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By *im ophy OP   Man
over a year ago

Tranent

Has any else noticed it’s quite hard for single guys to get meets.. lots of women ask for verified meets.. it’s alright for dudes that have been about a while but being a newbie is hard to get involved. What’s others thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified or not, it’s generally tough for most guys in here.

There’s no magic formula to meeting folk, but you’ll help your cause if you…..

Get your profile bio on point.

Decent photo’s.

Read the profiles of the people you message.

Don’t use a scattergun approach.

Manage your expectations.

Consider getting yourself to a social event.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon


"Has any else noticed it’s quite hard for single guys to get meets.. lots of women ask for verified meets.. it’s alright for dudes that have been about a while but being a newbie is hard to get involved. What’s others thoughts? "

It's generally hard for single guys as women and couples all want different things so really difficult to.please them or satisfy their list of requirements. I've met several woman and couples who refused to give me vari"s . When I asked why they simply said they didn't want people to know how many people they'd met

Patience is a virtue. Keep practicing jumping through the hoop. You might get lucky in the end.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Has any else noticed it’s quite hard for single guys to get meets.. lots of women ask for verified meets.. it’s alright for dudes that have been about a while but being a newbie is hard to get involved. What’s others thoughts? "

Maybe put a bit of effort into your profile

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Look for social events in your area

Get involved in the forums

Try organising a social in your area

Consider a few less cocks pics and a few more interesting photos

Stop posting in your status amd bio that it's hard for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are you get out what you put in….

Have you made your profile the best it can be?

Have you been to a social?

What are your expectations…

It can take time to find someone. A lot of meets aren’t instant. I have spoke to people for months and some years before I’ve met them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verified or not, it’s generally tough for most guys in here.

There’s no magic formula to meeting folk, but you’ll help your cause if you…..

Get your profile bio on point.

Decent photo’s.

Read the profiles of the people you message.

Don’t use a scattergun approach.

Manage your expectations.

Consider getting yourself to a social event. "

This 100%

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Look at verifications on profiles you like and if there's any from single guy's they've met, look at their profiles and compare what they have to offer on their profiles alongside your own. If you think yours isn't as attractive or informative then you need to change it. Ask yourself what you have to offer someone and why they should pick you above the thousands of other guys. You are swimming in a massive pond with thousands of fish so you have to stand out!

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes. Got to get myself to a social event.

When time, training and distance work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verified or not, it’s generally tough for most guys in here.

There’s no magic formula to meeting folk, but you’ll help your cause if you…..

Get your profile bio on point.

Decent photo’s.

Read the profiles of the people you message.

Don’t use a scattergun approach.

Manage your expectations.

Consider getting yourself to a social event. "

This pretty much nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has any else noticed it’s quite hard for single guys to get meets.. lots of women ask for verified meets.. it’s alright for dudes that have been about a while but being a newbie is hard to get involved. What’s others thoughts? "

There's actually a few decent women, look at pics read profiles. Some are delusional. Some rude. But overall most are actually decent women. I'd say on average. Takes a month to get use to app. Also how you speak despite the fact we all highly sexual. Most Women don't want to jump into the sexual conversation, I think they try to grasp intellect and safety. Some proper dik ed men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lucky in the past on here, but always delete accounts.

So Start again , no verifications but I enjoy the chase and I don't take it to seriously on here.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Verified or not, it’s generally tough for most guys in here.

There’s no magic formula to meeting folk, but you’ll help your cause if you…..

Get your profile bio on point.

Decent photo’s.

Read the profiles of the people you message.

Don’t use a scattergun approach.

Manage your expectations.

Consider getting yourself to a social event.

This pretty much nailed it.

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Also give your cock and balls a trim!

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