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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater

Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you describe, most defo curious....but then I suspect 90% of guys are. If you take it further you answer your own question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

Does a label really matter as long as it’s consensual and fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a go? You'll either like it or not... There's your answer

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say bi curious until you try it op.

If you do it ,like it & want to keep doing it then you'd be bisexual.

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?

Does a label really matter as long as it’s consensual and fun ?"

Of course not just trying to make sense of these impulses

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sexual fun with men and women then yes bi. Are you bothered??

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Give it a go? You'll either like it or not... There's your answer "

Would it be a turn on or off?

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Sexual fun with men and women then yes bi. Are you bothered??"

No just conflicted ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it, youll love it

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Do it, youll love it "

Think I'm going to have to try ??

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

If you've got these thoughts and feelings I'd say you should go for it, you've got nothing to lose and plenty to gain. I had these feelings for years before I acted upon them and I wished I'd done it years before. It was like a weight lifted off me when I finally accepted my the way I was feeling.

Best of luck exploring, do it with someone worthwhile

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3

Not one for labels but I reckon more men fantasise about this than are willing to admit it.

Most/many watch porn and I’m sure enjoy watching other men in that context

Pretty much all enjoy playing with a cock, albeit usually their own

I’m attracted to women, it’s them that always caught my eye on a night out, but I definitely have some fantasies that involve men.

Good luck wherever it takes you, but most of all enjoy!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not one for labels but try it, sometimes fantasy is better than the reality though but you never know.

If I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, maybe your the same?

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"As you describe, most defo curious....but then I suspect 90% of guys are. If you take it further you answer your own question!"

Guessing 90% of guys are bi curious?

Thinking that's a massive overestimation.

Bi curious at a minimum, OP.

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Not one for labels but try it, sometimes fantasy is better than the reality though but you never know.

If I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, maybe your the same? "

Not heard that one before lol sounds appropriate for me though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not one for labels but try it, sometimes fantasy is better than the reality though but you never know.

If I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, maybe your the same? "

Hetro flexible, I like that saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it a go? You'll either like it or not... There's your answer

Would it be a turn on or off?"

I don't know? I'm not you?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not one for labels but try it, sometimes fantasy is better than the reality though but you never know.

If I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, maybe your the same?

Hetro flexible, I like that saying "

Definitely suits me better then bi.

Mrs

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Surely I can't be the first to offer my cock up for this experiment to take place? Of course the rest of me will need to be involved as well!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not one for labels but try it, sometimes fantasy is better than the reality though but you never know.

If I had to label myself it would be hetro flexible, maybe your the same?

Hetro flexible, I like that saying

Definitely suits me better then bi.

Mrs "

Same here too

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By *otLoverBiMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

One of my biggest fantasies is to have my gf fuck a man then put his cock in me.

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By *lmostDeviantCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

Is it the thought of actually sucking the cock that turns you on or is it preparing it for your mrs for her enjoyment? But of course still getting off on that naughty feeling that you’ve done something that pushes your own boundaries!

You need to decide If its getting that cock ready for her pleasure (being turned on by her being her most turned on) that stimulates you or does the actual deed itself arouse you, so you want to taste it purely for your own enjoyment! People push their own boundaries for others pleasure but I think you can only class yourself as bi if you are doing it for your own pleasure and not to add to someone else’s because you are being adventurous in the moment! Like people have said, it’s the whole labelling debate! Just do what you enjoy and not worry what’s wrote on the tin xx

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Is it the thought of actually sucking the cock that turns you on or is it preparing it for your mrs for her enjoyment? But of course still getting off on that naughty feeling that you’ve done something that pushes your own boundaries!

You need to decide If its getting that cock ready for her pleasure (being turned on by her being her most turned on) that stimulates you or does the actual deed itself arouse you, so you want to taste it purely for your own enjoyment! People push their own boundaries for others pleasure but I think you can only class yourself as bi if you are doing it for your own pleasure and not to add to someone else’s because you are being adventurous in the moment! Like people have said, it’s the whole labelling debate! Just do what you enjoy and not worry what’s wrote on the tin xx"

I think your first statement nails it on the head(forgive the pun lol)

It wouldn't turn me on if she wasn't going to use it after.

It's pushing my boundaries for both our pleasure

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By *lmostDeviantCouple
over a year ago

Tameside


"Is it the thought of actually sucking the cock that turns you on or is it preparing it for your mrs for her enjoyment? But of course still getting off on that naughty feeling that you’ve done something that pushes your own boundaries!

