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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

I introduced her to her first MMF and and we had few meets but she said she didn’t enjoy random from and felt comfortable with people she know . She even tried to arrange a meet with her ex lover 15 years back but when I found I didn’t allow it as I thought feelings might be there and not safe but then she started making friends on face book and started stared to hide phone and text and seemed more dressing up and going out and hanging out with friends . Not interested in sex at home and says either she is tiered or sleepy . And recently said not Interested with me . And she even said to find a women to have sex if I need and she is okay with it . And said she will sort herself with sex side of things . Not sure if she is geting fucked by someone already or she is playing games . But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I introduced her to her first MMF and and we had few meets but she said she didn’t enjoy random from and felt comfortable with people she know . She even tried to arrange a meet with her ex lover 15 years back but when I found I didn’t allow it as I thought feelings might be there and not safe but then she started making friends on face book and started stared to hide phone and text and seemed more dressing up and going out and hanging out with friends . Not interested in sex at home and says either she is tiered or sleepy . And recently said not Interested with me . And she even said to find a women to have sex if I need and she is okay with it . And said she will sort herself with sex side of things . Not sure if she is geting fucked by someone already or she is playing games . But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!"

Does the thought make you hard?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"I introduced her to her first MMF and and we had few meets but she said she didn’t enjoy random from and felt comfortable with people she know . She even tried to arrange a meet with her ex lover 15 years back but when I found I didn’t allow it as I thought feelings might be there and not safe but then she started making friends on face book and started stared to hide phone and text and seemed more dressing up and going out and hanging out with friends . Not interested in sex at home and says either she is tiered or sleepy . And recently said not Interested with me . And she even said to find a women to have sex if I need and she is okay with it . And said she will sort herself with sex side of things . Not sure if she is geting fucked by someone already or she is playing games . But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!"

I think you know the answer.

If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and swims like a duck...its not a pigeon.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Aren't you on here as a couple?

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Yes we are a couple and we have met people on here but suspect she is playing behind my back now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's sometimes happens to couples who swing for a while m8.maybe she's not but I know of a few couples who end up splitting up with this lifestyle.

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Don’t understand as when you allow and give permission why do it behind each other’s back but Even if you do when found out just be open and ask to join or I don’t have any problems as long as she is enjoying and safe

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

I like the idea of her having a affair and told her to find any decent guys but only for sex and want to be a part of it or Cuckold or whatever . But need to know what’s happening and when I ask she says its her private life and don’t want to discuss . Not sure she is teaching me a lesson as few years back I fucked a lady friend and she going out but I did say it was just a fuck and nothing more and it’s been years

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I introduced her to her first MMF and and we had few meets but she said she didn’t enjoy random from and felt comfortable with people she know . She even tried to arrange a meet with her ex lover 15 years back but when I found I didn’t allow it as I thought feelings might be there and not safe but then she started making friends on face book and started stared to hide phone and text and seemed more dressing up and going out and hanging out with friends . Not interested in sex at home and says either she is tiered or sleepy . And recently said not Interested with me . And she even said to find a women to have sex if I need and she is okay with it . And said she will sort herself with sex side of things . Not sure if she is geting fucked by someone already or she is playing games . But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!"

Why not ask her before posting about it on here and since you're a couple I'm sure she's going to see this post. I don't think she would have let you finger her after having a meet ,especially if she doesn't want to have sex with you.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"I like the idea of her having a affair and told her to find any decent guys but only for sex and want to be a part of it or Cuckold or whatever . But need to know what’s happening and when I ask she says its her private life and don’t want to discuss . Not sure she is teaching me a lesson as few years back I fucked a lady friend and she going out but I did say it was just a fuck and nothing more and it’s been years "

It's her private life? She's your wife and hiding things. She's telling you to go find someone se whilst leading her own double life you know nothing about. Probably is to do with what happened in the past as well.

As an outside observer based purely on your story, i would say you're done and it's over. She's just not saying it to you. But its her you need to talk to, not fab.

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

I understand it’s her life and we are not perfect but all I am asking is to work around it . As I am not jealous and happy to cuck or allow it . And I tried to speak to her few times and she skips the subject or don’t want to talk about it . I was only sharing it on fab to get a second opinion and listen to people who got more experience than me or been in a similar situation .

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!"

I'm not sure what you're thinking? That she's had loads of DVP? Or half a dozen kids?

How long ago was she tight? And now "loose"? I think you might be confused about female physiology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!

I'm not sure what you're thinking? That she's had loads of DVP? Or half a dozen kids?

I agree with the above, unless sorry OP you've not reallynturned her on in the past and she has never gotten that wet and loosened up. You need to have a conversation with your wife and figure out what you can be okay with, swingers or not you don't have a private sex life away from your partner especially if not mutually agreed. She has also told you, she's not turned on by you and for you to find another woman if you want sex. I'm sorry for your predicament but it seems pretty clear, your sex life is done and she has no interest in reviving it.

How long ago was she tight? And now "loose"? I think you might be confused about female physiology. "

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Hes just on for a nice wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I introduced her to her first MMF and and we had few meets but she said she didn’t enjoy random from and felt comfortable with people she know . She even tried to arrange a meet with her ex lover 15 years back but when I found I didn’t allow it as I thought feelings might be there and not safe but then she started making friends on face book and started stared to hide phone and text and seemed more dressing up and going out and hanging out with friends . Not interested in sex at home and says either she is tiered or sleepy . And recently said not Interested with me . And she even said to find a women to have sex if I need and she is okay with it . And said she will sort herself with sex side of things . Not sure if she is geting fucked by someone already or she is playing games . But she is soaking wet and loose a bit when I fingered her few days back she use to be very tight . I am puzzled !!

I think you know the answer.

If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck and swims like a duck...its not a pigeon.

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Op. Ask her.

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Asked her but she don’t want to talk or share .. and skip conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing your wife doesn't come on the site anymore?

Also you know your wife better than any of us so deep down you'll know what's going on

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

Trust me I don’t know what’s going on and wish she comes on here with me and do things together . Just want to get some opinions and ideas or handle the situation if anyones already been

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Trust me I don’t know what’s going on and wish she comes on here with me and do things together . Just want to get some opinions and ideas or handle the situation if anyones already been "

You should probably remove her pics if she doesn't come on here

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By *aughtybirds OP   Couple
over a year ago

Essex

I don’t mind removing her pics but we have met people together from fab and got mutual couples friends and hope we get along and start meeting again . That would piss her more if I take down all her pictures And stay single lol

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By *iilboyCouple
over a year ago

walsall

she looks to much women for you cuckold i think you know she has a bull fucking her

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