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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So Boss & I are discussing the male orgasm. Boss prefers to have longer sessions, delay cumming until the big finale, then take a rest before going again. He finds a drop in horniness & increased fatigue/sensitivity, to go again straight after cumming, so needs a little siesta. I love feeling/witnessing guys cum, it turns me on, but its much easier for me, as a women to cum repeatedly, I can only guess how it feels as a guy. Men having sex/ cuming again, after cuming the first time, can vary in frequency so wildly, even for the same guy at different times or circumstances. Can you have sex & cum, back to back? Do you need a short rest? Long rest? Biologically, it seems to be not effective for sperm count/ reproduction, to go again right away. Do you enjoy sex after but are less bothered about cumming or is is less enjoyable, unless you have a mini rest first. Is it better to hold off cumming & have a long session with breaks? Does age play a part? Fitness? Level of horniness? Being single or in a settled relationship? I'm curious, let's discuss?!? Sin xo

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By *ikey warringtonMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I can cum repeatedly with no break. Record is 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum a few times in a session, just need a rest of about 10 mins between which gives me time to reciprocate the attention in the meantime. My levels of horny'ness doesn't really drop, but the quantity of cum, quality of orgasm and hardness of my cock does reduce.... its each to their own. I have delayed Cumming a few times but prefer to cum and cum Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can cum repeatedly with no break. Record is 6"

How many times do you average, in your kink sessions? 2-4-5 times? What makes a session end for you then? Does frequency of sessions change the frequency of cumming for you?

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By *corps74Man
over a year ago

Lancashire/midlands travelling

Great subject OP! I love to delay and delay. Then when it hits, it hits! Probably the roof! Give me 5 or 10 minutes and I’m good to go again though. 3 times is a normal healthy 2 hour+ session then I think I’m physically ready for a sleep!

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"So Boss & I are discussing the male orgasm. Boss prefers to have longer sessions, delay cumming until the big finale, then take a rest before going again. He finds a drop in horniness & increased fatigue/sensitivity, to go again straight after cumming, so needs a little siesta. I love feeling/witnessing guys cum, it turns me on, but its much easier for me, as a women to cum repeatedly, I can only guess how it feels as a guy. Men having sex/ cuming again, after cuming the first time, can vary in frequency so wildly, even for the same guy at different times or circumstances. Can you have sex & cum, back to back? Do you need a short rest? Long rest? Biologically, it seems to be not effective for sperm count/ reproduction, to go again right away. Do you enjoy sex after but are less bothered about cumming or is is less enjoyable, unless you have a mini rest first. Is it better to hold off cumming & have a long session with breaks? Does age play a part? Fitness? Level of horniness? Being single or in a settled relationship? I'm curious, let's discuss?!? Sin xo "
As an older man with prostate problem I cum quickly with little volume but can go again after half hour with some help from the lady although it's a dry orgasm but has the sensation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can cum a few times in a session, just need a rest of about 10 mins between which gives me time to reciprocate the attention in the meantime. My levels of horny'ness doesn't really drop, but the quantity of cum, quality of orgasm and hardness of my cock does reduce.... its each to their own. I have delayed Cumming a few times but prefer to cum and cum Lol

Ah cool, thanks for sharing. Do you find variables that change this for you? Frequency of sex, other factors or are you quite consistent? I'm curious if environmental variables change things or if its just a unique process for every guy

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Perform and have a break type of guy here

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By *absthedonMan
over a year ago

luton

I’m quite young still so I have that on my side . But generally I stay hard after I cum but no stimulation feels good for a few mins it’s awfully sensitive . I can still use it just will not enjoy it til a few mins after . I can stay like this for about 4 rounds after this my cum is non existent mostly just dry orgasms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Great subject OP! I love to delay and delay. Then when it hits, it hits! Probably the roof! Give me 5 or 10 minutes and I’m good to go again though. 3 times is a normal healthy 2 hour+ session then I think I’m physically ready for a sleep!

Who doesnt love talking orgasms

thanks for sharing. It is the case for the delay'ers, when you know, you know ! That roof gets blown/ the woman/partner better hold on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So Boss & I are discussing the male orgasm. Boss prefers to have longer sessions, delay cumming until the big finale, then take a rest before going again. He finds a drop in horniness & increased fatigue/sensitivity, to go again straight after cumming, so needs a little siesta. I love feeling/witnessing guys cum, it turns me on, but its much easier for me, as a women to cum repeatedly, I can only guess how it feels as a guy. Men having sex/ cuming again, after cuming the first time, can vary in frequency so wildly, even for the same guy at different times or circumstances. Can you have sex & cum, back to back? Do you need a short rest? Long rest? Biologically, it seems to be not effective for sperm count/ reproduction, to go again right away. Do you enjoy sex after but are less bothered about cumming or is is less enjoyable, unless you have a mini rest first. Is it better to hold off cumming & have a long session with breaks? Does age play a part? Fitness? Level of horniness? Being single or in a settled relationship? I'm curious, let's discuss?!? Sin xo As an older man with prostate problem I cum quickly with little volume but can go again after half hour with some help from the lady although it's a dry orgasm but has the sensation"

Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it can be a vulnerable topic or feel compared. Really great to hear that the orgasm can vary for a guy too - never knew there was something like a dry orgasm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m quite young still so I have that on my side . But generally I stay hard after I cum but no stimulation feels good for a few mins it’s awfully sensitive . I can still use it just will not enjoy it til a few mins after . I can stay like this for about 4 rounds after this my cum is non existent mostly just dry orgasms "

Interesting, you have the same description for that period of over sensitised as Boss, though he put it down to horniness drop - not in wanting it but biological feeling. Like how for for me, my brain doesn't process pain messages/sensations the same way while I'm super horny.

