FabSwingers.com forum: Condom mood killers ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

They're not the best but usually an essential.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Yes it can be a bit of a mood killer, and the sensation isn't the same for me.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

They can be, but only if you let them! You’ve just got to get in the right head space!

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom."

Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I Always wrap up

Don’t want some baby gravy escaping and causing

kids

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

As Lil Wayne said

Safe sex is great sex

Better wear that latex

Because you don’t want that late text

That “I think I’m late” text

Such a poet!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom.

Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take"

The only way of completely avoiding an sti is no sex, oral or penetrative. But yes, it can minimise the risk.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet.

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom.

Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take"

You do realise female contraception is not 100% reliable . Each to their own but the risks are too great for me .

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By *ure_heatMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I get the need - and always do... but, yeah, 100 fucking percent a mood killer!

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

They definitely do remove some sensation, even the ones that claim to be super thin, it doesn't have to be a mood killer if putting one on is done right and quickly and you don't spend a few minutes fumbling around with a slippery little rubber as your beautiful hard erection slowly dies on you but I think it's just as much psychological as anything else, you know your creating a barrier between yourself and your playmate and you know it could feel better without that barrier and add something to the intimacy of the situation. That's my feelings on it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. I've learnt to put one on with my mouth and that doesn't seem to kill the mood as much as when you fondle around. For me, I see it as a tool to get laid and it makes me comfortable in a meet.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Fortunately can't have kids but STD is always a risk.

But you can get that from oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only a females job to do contraception

protect yourself

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Not really a mood killer. Actually asking to fuck without one is more of a mood killer for us!

Just make sure big enough (a tight one is a mood killer) and keep them to hand. When at home we keep them dotted about various rooms just in case

And really once used to them don't feel much difference. Slightly less sensitive for the man but that is good as takes much longer to cum

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"Fortunately can't have kids but STD is always a risk.

But you can get that from oral sex "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never found them a mood killer tbh

I think putting it on for your partner can be quite nice

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet. "

Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet.

Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback. "

And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babies, the ultimate mood killer

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Would t trust anyone on here. Condom allways

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine

Oh god seriously. That made me laugh and go yuck at the same time. Yep turning up to a party/gathering with one condom not the best idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a meet refuses to wear one then it would not only kill the mood it would end the meet.

Yep 100% this! We had this at parties. People wearing condoms and one twat thinks he can fuck several ladies bareback.

And his mate who thinks he can wear the same condom for different partners. Because he's protected so it's all fine

This. Completely agree. This is one of the biggest mood killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"

Crusty genital warts and 4 different men's lumpy cum feel much nicer than a bit of rubber.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Depends. I've learnt to put one on with my mouth and that doesn't seem to kill the mood as much as when you fondle around. For me, I see it as a tool to get laid and it makes me comfortable in a meet. "

I once had a meet in the USA where she did this. It most certainly didn’t kill the mood it heightened things amazingly, if only every woman was so skilled

Keep up the good work!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never play in the wet without a raincoat....lol

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By *oublethefunMan
over a year ago

royston

They are like taking a bath with your socks on. Just not the same.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier

that lasts a few hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier

that lasts a few hours "

There's a idea get on Dragons den

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here never used one in my entire life.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I don’t mind them at all - no glove, no love!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never found it a mood killer, practice makes perfect

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Incorporate them into play, it can be fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier

that lasts a few hours "

I wonder how many women would trust a man who told them he'd used a spray on condom

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I must admit, it is more enjoyable without, if you trust the person etc.. Or only have set people/person then it should be good (you take the risks with them).

I don't mind putting one on. If asked I always do, and always prepare to put one on.

If the rule is safe sex, and you want to play, then put one on.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Watching him put it on is foreplay. We're about to get down to business

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"

Like anything else. You get used to them. No big deal.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier

that lasts a few hours

I wonder how many women would trust a man who told them he'd used a spray on condom

That new cloak looks amazing.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

With a little imagination putting them on can actually add something to playtime. Not using them shows how little respect you have for yourself, your playmate and any future playmates. Safe is the way peeps!

