ghosted or out right denied ever being interested.

Since had a gb with 100% attendance, thanks to setting up a WhatsApp group. I can get a feel for whose genuine and timewasters from the messages.

In our opinion it isn't worth the effort arranging them considering the time and cost involved.

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By *plitpin79Man
over a year ago

ware

And because most of them are married and there wife’s don’t let them out

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Once I’ve agreed to go to one, I damn well turn up! But, I haven’t attended one in years because my diary just doesn’t permit sadly these days. Would love to again some day!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

And yes, I remember I was very, very, very nervous at turning up for my first. I was way outside my comfort zone and almost trembling. But the ladies (yes there was more than one) were so kind, welcoming and reassuring. As for the other blokes, we all just respected the fact we were all there for the same purpose. Wasn’t really awkward - we just concentrated on doing our best for the ladies!

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"Probably because they're cunts?

We had the worst response on fabs where everyone who expressed an interest in attending our gb either ghosted or out right denied ever being interested.

Since had a gb with 100% attendance, thanks to setting up a WhatsApp group. I can get a feel for whose genuine and timewasters from the messages.

In our opinion it isn't worth the effort arranging them considering the time and cost involved."

All very valid. I/we only use an extended group of trusted attendees these days as we know, unless there is some crisis occurring - all will turn up.

But over time you do get a 'feel' for potential timewasters.

I must admit though I've never come across anyone out right denying they were even interested!!! Now that is a new one on me. That is incredible - especially as you can just potentially screenshot or copy & paste a copy of their 'interest' back to them as evidence!!! Haha!!!

Crazy

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By *angbangcouple6969Man
over a year ago

Walsall

We get no shows all the time. Always invite double the amount yiu actually want as in our experience 50% of guys won't show

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By *ichtingleMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"We get no shows all the time. Always invite double the amount yiu actually want as in our experience 50% of guys won't show"

Just about everybody experiences this. Think what the author is trying to get to the bottom of is why?

Its a large % of men who are supposedly looking for NSA sex who are turning NSA sex down by not turning up.

Their loss

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

It the bane of the genuine gangbanger.

The actual reason - and its a dull answer sadly - is many of the profiles on here are manned by married/attached men or teens (or still teens mentally) in their mam's back bedroom. And the reality is just being invited is enough for them to get their 'cheapies' and they tiddle their little winkies in delight at this oh so naughty accomplishment.

But these are very insecure men. There is NO way they can perform in front of others. Not a fookin chance. Hell, these types can't even piss in a public loo stalls with others having a wazz a few inches away.

So these sad little scaredy-cats are never gonna be man enough to ever just drop a quick "soz no can do now" message cos they're spineless, cowardly little shits.

Now I'm typing this in full confidence cos I know I'm right. I 'know' quite a few of you on here who still have active profiles and who might even be reading this that are lousy loser 'Gangbang No-Shows' but we compare notes, we know who some of you are.

But that's the answer: Silly little boys playing with themselves keeping shares in Kleenex high.

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By *6geezWoman
over a year ago

Wantage

They bottle it. Wank it out and lose interest.

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By *runchlunchleyMan
over a year ago

Stockport


"It the bane of the genuine gangbanger.

The actual reason - and its a dull answer sadly - is many of the profiles on here are manned by married/attached men or teens (or still teens mentally) in their mam's back bedroom. And the reality is just being invited is enough for them to get their 'cheapies' and they tiddle their little winkies in delight at this oh so naughty accomplishment.

But these are very insecure men. There is NO way they can perform in front of others. Not a fookin chance. Hell, these types can't even piss in a public loo stalls with others having a wazz a few inches away.

So these sad little scaredy-cats are never gonna be man enough to ever just drop a quick "soz no can do now" message cos they're spineless, cowardly little shits.

Now I'm typing this in full confidence cos I know I'm right. I 'know' quite a few of you on here who still have active profiles and who might even be reading this that are lousy loser 'Gangbang No-Shows' but we compare notes, we know who some of you are.

But that's the answer: Silly little boys playing with themselves keeping shares in Kleenex high.

"

^^^^^ THIS ^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It the bane of the genuine gangbanger.

The actual reason - and its a dull answer sadly - is many of the profiles on here are manned by married/attached men or teens (or still teens mentally) in their mam's back bedroom. And the reality is just being invited is enough for them to get their 'cheapies' and they tiddle their little winkies in delight at this oh so naughty accomplishment.

But these are very insecure men. There is NO way they can perform in front of others. Not a fookin chance. Hell, these types can't even piss in a public loo stalls with others having a wazz a few inches away.

