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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote

Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the pleasure of this once, it was an option that worked well as I was away with work. If you’re suggesting this and they don’t want to do it, then they may not have turned up to anything else organised

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

Stick to your ideals and have patience dont let others dictate how you swing , there will be plenty guys that go to clubs who would be happy to play by your rules

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

If I am going to a club I am happy to meet a couples there.

But as most clubs aren’t 100% single guys welcoming I am not going there too often and probably won’t go to a club just to meet one couple I chatted with here. I’d prefer first social meet for drink or coffee in a public place. Or hotel meet for safety reasons.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I like to meet a couple or single woman at a club. Depends if we get along or not if anything goes from there. Hell I'll even chat to single guys at a club, but that's as far as it goes with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happily meet with couple's at a club, some people feel safer meeting in a club and also if you don't hit it off with each other there's normally other people to chat with etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I’m not really interested in club meets.

I’ve been to clubs many times and had great nights at them. If there was one in my city (they’ve shut) I’d go to it but I’m not fussed about spending money on travelling, buying a membership, buying an entrance fee and if it is far a hotel plus everything else…

That’s just my take on it and why I don’t go to them.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"I have had the pleasure of this once, it was an option that worked well as I was away with work. If you’re suggesting this and they don’t want to do it, then they may not have turned up to anyt1hing else organised"

We did think that too.

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By *eardeddadbod91Man
over a year ago

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I have met a couple at a club and they were very welcoming and friendly, it was a very enjoyable experience as I went there just to check it out

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick what you are both comfortable with simple as that.

You may well find these guys have no idea of swinging lifestyle and like many view swinging couples as an easy 'mark' for sex (in their heads).

If they are serious and genuine they will meet you at a club. They also need to understand that a meet does not necessarily mean sex is on the menu.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Personally I’m not really interested in club meets.

I’ve been to clubs many times and had great nights at them. If there was one in my city (they’ve shut) I’d go to it but I’m not fussed about spending money on travelling, buying a membership, buying an entrance fee and if it is far a hotel plus everything else…

That’s just my take on it and why I don’t go to them.

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That's fare enough we appreciate your reply.

The guys we have been speaking to live a shout distance as we do to a club we suggested with an entrance fee but no membership needed.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

Probably got some internalised guilt about going to a ‘swingers club’. Either that or playing away.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


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If they are serious and genuine they will meet you at a club. They also need to understand that a meet does not necessarily mean sex is on the menu.

"

I am serious and genuine but I won’t necessarily agree to meet at a club. I might do but might not.

Doesn’t make me time waster at all.

I’ll try to suggest alternative options though. But I won’t push for these either. If we can’t find common ground for a meet - we should not meet.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

OK. I can maybe shed some insight here.

We don't meet single guys inside or outside of clubs. But we do go to clubs and have no fear of them.

However, we also play separately and I have no qualms about joining other couples (and have).

But I honestly have no real interest in meeting others in a club on my own be they a couple or single lady. I'd rather meet in private.

The problem with clubs is, other distractions are there. Others may want to join or observe or the people you go to meetmay decide they want to go off with others instead. Point in case, we went up once to meet a couple who decided they wanted to go off with a single lady they had been speaking to before we arrived. No skin off our backs but you get the point. People can change their mind at the club and thats fair.

But as a single guy it's costly.to get in just for.it to not work out in the end (and that happens and I respect that).

So I favour hotels or home meets. Can meet the party or parties in a bar on nuteral turf and go get a hotel room.with ease now if that's how things go or head back to theirs. I'm not left laying down £25 quid just to be left stood in the bar looking to join someone else in the spur of the moment.

That neither my style.nor thing.

So clubs are fine for my wife and I together but if im solo, preffer anywhere but.

Unless it's lots of.freinds there on the night that I know then that's a different matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put out a meet yesterday to meet a guy at a club & that's all I've had is they'd meet me somewhere else go to there house car meets even had guys asking can they come in the club & act like we,re a couple so he can get in for cheaper so I guess this type of behaviour happens to us all

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Stick what you are both comfortable with simple as that.

You may well find these guys have no idea of swinging lifestyle and like many view swinging couples as an easy 'mark' for sex (in their heads).

If they are serious and genuine they will meet you at a club. They also need to understand that a meet does not necessarily mean sex is on the menu.

"

Thank you for your advice and you are right, just because we are looking to meet its not a sure thing you will get anything we need to click first before anything happens.

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By *otandhardcouple2Couple
over a year ago

stockton

As others have said , stick to how you wish to meet/play etc, we used to always arrange meets privately but in the end got fed up of guys not turning up , worse still letting us down 5 mins before the arranged time etc.

We had never been to a club until a few months ago but now its our first thing on our mind when we wish to " play" , as if there is a " no show" then there are other guys at the club that might take our fancy if that makes sense, even if we don.t play at least we,ve had a great social night out.

Not saying all guys are like this, but we,ve found that the club scene works better for us.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

As it has been said a few clubs don’t really welcome single blokes on there own and is exspensive to get in but it’s your right to say where you want to meet maybe go to a pub first then onto a club so it’s safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met couples before in a club and it has usually been fine. We've all had a good time. The only time It hasn't been good is when the guy behaved like a director on a set.

"She won't want that. No oral. You not hard yet?"

I understand people have their own fantasies in mind and I was just a single guy, but a bit of courtesy both ways

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


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If they are serious and genuine they will meet you at a club. They also need to understand that a meet does not necessarily mean sex is on the menu.