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"

They can be a mood and hard on killer but I'll take no sex over unsafe sex.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?

They can be a mood and hard on killer but I'll take no sex over unsafe sex."

Used to be a hard on killer until I discovered larger sizes many moons ago and fine since then. If I'm not rock hard I can't blame the condom at least

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Think by now they would have invented a spray in barrier

that lasts a few hours

There's a idea get on Dragons den"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t be silly, wrap your Willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better condoms than the sti test result waiting anxiety

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Don’t be silly, wrap your Willy

Don't be iffy come in a jiffy

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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom.

Not if she's on contraception and yeah std risks you take"

Proper responsible adult answer that!!!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"

Well, in the interests of equality, is this both male and female condoms, used in both oral and penetrative sex? If so, yes, could be a passion killer for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t use them because I’m monogamous and have had the snip but when I did there was plenty of things to do to stop the mood being killed. Just be imaginative.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I never used one. Surley sensation isn't nice?"
how have you never used one..

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Fucking hell. We are in 2022 and some people are still complaining about having to wear a condom.

I (Mr) have been swinging since the late 90s. Always worn a condom. Never allowed it to be a mood killer. Dan hand at putting it on quickly. Incorporate into the whole playing actions. Be prepared with lots on hand in case you:

a) Need to swap for a new one when moving onto a different partner.

b) Need to swap for a new one when moving from anal to vaginal sex.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Fucking hell. We are in 2022 and some people are still complaining about having to wear a condom.

a) Need to swap for a new one when moving onto a different partner.

b) Need to swap for a new one when moving from anal to vaginal sex.

*Dab hand (not sure who Dan is or how he helps)

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By *andG2018Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Nottingham

We hate them ! Thank god lots on here are happy with out x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

They are not ideal , but they have never killed the mood

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Question for you non condom users...

If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?

Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!

Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We’re not the biggest fans of condoms but they are a must for us, some condoms you can hardly feel on and have to double check they haven’t split

Whenever a guy says he can’t get hard wearing one we always say it looks like your going to be watching and wanking then…..

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

Is it actually sex if it isn’t skin on skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most would agree that bare feels better, but protection is a must for me no glove no love.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Wrap up always. There are some ultra thin ones available and always pick the ribs and dotted ones for the ladies pleasure.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

An STI and or baby would be a certain mood killer for me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question for you non condom users...

If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?

Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!

Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!"

I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Durex RealFeel - the cadillac of condoms - barely feel like you're wearing anything.

And no - not a mood killer, they're a mood enhancer - they tell me: "I'm just about to do something that could get me arrested in certain countries with someone else's wife!"

How the fuck can you kill that mood?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Question for you non condom users...

If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?

Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!

Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not mood killer if you have on ready on the side I quite enjoy getting the female to put it on for me I like using them

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Question for you non condom users...

If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?

Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!

Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!

I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes.

Worse actually, I bet some of these men have never ever even thought about it! They have no idea of how much “prep” porn stars do before a shoot. They probably think ATM is perfectly hygienic too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pretty sure an STI or a baby would be way more uncomfortable than a condom.

Wear a condom."

What it says above

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

I don't find it a mood killer. It's a little break in the flow, but full of anticipation.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Do they have a cure for stds and aids that I missed?

No rubber no play

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Question for you non condom users...

If you are having anal sex and then want to move (back) into the vagina, what do you do?

Could be wrong but I suspect some of you think it is like the porn movies and just swap back and forth without a care in the world! That really is poor sexual hygiene chaps!

Or do you stop mid sex and pop off for a wash? More of a mood killer than changing jackets!

I guess by no replies to your question, people just swap back and forth between the 2 holes.

Doing the cashpoint as its known down the valley

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