So these sad little scaredy-cats are never gonna be man enough to ever just drop a quick "soz no can do now" message cos they're spineless, cowardly little shits.

Now I'm typing this in full confidence cos I know I'm right. I 'know' quite a few of you on here who still have active profiles and who might even be reading this that are lousy loser 'Gangbang No-Shows' but we compare notes, we know who some of you are.

But that's the answer: Silly little boys playing with themselves keeping shares in Kleenex high.

"

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By *rettyboylloydMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"It the bane of the genuine gangbanger.

The actual reason - and its a dull answer sadly - is many of the profiles on here are manned by married/attached men or teens (or still teens mentally) in their mam's back bedroom. And the reality is just being invited is enough for them to get their 'cheapies' and they tiddle their little winkies in delight at this oh so naughty accomplishment.

But these are very insecure men. There is NO way they can perform in front of others. Not a fookin chance. Hell, these types can't even piss in a public loo stalls with others having a wazz a few inches away.

So these sad little scaredy-cats are never gonna be man enough to ever just drop a quick "soz no can do now" message cos they're spineless, cowardly little shits.

Now I'm typing this in full confidence cos I know I'm right. I 'know' quite a few of you on here who still have active profiles and who might even be reading this that are lousy loser 'Gangbang No-Shows' but we compare notes, we know who some of you are.

But that's the answer: Silly little boys playing with themselves keeping shares in Kleenex high.

"

Nailed it! 110%!!!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

There’s also an element of “oh there’s loads going so it doesn’t matter if I don’t show”.

At our last gangbang three of the guys who didn’t show had over 40 verifications between them. Recent ones and gangbang ones too. So not newbies. We spoke to them the day before and they all messaged on the morning of as well, yet come 1pm they were nowhere to be seen.

One of them even said as much when I messaged after to say we were reporting and sticking on the block list (after he’d been online multiple times with no “sorry I had a car crash and had three limbs amputated” dramatic excuse).

It is sometimes a shame that there’s not a mutual meet function on here so there is actually a way of seeing that whilst someone has been verified 10 times they’ve also no-showed 25 times.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why??? "

Some men like the idea of swinging/group sex/gangbangs.

However, some men when given the chance bottle it. They get scared. For various reasons such as whether I can perform in front of others, will I be able to get hard, will all the other guys have massive cocks, etc.

I have been to gangbangs where guys have turned up, got undressed, bottled it, got dressed, and leave.

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By *rettyboylloydMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"There’s also an element of “oh there’s loads going so it doesn’t matter if I don’t show”.

At our last gangbang three of the guys who didn’t show had over 40 verifications between them. Recent ones and gangbang ones too. So not newbies. We spoke to them the day before and they all messaged on the morning of as well, yet come 1pm they were nowhere to be seen.

One of them even said as much when I messaged after to say we were reporting and sticking on the block list (after he’d been online multiple times with no “sorry I had a car crash and had three limbs amputated” dramatic excuse).

It is sometimes a shame that there’s not a mutual meet function on here so there is actually a way of seeing that whilst someone has been verified 10 times they’ve also no-showed 25 times.

"

You can report a profile if they arrange to meet and then fail to show up.

Not sure what impact it has but it is there on the report list.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"One of my very early swinging experiences (circa 98/99) was organising a gangbang for a couple. I had sent details to about 15 guys and 8 turned up - that included me, her hubby, and the guy whose flat we were using. She had a great time and of course I learnt later that a 50% turnout was pretty good. However, I was fuming at the no-shows. Some sent multiple texts confirming they would come. The experience made me always turn up to any event or meet I said I would go to. Leaving people in the lurch is so irritating. "

50% is the vaerage. If you want 4 guys invite 8, if you want 6 guys invite 12, if you want 10 guys invite 20, etc.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"M, they make it very difficult for the few genuine guys, I have in the past arranged a few gangbangs and spent alot of time messaging guys, before you know it they are asking for pics and telling you how good they are at performing, then they want to know the names of other attendees and want you to sort it for another day or time that suits them better.

Can't they get it that you are offering them a free fuckfest, what they say they are on fab for in the first place. I've now learnt that as soon as they start asking questions I block them. "

A big lol to "Most of the guys on fab are pic collectors and time wasters"

Timewasters/pic collectors do not make it harder for genuine single guys they make it easier.

If you are not getting meets on fab don't blame other guys.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK


"One of my very early swinging experiences (circa 98/99) was organising a gangbang for a couple. I had sent details to about 15 guys and 8 turned up - that included me, her hubby, and the guy whose flat we were using. She had a great time and of course I learnt later that a 50% turnout was pretty good. However, I was fuming at the no-shows. Some sent multiple texts confirming they would come. The experience made me always turn up to any event or meet I said I would go to. Leaving people in the lurch is so irritating.