You need to decide If its getting that cock ready for her pleasure (being turned on by her being her most turned on) that stimulates you or does the actual deed itself arouse you, so you want to taste it purely for your own enjoyment! People push their own boundaries for others pleasure but I think you can only class yourself as bi if you are doing it for your own pleasure and not to add to someone else’s because you are being adventurous in the moment! Like people have said, it’s the whole labelling debate! Just do what you enjoy and not worry what’s wrote on the tin xx

I think your first statement nails it on the head(forgive the pun lol)

It wouldn't turn me on if she wasn't going to use it after.

It's pushing my boundaries for both our pleasure"

Personally then I wouldn’t say you’re bi, more that youd go that extra mile for her pleasure! And get that filthy feeling in the process! Because I’m sure it’s the same that the more you’re turned on that she gets off on that even more! We love driving each other wild to the point we surprise ourselves how far we’ll go to do it sometimes xx

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford

Yes agree I have a lady but would love to suck a cock for the first time

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Is it the thought of actually sucking the cock that turns you on or is it preparing it for your mrs for her enjoyment? But of course still getting off on that naughty feeling that you’ve done something that pushes your own boundaries!

You need to decide If its getting that cock ready for her pleasure (being turned on by her being her most turned on) that stimulates you or does the actual deed itself arouse you, so you want to taste it purely for your own enjoyment! People push their own boundaries for others pleasure but I think you can only class yourself as bi if you are doing it for your own pleasure and not to add to someone else’s because you are being adventurous in the moment! Like people have said, it’s the whole labelling debate! Just do what you enjoy and not worry what’s wrote on the tin xx

I think your first statement nails it on the head(forgive the pun lol)

It wouldn't turn me on if she wasn't going to use it after.

It's pushing my boundaries for both our pleasure

Personally then I wouldn’t say you’re bi, more that youd go that extra mile for her pleasure! And get that filthy feeling in the process! Because I’m sure it’s the same that the more you’re turned on that she gets off on that even more! We love driving each other wild to the point we surprise ourselves how far we’ll go to do it sometimes xx"

I thought I had limits, I guess not.

She has hinted of the idea I guess we need to find the person then I will surprise her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

Maybe, or maybe conditioned by porn.

I guess either way, if it's good, it's good. Right?

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By *ansexualPandaMan
over a year ago

Near You


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

You are whatever you want to be. Don't worry too much about labels. That said if you want to put that fantasy into practice there are plenty of guys like me who'd be offering to help

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?

You are whatever you want to be. Don't worry too much about labels. That said if you want to put that fantasy into practice there are plenty of guys like me who'd be offering to help "

Lol I'm sure there is a long queue

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

People aren't as black and white as societies labels would like them to be.

Society has also done a huge amount to demonise gay and bisexual behaviour in men over the years too. This can lead to a ton of hangups about masculinity and sexuality. But also have you met society? Society is a total fucking moron. Don't listen to anything that dipshit has to say.

If you wanna suck cock then go for it. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sexual acts across genders. It doesn't change who you are as a person and you might find out you really enjoy it. I know I do. Don't worry about the labels and go and enjoy yourself.

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"People aren't as black and white as societies labels would like them to be.

Society has also done a huge amount to demonise gay and bisexual behaviour in men over the years too. This can lead to a ton of hangups about masculinity and sexuality. But also have you met society? Society is a total fucking moron. Don't listen to anything that dipshit has to say.

If you wanna suck cock then go for it. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sexual acts across genders. It doesn't change who you are as a person and you might find out you really enjoy it. I know I do. Don't worry about the labels and go and enjoy yourself."

I will enjoy myself and so will she, I'm going to find the girthiest cock I can find and suck the fuck outa it ??

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"People aren't as black and white as societies labels would like them to be.

Society has also done a huge amount to demonise gay and bisexual behaviour in men over the years too. This can lead to a ton of hangups about masculinity and sexuality. But also have you met society? Society is a total fucking moron. Don't listen to anything that dipshit has to say.

If you wanna suck cock then go for it. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sexual acts across genders. It doesn't change who you are as a person and you might find out you really enjoy it. I know I do. Don't worry about the labels and go and enjoy yourself.

I will enjoy myself and so will she, I'm going to find the girthiest cock I can find and suck the fuck outa it ??"

Yeah! Go forth and enjoy that cock you magnificent sexual adventurer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People aren't as black and white as societies labels would like them to be.

Society has also done a huge amount to demonise gay and bisexual behaviour in men over the years too. This can lead to a ton of hangups about masculinity and sexuality. But also have you met society? Society is a total fucking moron. Don't listen to anything that dipshit has to say.

If you wanna suck cock then go for it. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sexual acts across genders. It doesn't change who you are as a person and you might find out you really enjoy it. I know I do. Don't worry about the labels and go and enjoy yourself.

