FabSwingers.com forum: TV fun 'straight' (?)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like most here, I'm a human being (eg: tolerant of others' choices and desires as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else) - but speaking to a male couple recently we were considering getting talking to, towards meeting up, their profile said 'straight' for both, but then stated a comment from a TV that he'd played with them both.

Was the choosing 'straight' by those guys misleading/a mistake/something else?

Just feel awkward now as I felt it was a waste of both of our times, which could have been avoided if the guys said 'bi-cur

(Unless, of course, the TV was very convincing and they didn't know!lol)

Cheers Folks

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Like most here, I'm a human being (eg: tolerant of others' choices and desires as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else) - but speaking to a male couple recently we were considering getting talking to, towards meeting up, their profile said 'straight' for both, but then stated a comment from a TV that he'd played with them both.

Was the choosing 'straight' by those guys misleading/a mistake/something else?

Just feel awkward now as I felt it was a waste of both of our times, which could have been avoided if the guys said 'bi-cur

(Unless, of course, the TV was very convincing and they didn't know!lol)

Cheers Folks

The person could have tried it, decided he didn't like it, and left things as they were. You're not strictly bi until your second blowjob as it's a bi one get one free.

I wouldn't be disappointed if they have what you are looking for. You never know how anyone is until you have them in front of you anyway...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes profiles are uninetionally miss leading and others are just down right in your face miss leading .....those that do that are i guess edging thier bets so to speak..its the whole "am i bi or straight ; but i like mens willys, but afraid to tell anyone" senario

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

You'll find a lot of "straight" guys are actually willing to meet other guys and TV/TS/CD's ect.

Apparently they put "straight" to avoid being harrassed by other guys.

However, if we get contacted by a guy who claims to be straight on their profile and then says otherwise, we often can't help but wonder if they're just saying whatever they think we want to hear in order to get to the female of a couple...

Sometimes it's not the case but a lot of them don't seem to realise that if they get as far as getting a meet with us and then suddenly don't want Vincent anywhere near them, they'll be shown the door. No excuses.

- Amy. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"The person could have tried it, decided he didn't like it, and left things as they were."

Oh, and this, lol. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll find a lot of "straight" guys are actually willing to meet other guys and TV/TS/CD's ect.

Apparently they put "straight" to avoid being harrassed by other guys.

- Amy. x"

If that is the case then why just go after the woman solely?

I think you missed the part where bi guys don't just go for the women. If they're gay as so many people say they are then why would they want female attention?

Seriously, some people need to put 2 and 2 together.

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By *andCCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Lots of guys like being around TV's but don't necessarily want any sexual contact; I've played in rooms full of people doing the most horny and debauched things you could imagine, but the only person I had physical contact with was my partner.

Is voyeurism not a valid part of the swinging scene? I know it's unlikely that this applies to the guys you were in contact with, but maybe it was only a bit of light touching that they engaged in ...that would make them pretty straight by my definition

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Folks, Thanks for feedback

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"If that is the case then why just go after the woman solely?

I think you missed the part where bi guys don't just go for the women. If they're gay as so many people say they are then why would they want female attention?

Seriously, some people need to put 2 and 2 together."

...What on EARTH are you talking about?

We play with bi guys so we would expect them to be comfortable with both me and Vincent touching/playing with them. I was getting at the people who put "straight" on their profile and then suddenly claim to be bi while looking through preferences in order to play with some couples (as there are more couples than there are single women, ergo, more chance of a meet). And then you find out that they have this weird physical condition which makes them jump like they've had 30,000V up their ass anytime a guy's arm brushes them... One of the many labyrinths of Fab.

However, I said some, not all, so I don't know who shoved a stick up your ass.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was the choosing 'straight' by those guys misleading/a mistake/something else?

Just feel awkward now as I felt it was a waste of both of our times, which could have been avoided if the guys said 'bi-cur

(Unless, of course, the TV was very convincing and they didn't know!lol)

Cheers Folks

A male 'couple' that are both straight???? That's a bit of a contradiction in itself - no surprise that they play with tvs - if they're not for you just move on to greener pastures

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Was the choosing 'straight' by those guys misleading/a mistake/something else?

Just feel awkward now as I felt it was a waste of both of our times, which could have been avoided if the guys said 'bi-cur

(Unless, of course, the TV was very convincing and they didn't know!lol)

Cheers Folks

A male 'couple' that are both straight???? That's a bit of a contradiction in itself - no surprise that they play with tvs - if they're not for you just move on to greener pastures

I've seen male couple profiles on here that are 2 friends looking for a woman to do mmf with. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is alot of guys on here who put straight as they know alot of woman are put off by guys playing with guys

but when straight guys play with TV's it tends to just be the TV giving a bj.. i dont think that makes any guy bi..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I've seen male couple profiles on here that are 2 friends looking for a woman to do mmf with. Xx "

Same, I've seen it for groups of guys who offer gangbangs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I encountered a similar experience only last night. I've been exchanging messages as you do with a couple who both are down as straight. Arranged date and time to meet, I thought cool, I'm really looking forward to this. Then out of the blue!! I received a message stating... from the male half " I will want to suck on your cock during the meet and that's the deal" I messaged back saying the meet is off as I'm straight and more to the piont your profile states you the male is straight. I got a reply back saying he had only recently discovered he enjoyed sucking cock on a recent meet. That is fair enough but I wish people would amend their profiles to state the truth.. So much time wasted. Nevermind we all experience such knocks. Plenty more sexy peeps who are truthful

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"I encountered a similar experience only last night. I've been exchanging messages as you do with a couple who both are down as straight. Arranged date and time to meet, I thought cool, I'm really looking forward to this. Then out of the blue!! I received a message stating... from the male half " I will want to suck on your cock during the meet and that's the deal" I messaged back saying the meet is off as I'm straight and more to the piont your profile states you the male is straight. I got a reply back saying he had only recently discovered he enjoyed sucking cock on a recent meet. That is fair enough but I wish people would amend their profiles to state the truth.. So much time wasted. Nevermind we all experience such knocks. Plenty more sexy peeps who are truthful

Wow, how rude. It's one thing to ask if you'd be ok with it but another to DEMAND it from a meet when it's initially been arranged as straight play...

If on the odd occasion we meet straight guys, we will ask them how they feel about certain things but if they're not comfortable with it then Vincent will keep his hands to himself.

Ah well, good luck with the next meet. x

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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago

Falkirk

Once a while back was talking to a guy for a while who was straight till I saw he had left a veri on a gay mans profile basically showing they had been together a few times and when I confronted him about it he comes up with the lame excuse of his profile being hacked and the list of verifications wasnt left by him because hes straight.

Wont be the last guy on here that pretends to be straight when they are bi. Ive developed a wee list of "straight" guys that if they attempt a chat up i just ignore them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sheeeeesh...this old chestnut again! I never cease to be amazed at the number of 'straight' guys who say they'd like to 'experiment' with me! The site is full of them..I reckon there are probably more 'straight' bi-guys than 'bi' bi-guys on here if people were truthful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sheeeeesh...this old chestnut again! I never cease to be amazed at the number of 'straight' guys who say they'd like to 'experiment' with me! The site is full of them..I reckon there are probably more 'straight' bi-guys than 'bi' bi-guys on here if people were truthful

Amen to that Jenna.

My position this has been shown so many times that I'm not going to argue anymore. But if a guy wants to have sex with me then he's at least bi. He's not straight just because I'm wearing women's clothes. If he thinks that then he'd have to have his eyes closed for the entire encounter!

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