50% is the vaerage. If you want 4 guys invite 8, if you want 6 guys invite 12, if you want 10 guys invite 20, etc. "

Agree with above and don't be fussy on who you invite. Your probably find the people who have less verifications are the genuine ones compared to someone who has more.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"How.many have you arranged successfully

Do you not have a list of past show ups

I've arranged about a dozen or so in my career. I do have a 'list' of some I could name and shame yes but its a big no-no on here. I'd get shouted at!

To be honest these days I seldom invite 'newbies' so its not as much as a problem for me as such. However, over the bank hols I was watching from afar how some other GB's being held had gone on and a few of the organisers had updated their status moaning about 'no shows' and as well as utterly baffling me I thought it'd spark lively discussion.

Real shame, ruins it for the real genuine people.

Many get cold feet,all talk no action.

I was running a car club and clubbing events, and a close play group share,

Very same problem, no shows!!

I packed it all in. Time is valueable.. "

It doesn't ruin it for the real genuine people. If anything, it makes real genuine people stand out.

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By *abluesbaby OP   Man
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London


"I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why???

Some men like the idea of swinging/group sex/gangbangs.

However, some men when given the chance bottle it. They get scared. For various reasons such as whether I can perform in front of others, will I be able to get hard, will all the other guys have massive cocks, etc.

I have been to gangbangs where guys have turned up, got undressed, bottled it, got dressed, and leave.

"

What you describe is absolutely true and is yet another inevitable feature of a gangbang.

But I for one have no issue if that happens. Gangbangs are NOT for everyone and - yes - the reality when it comes to the crunch can simply be too much. We're all human after all.

But the ones suffering acute stage-fright at least turn up! Its the ones where we're all sat at say 3pm after we'd arranged to meet at 2pm and wondering whether to give them 5 mins more or not I have an issue with.

If you bottle it then its fine, no worries, but just send a text or whatever. So we know you're ok but not coming.

Too much to ask???

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By *oundandround69Man
over a year ago

Reading


"I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why??? "

I attended one that was supposed to be two women and 10 guys.

Only 3 of us turned up, plus the host. The host said that none of the no shows even messaged. No idea why? Just meant more fun for those of us that did turn up.

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By *iddle_me_reeMan
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"It the bane of the genuine gangbanger.

The actual reason - and its a dull answer sadly - is many of the profiles on here are manned by married/attached men or teens (or still teens mentally) in their mam's back bedroom. And the reality is just being invited is enough for them to get their 'cheapies' and they tiddle their little winkies in delight at this oh so naughty accomplishment.

But these are very insecure men. There is NO way they can perform in front of others. Not a fookin chance. Hell, these types can't even piss in a public loo stalls with others having a wazz a few inches away.

So these sad little scaredy-cats are never gonna be man enough to ever just drop a quick "soz no can do now" message cos they're spineless, cowardly little shits.

Now I'm typing this in full confidence cos I know I'm right. I 'know' quite a few of you on here who still have active profiles and who might even be reading this that are lousy loser 'Gangbang No-Shows' but we compare notes, we know who some of you are.

But that's the answer: Silly little boys playing with themselves keeping shares in Kleenex high.

"

Superb! Best comment I've read in ages

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

“The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her” -Bob Marley

Ok, its a gangbang so no one is falling in love (although I'm sure its happened at some point!) and its just sex. Nothing more.

But all you "No-Shows" out there are cowards as Bob said.

You are mean.

By accepting the invite you have awoken the lady's lust and fired up her desire.

But then you, out of your own pathetic selfishness, deny her that pleasure.

That is mean.

And you haven't the fucking decency to even tell her.

It makes you a coward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So cool you organise gang bangs! I love a good gang bang!

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry


"

You can report a profile if they arrange to meet and then fail to show up.

Not sure what impact it has but it is there on the report list. "

I don’t bother reporting anymore, it’s a waste of time. All that happens is Fab block you from seeing the other profile and them you.

I know for a fact one of the guys has no showed at least twice more since (although has had one meet also) as his name came up in conversation with someone who likes similar fun to me so multiple reports appear to mean nothing at all.

I just block them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her” -Bob Marley

Ok, its a gangbang so no one is falling in love (although I'm sure its happened at some point!) and its just sex. Nothing more.

But all you "No-Shows" out there are cowards as Bob said.

You are mean.