I will enjoy myself and so will she, I'm going to find the girthiest cock I can find and suck the fuck outa it ??"

I didn't have a sexual encounter with a woman until I was your age OP (late starter I guess), and it turns out I do enjoy it very much indeed... So, good on you for being open to experimenting with whatever may/or may not float your boat

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"People aren't as black and white as societies labels would like them to be.

Society has also done a huge amount to demonise gay and bisexual behaviour in men over the years too. This can lead to a ton of hangups about masculinity and sexuality. But also have you met society? Society is a total fucking moron. Don't listen to anything that dipshit has to say.

If you wanna suck cock then go for it. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sexual acts across genders. It doesn't change who you are as a person and you might find out you really enjoy it. I know I do. Don't worry about the labels and go and enjoy yourself.

I will enjoy myself and so will she, I'm going to find the girthiest cock I can find and suck the fuck outa it ??

I didn't have a sexual encounter with a woman until I was your age OP (late starter I guess), and it turns out I do enjoy it very much indeed... So, good on you for being open to experimenting with whatever may/or may not float your boat "

I want to push my boundaries to the extreme and see her ultimate fantasy full filled and maybe enjoy something new in the process

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By *lipflops n ShortsMan
over a year ago

Gran Alacant (Spain)

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By *lipflops n ShortsMan
over a year ago

Gran Alacant (Spain)


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

What's to lose, you either like it or you don't... Why label it

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

if you dont give it a go it will be on your mind all the time,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come suck my cock with your Mrs and find out x

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By *key1980Man
over a year ago

Okehampton


"Come suck my cock with your Mrs and find out x"
I was gonna say that!!! You beat me too it!

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford

Would love too

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

I love watching my Husband get cock! Such a turn on!

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford


"I love watching my Husband get cock! Such a turn on!"
would. Love to suck his cock for you

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By *JdeviantsCouple
over a year ago

Burgess Hill

This is an intriguing one, some great answers here. For me, I’ve always thought of myself as straight, we’ve had MMF’s where there’s been some touching between myself & the guy too, & I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t fantasised about all this but only ever in that scenario.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

No need to label it go with the flow see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

Around these parts you'd probably be classed as Fab straight until you went through with it.

But give it a go, who knows, you might just like it

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?

Around these parts you'd probably be classed as Fab straight until you went through with it.

But give it a go, who knows, you might just like it "

I think I will like it and so will shr

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By *miffythebestMan
over a year ago

Wickford


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?

Around these parts you'd probably be classed as Fab straight until you went through with it. I would Like too for you both

But give it a go, who knows, you might just like it

I think I will like it and so will shr"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be worried about labelling yourself.

Try it, if you like it do it some more if you don't then don't x

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

Try it? If you like it they yea maybe you are? If you find out you don’t like it then no you’re not. Trying it doesn’t make you bi I don’t think. Doing someone once doesn’t make you instantly bi in my eyes. Driving a car round a track once doesn’t make you a race car driver

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

exactly try it.. its only way to find out if its not for you no harm done,

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By *moothLeanBodMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

It's exciting to be in that position with a supportive partner.

Embrace these feelings, talk anout it, try it, all on your own terms.

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By *lzee2Man
over a year ago

Stansted

Go for it, you will enjoy it and be surprised!

I am so much more relaxed and open to my sexual desires now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"exactly try it.. its only way to find out if its not for you no harm done,"

Yep one up the bum no harm done

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

How do you know what you like if you never try

Me I’m happy to be. I and go with the flow in meets

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By *rAndMrs2017500 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bridgewater


"exactly try it.. its only way to find out if its not for you no harm done,

Yep one up the bum no harm done "

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a go you never know you might like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man sucks a cock or a man sucks his cock or he gets fucked by a man's cock or he fucks a man's arse, he is straight if he says he is straight.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath


"Can't stop fantasising about sucking a thick cock for the mrs to then slide down on.....am I bi?"

I have the same fantasy, well I’ve acted on it a few times!! Still feel bi-curious as haven’t gone further than oral, yet

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands


"If a man sucks a cock or a man sucks his cock or he gets fucked by a man's cock or he fucks a man's arse, he is straight if he says he is straight. "

Fab straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say I am bi because I thoroughly adore sucking cock and getting a thick load of cum in my mouth. I have not yet met a guy that I fancy in the way I have many women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy yourself .

There are Too many virtual signaling around the western world and on this website .

Enjoy your 3some and tell no one .

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By *9funboyMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

You're interested in sucking cock. Call it what you like, bi, curious, none of those things. It just doesn't matter. Try it, if you enjoy it you can do it again, if not you never have to try it again. Enjoy being you and be as open or as discreet about it as you wish.

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