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By *absthedonMan
over a year ago

luton

Maybe maybe that’s interesting . It really depends on the situation for me honestly if I had been going for a while then cum I can usually go again with no break but I’m no pornstar who lasts forever so most situations i do need a few mins to be able to get to the point of horniness . But like I said I can still use my penis during this time . The longest gap I’ve had is say is about 8 mins but during this time I was still inside my partner still going at it . But I usually last about double the time round 2

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I can repeat but need a small break in between. I like to go down on a woman and pleasure her in different ways. Fingers, kissing, biting, grabbing

Just to give my penis some time to recharge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can repeat but need a small break in between. I like to go down on a woman and pleasure her in different ways. Fingers, kissing, biting, grabbing

Just to give my penis some time to recharge"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i can just keep going… but not every time. Obviously by the third or fourth orgasm, there’s a fair but less profuced

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By *obroyman17Man
over a year ago

I tend to cum relatively quickly with the first orgasm, short break and then go again but can keep at it for a lot lot longer and then can repeat again. My best is 5 in session with a hot cpl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to play whichever way in terms of backing off or keeping going. I have managed 8 repeats in an evening/night (about 7hrs) before. Everyone is different though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can repeat perform. One time I actually came in my lady friend, and almost automatically got hard again and continued without pulling out. I must say it's only happened that one time.

Typically a short break with chat or foreplay and I'm away again. X

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

At my age, ( im nearly 58) I like to cum and then spend a while pleasuring the lady while I recovered for a second round. I can go a lot longer the second time around. But when I cum my legs are like jelly for a bit so recovery time is always good but like I say that gives me time to work on the lady and get her super hot.

When I was younger could do 6 times but age , labido, hydration to name a few things affect it.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

Once I've cum, I'm done for until the following day.

It's not a disrespect thing to the woman, I've always been like that.

Hence when I'm with a woman, i try and prolong the sex for as long as I can before climax.

I've had girlfriends/partners in the past that have thought they've had some sort of magic touch to get me going again. They've all failed and taken it personally.

I know my body, I know my mind. When I've cum I'm done. No shame in that

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

For me, it's changed a lot with age. In my 30's and 40's, especially when in threesomes which I did a lot then, I could cum, stay in and keep going and cum again say three or four times over two or three hours.

Now I'n back to regular mmf's after a long break and prefer to make it last as long as possible (about an hour) before cumming the once, but as the couple don't want to carry on indefinitely, I've not been able to test whether I could manage a second time after a break. I suspect not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always wanted to be tied up and force to cum multiple times what ever the amount is decided i cant leave till im forced to cum that amount x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffer from PME. As I cum too soon, I don't really suffer exhaustion but the post-nut syndrome sends my sex drive plummeting down. I need 15-30 minutes to recover. I can maybe last a little bit longer the second time. I could go for 3 or 4 rounds in a night. But because of PME, I prefer using my tongue longer than doing actual penetration.

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By *eembuckMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I can cum multiple times, often without a rest period, but as others have said it’s good to focus on partners body, so often there is a rest.

Have on a few occasions, cum multiple times while still inside partner, especially if she orgasms right after I have cum, it’s good to keep going leading to multiples.. as long as we are all having fun and enjoyment is mutual, each to their own

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
over a year ago

dorset

Never experienced this

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By *ig_Liam1Man
over a year ago

North

I’m a multiple cummer. I love cumming 1st time then enduring a long second session with tons of foreplay that uses toys also (DP) before sliding back in and getting her cum all attached to my cock. I can repeat for a few times, around 8 times. A good long sex session is the best. Lasting a few hours.

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am like your hubby. I like to last to the end for a big explosion. However, at some partys I go to, they last around 6 hours, I can cum 3 times, sometimes need 20 mins to be ready to go again.. My record in a day is 5 but when I was much younger..

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

Once i have cum my horn level reduces massivly and cannot go straight after, usually within an hour though im back to full attention and can go again.

My prefference would be once i had sex and cum the first time if she wanted to play straight after id perform oral.

I can go multiple times a day i just need a break in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its quite the same for me no matter the circumstances really. I think every guy is different. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am the same as your hubby the feeling of edging is so good and it means i cum ridiculously heavy, almost the equivalent of multiple orgasm say once.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I like to blow my first load quick then short rest then slow and sensual till finale then fuck like crazy till I cum then enjoy the perfect orgasm

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

"I can cum repeatedly with no break. Record is 6"

Hollies dream would be you x 3 overnight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually realised that to really enjoy myself and give my absolute best i need to be made to cum pretty early in the evening in the knowledge that i can just keep going at will after that.

It's like taking the bullets out of the gun and it also increases my confidence in my performance massively knowing i can just repeat at will afterwards. I'm so much more relaxed afterwards and don't even think about the possibility of ejaculating earlier than we'd both like.

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By *ietsenmakerMan
over a year ago

Hartford

I'm 63 and in my younger days it would be 5 a session, now it's usually 2 from me and I try to get to 10 ish from the ladies...earlyish cum from me the the crescendo after the lady has been pleasured

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I cum and repeat quite easily. No complaints so far

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

As a mature guy it takes me longer to recover before I can go again 30 - 45 minute’s whereas when I was younger about 5 minutes. However I have far more control and staying power now which I find much more useful in being able to bring a woman repeatedly to orgasm. So ladies! You choose what’s best for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me about 10 mins to cum via oral and 20-25 mins penetrative sex, 5-10 mins recovery. Record Is 16 times over 24 hours

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