By accepting the invite you have awoken the lady's lust and fired up her desire.

But then you, out of your own pathetic selfishness, deny her that pleasure.

That is mean.

And you haven't the fucking decency to even tell her.

It makes you a coward. "

The Cowardice will continue untill the end of time.

Best way to end it, dont feed it the Sugar it breeds upon. Just like the big "C" .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I suffer from gang bang no invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How.many have you arranged successfully

Do you not have a list of past show ups

I've arranged about a dozen or so in my career. I do have a 'list' of some I could name and shame yes but its a big no-no on here. I'd get shouted at!

To be honest these days I seldom invite 'newbies' so its not as much as a problem for me as such. However, over the bank hols I was watching from afar how some other GB's being held had gone on and a few of the organisers had updated their status moaning about 'no shows' and as well as utterly baffling me I thought it'd spark lively discussion.

Real shame, ruins it for the real genuine people.

Many get cold feet,all talk no action.

I was running a car club and clubbing events, and a close play group share,

Very same problem, no shows!!

I packed it all in. Time is valueable..

It doesn't ruin it for the real genuine people. If anything, it makes real genuine people stand out. "

Yes i agree, i hear your view point.

Lets hope the real genuine can be seen for that quality,and the same likes seek them out.

All a numbers game and a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I'm a walker not a talker. Any invites welcome ladies and gets.

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Last gang bang I attended there was about 6 guys and the couple that organised it. There were 2 additional couples that completely ghosted the hosts after they said they'll be arriving shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I was fucking the exhaust pipe of a fiat punto rain check ?

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"I love organising gangbangs. Its my 'thing' if you will. Of course one of the main pitfalls of this is the No-Show. Men eagerly sign up and send their autobiography and face pics and dick pics and enthuse how excited they are and look forward to being at the allotted meeting... only never to be heard or seen again.

I'd love to know why???

Of course life can happen. Things can happen. Accidents can happen. Force majeure can intervene in the cruellest of ways. We get that.

What I'm talking about is simply not turning up without even the courtesy to phone, text, message, email, send carrier pigeon, smoke signals or telegram. In 2022 its pretty damn easy to send some kind of message if you're having difficulties.

So why do that???

I read post after post on here of single men moaning on and on and on about they don't get enough action on here and no one reads their messages or ever replies etc... And sure its tough for single guys on here. We all know that. So it baffles me when if invited to a gangbang some don't show. Its a free hit. Its why you're here. You're gonna get at least sucked and/or wanked off (almost certainly more) for the 'trouble' of turning up at a certain geographical location at a pre-agreed time. I'm VERY lucky.... some of the ladies I have had the honour arranging for are simply stunningly gorgeous too. Its literally all there on a plate!

Yet on average half the men don't turn up.

Why??? "

Probably married and wifey wouldn't let them play out

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By *icefella69Man
over a year ago

bristol

Friends near me in Bristol organise gb-parties, yes they are realistic about the 50% no-show rate from new guys, even when they sound very promising. They succeed by "vetting" regulars like me who actually have the curtesy to turn up when they say they will. And the parties are amazing BTW!!!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

They were probably horny at the time

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

Fantasists or guys who can't deal with being naked around other men mostly.

I've been to a couple in recent times organised by the same gent. Being a reliable regular gets you invited to more.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I think these guys, just like the chase and like most have said they wank off and lose the desire.

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By *ubwife4uCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow


"“The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love without the intention of loving her” -Bob Marley

Ok, its a gangbang so no one is falling in love (although I'm sure its happened at some point!) and its just sex. Nothing more.

But all you "No-Shows" out there are cowards as Bob said.

You are mean.

By accepting the invite you have awoken the lady's lust and fired up her desire.

But then you, out of your own pathetic selfishness, deny her that pleasure.

That is mean.

And you haven't the fucking decency to even tell her.

It makes you a coward. "

Too true. But it’s not just that.

When we arrange a meet, we will get perhaps 50 or 60 messages from guys wanting to be there. Of those, over half are too far away to be serious - delete message. 10 will have not read the profile and are way off the mark in terms of her type. So we are left with maybe 15 interested and we can only invite 5 or 6. So, we wade through profiles and verifications checking experience and locality and choose who she would like and we feel will most likely turn up. We then have to message the others, apologising that they are not invited this time. So we have our 6 and all the details are given, phone numbers swapped and checked etc. But on the night, 4 dont show, don’t reply to messages, and offer no excuse before or after the event.

Annoyingly some of those we have said no to would most likely have turned up and had a bloody good time!

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I love gangbangs but not many since covid...

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