FabSwingers.com forum: Genuine or not?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I used to understand that there was a degree of reluctance from people believing that anyone not verified by a meet in person might possibly be a timewaster. Having recently had my first meet on here, despite having been on here for about a year, I have been told that my lack of promiscuity within that time period is suspicious. Are people on here really judging others by the number of meets they have had in a particular period of time? As a married man playing without partners consent, it limits the opportunity. Added to that, I am not looking to meet just anyone, so is it really that strange that as a casual swinger I don't have a list of verifications as long as my arm? I was on another well known site a few years ago and had a few meets but requested that those people did not leave verifications on the grounds of discretion. Have things really changed that much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer discretion over kiss and tell as I like to call it, but thats just me and my personal preference. Veris are a good way to show genuine but they are not everyones cup of tea.

Each to their own.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You've got your green tick now so all should be well.

To be honest, I get mucked about so much on here by people who say they want to meet then never arrange anything, that i always check if they're verified. Its not foolproof but knowing someone meets gives me a fighting chance. It's a tool the site provides for arranging meets and I use it. others don't.

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

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"I used to understand that there was a degree of reluctance from people believing that anyone not verified by a meet in person might possibly be a timewaster. Having recently had my first meet on here, despite having been on here for about a year, I have been told that my lack of promiscuity within that time period is suspicious. Are people on here really judging others by the number of meets they have had in a particular period of time? As a married man playing without partners consent, it limits the opportunity. Added to that, I am not looking to meet just anyone, so is it really that strange that as a casual swinger I don't have a list of verifications as long as my arm? I was on another well known site a few years ago and had a few meets but requested that those people did not leave verifications on the grounds of discretion. Have things really changed that much?

for us we like to see that someone has been verified genuine, we also look at the person verifying if there's only one.

We're not interested in a full sexual activity history, we just like to know that we're chatting to or potentially meeting a real person/people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the basic fact is the majority on the site will attempt to lure people into a meet and wont carry through the actions.Faceless profiles(or with no pics), are normally the culprits.So I'm afraid the verification system , while not perfect, gives others more comfort in not having their time wasted, or indeed money.Shame to be cynical about others but its true.

and having a long list of verifications doesnt bother me, or my frequency of meets, or what other people think..its my profile and I work it how I like it...I know why I'm on a site like this..and respect why others are too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is a choice but have to day I prefer people who are to those who aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooo eerrr

see I asked people not to verify me because it kept the numbers down in my inbox.

And I admit Im also a little guilty of playing with the friends I already have on here, as a text can be much easier than an email.

Guess I'll just give people my fabs profile name when at chams friday

Or offer to do a phone chat to prove im me if needed before then

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