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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello everyone.

I've been meeting up with a couple that's new to swinging and are looking to possibly join fab but aren't quite ready to yet.

We are looking for a woman to join us. The couple wants to experience voyeurism for their first time so looking for a woman who is comfortable with the couple watching.

I've been on fab awhile but haven't been in this situation before. Just wondering am I approaching this right?

Thanks, Jake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club. No single woman will believe this is genuine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They're not quite ready to join fab but are ready for you to use it on their behalf?

They need to show any potential meet the respect of at least asking for themselves, new or not.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Oh come on.

A single bloke asking a single woman to join so another couple can watch? Further more the couple "are not ready to join fab" but they are ready to watch a lady from fab perform with you?

No mate, you're not approaching this right at all.

If this even remotely legitimate they need to join and find another couple who's into same room fun, not a single lady to perform like a trained monkey for the 3 of you.

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester

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By *ooroo2019Woman
over a year ago

Chester


"Oh come on.

A single bloke asking a single woman to join so another couple can watch? Further more the couple "are not ready to join fab" but they are ready to watch a lady from fab perform with you?

No mate, you're not approaching this right at all.

If this even remotely legitimate they need to join and find another couple who's into same room fun, not a single lady to perform like a trained monkey for the 3 of you."

This

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

From a single woman perspective, what an awful situation to put myself into.

You might need to rethink your approach, seriously.

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

It's not something I can see many women being interested in especially if the couple are not even on here and it being arranged through a single male profile. There are so many red flags there I would think the majority of women would avoid this situation and not want to be a plaything for others fantasies. .Bo.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also op don't do other people's work for them. If they want to experience this they need to have the commitment to set up their own profile and do their own searching, not sit back and wait for you to bring it all to them

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

They should set up and start going on cam I get my exhibitionist kick from that

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If the couple are not ready to join fab, just creating an anonymous online profile of themselves then they certainly won't be ready for a meet even if its just voyeurism. Sounds like a very bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also op don't do other people's work for them. If they want to experience this they need to have the commitment to set up their own profile and do their own searching, not sit back and wait for you to bring it all to them"

Fair points, they are looking at swingers clubs and are genuinely interested so I don't see why they wouldn't Join fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From a single woman perspective, what an awful situation to put myself into.

You might need to rethink your approach, seriously."

Looks like I need to have a sit down with them and discuss how they want to go about it. And reading your comment and others it's clear this isn't the right way to do it.

I didn't realize that's how it came across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tenner says the couple get cold feet and don't show up.. no woman's gonna be on board with this one mate.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How did you meet them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tenner says the couple get cold feet and don't show up.. no woman's gonna be on board with this one mate."

I've already met the couple twice. thanks for your reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did you meet them?"
through Facebook, not from my friends list but they know a friend of mine, they sent me a message that they are looking to broaden their experiences in the bedroom. And then I met them both for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So basically if I've got this right the 'couple' wants to watch you fuck another women in front of them.

If this is correct I'm guessing your inbox is overflowing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So basically if I've got this right the 'couple' wants to watch you fuck another women in front of them.

If this is correct I'm guessing your inbox is overflowing."

Yes, and my inbox isn't overflowing.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"How did you meet them?

through Facebook, not from my friends list but they know a friend of mine, they sent me a message that they are looking to broaden their experiences in the bedroom. And then I met them both for a social. "

If they can send a total stranger a sexual message via Facebook I don't see why they can't join Fab !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did you meet them?

through Facebook, not from my friends list but they know a friend of mine, they sent me a message that they are looking to broaden their experiences in the bedroom. And then I met them both for a social.

If they can send a total stranger a sexual message via Facebook I don't see why they can't join Fab !"

They were worried because of their jobs, but really I think they should of joined anyway anonymously.

I've sent them screenshots of the replies to this forum post. So I'll have to leave it in their hands and see how serious they are joining fab and swinging.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If they want to watch a couple having sex they don't need to join Fab. They can go to a club and watch no problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they want to watch a couple having sex they don't need to join Fab. They can go to a club and watch no problem. "

I'll see what they say

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Could you maybe ask one of the ladies you have met before on here if they would be up for it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could you maybe ask one of the ladies you have met before on here if they would be up for it ?"

It wouldn't hurt asking them.

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