FabSwingers.com forum: Hotels

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Often see on profiles ladies that will not meet at hotels. Often wondered what the reason was? safety concerns maybe or is it something else?

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

We love hotels but then we ALWAYS meet as a couple Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the opposite for me, I think hotels are safer. I would never meet at their home, hotels are public and neutral ground.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love hotels… don’t like paying for them for the meet to be cancelled hours before though lol!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There’s something very erotic about meeting in a hotel.

The drive there, the anticipation…

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We prefer using hotels for the first couple of meets with new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often see on profiles ladies that will not meet at hotels. Often wondered what the reason was? safety concerns maybe or is it something else?"

It could be that they feel a hotel can aid a cheating partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy to meet at hotels or accom

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Often see on profiles ladies that will not meet at hotels. Often wondered what the reason was? safety concerns maybe or is it something else?"

Have you thought of asking the ladies whose profiles it's on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the opposite for me, I think hotels are safer. I would never meet at their home, hotels are public and neutral ground."

Exactly why I meet at hotels - Neutral ground

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I think some women see the idea of a hotel or more specifically not able to accommodate as an indication your cheating. Which for many is a massive no. I remember this was specifically frustrating for as a male single parent to young children?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the replies, I get it now as in cheating etc had always wondered what the objection was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people who have suggested a hotel meet to us has turned out to be a time waster.

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
over a year ago

phoenix

"Often see on profiles ladies that will not meet at hotels. Often wondered what the reason was? safety concerns maybe or is it something else?"

I prefer hotels… but always do an initial social meet at the hotel bar (I wouldn’t meet in the room for safety)

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By *ally_be_coolWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I like the intimacy of being in someone's home. I'd always have a social elsewhere first though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think there are a range of reasons why some are wary.

An unspoken pressure -

to have sex, when it's someone else's paid room.

Or not feeling fully in control and safe enough

For travelling guys working away, some feel like a free alternative to an escort.

Not everyone can afford hotels, especially when flexible bookings are much more expensive than special deal, inflexible rates. They can find it inappropriate, if a guy is paying and they can't afford to share it.

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