Thank you for your advice and you are right, just because we are looking to meet its not a sure thing you will get anything we need to click first before anything happens. "

Dear OP, I suggest you go to a club like we all genuine people do. Set no expectation for sex just for nice time. Go when single guys are allowed and there will be plenty to speak and connect with.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views.

OK. I can maybe shed some insight here.

We don't meet single guys inside or outside of clubs. But we do go to clubs and have no fear of them.

However, we also play separately and I have no qualms about joining other couples (and have).

But I honestly have no real interest in meeting others in a club on my own be they a couple or single lady. I'd rather meet in private.

The problem with clubs is, other distractions are there. Others may want to join or observe or the people you go to meetmay decide they want to go off with others instead. Point in case, we went up once to meet a couple who decided they wanted to go off with a single lady they had been speaking to before we arrived. No skin off our backs but you get the point. People can change their mind at the club and thats fair.

But as a single guy it's costly.to get in just for.it to not work out in the end (and that happens and I respect that).

So I favour hotels or home meets. Can meet the party or parties in a bar on nuteral turf and go get a hotel room.with ease now if that's how things go or head back to theirs. I'm not left laying down £25 quid just to be left stood in the bar looking to join someone else in the spur of the moment.

That neither my style.nor thing.

So clubs are fine for my wife and I together but if im solo, preffer anywhere but.

Unless it's lots of.freinds there on the night that I know then that's a different matter.

"

Thank you for your insight it's very interesting to read your experience.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We only ever meet in clubs, it takes away entitlement to play if we don’t gel.

Also it’s a gauge, if you are confident to go to a club, you are usually open minded and up for fun.

Oh and our kids aren’t about… and they have dungeons and special fun rooms and one time at band camp.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do something similar, we will tell an interested single guy which club we are going to and tell them it's all up to them if they go or not. All we promise is that if they are there we will spend some time chatting with them in the hot tub.

What we have found is that we've done this about 5 or 6 times and every guy we have met like this has been respectful and know what boundaries are and been incredibly well behaved to the point that we played with them every single time except for one.

It's worked as a great filter for us, if they don't turn up then it's OK as we'll find others to talk to or play with.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"I put out a meet yesterday to meet a guy at a club & that's all I've had is they'd meet me somewhere else go to there house car meets even had guys asking can they come in the club & act like we,re a couple so he can get in for cheaper so I guess this type of behaviour happens to us all "

Yes it is starting to sound like that from your experience.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Being regular club goer and a single male, I’d have no issue meeting a couple in a club if we were chatting beforehand, but this would be solely on the basis if it were an event I was initially intending on going to anyway.

Call me cynical if you will, but I wouldn’t want to travel a certain distance, pay an entrance fee to a club solely to meet one couple and then it turns out I either get cancelled on at the last minute or we do not click.

A social meeting on neutral ground in the first instance would ideally be my preference in this sort of situation.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Why don't you just go to the club together as a couple, chat to single guys at the club. Win win! Like people have said, lots of different reasons for men not wanting to meet at clubs. Too expensive, nervous, not their thing. Don't worry, sadly there's a lot of timewasters and fantasists on here, it happens to all of us. Good luck and enjoy

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

A genuine guy with experience of going to a club should have absolutely no problem with a couple wanting to meet at a club…. I’d be happy to after all!

The issue you may have is that for single guys a club can be a very expensive and also daunting prospect if they haven’t attended before

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


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If they are serious and genuine they will meet you at a club. They also need to understand that a meet does not necessarily mean sex is on the menu.

Thank you for your advice and you are right, just because we are looking to meet its not a sure thing you will get anything we need to click first before anything happens.

Dear OP, I suggest you go to a club like we all genuine people do. Set no expectation for sex just for nice time. Go when single guys are allowed and there will be plenty to speak and connect with. "

We have been to said club a few times already but not found any guys there that we click with. To be honest they tend to follow you around but don't bother even speaking to you so how they think anything will happen I don't know.

We have found a few guys nice to chat to on FAB but shy out of a meet in a club.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"We only ever meet in clubs, it takes away entitlement to play if we don’t gel.

Also it’s a gauge, if you are confident to go to a club, you are usually open minded and up for fun.

Oh and our kids aren’t about… and they have dungeons and special fun rooms and one time at band camp."

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"We do something similar, we will tell an interested single guy which club we are going to and tell them it's all up to them if they go or not. All we promise is that if they are there we will spend some time chatting with them in the hot tub.

What we have found is that we've done this about 5 or 6 times and every guy we have met like this has been respectful and know what boundaries are and been incredibly well behaved to the point that we played with them every single time except for one.

It's worked as a great filter for us, if they don't turn up then it's OK as we'll find others to talk to or play with. "

Sounds Like you both have had good experiences doing things this way which is our ideal too.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Being regular club goer and a single male, I’d have no issue meeting a couple in a club if we were chatting beforehand, but this would be solely on the basis if it were an event I was initially intending on going to anyway.

Call me cynical if you will, but I wouldn’t want to travel a certain distance, pay an entrance fee to a club solely to meet one couple and then it turns out I either get cancelled on at the last minute or we do not click.

A social meeting on neutral ground in the first instance would ideally be my preference in this sort of situation.

"

Thank you for your input it's good to hear.

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Why don't you just go to the club together as a couple, chat to single guys at the club. Win win! Like people have said, lots of different reasons for men not wanting to meet at clubs. Too expensive, nervous, not their thing. Don't worry, sadly there's a lot of timewasters and fantasists on here, it happens to all of us. Good luck and enjoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put out a meet yesterday to meet a guy at a club & that's all I've had is they'd meet me somewhere else go to there house car meets even had guys asking can they come in the club & act like we,re a couple so he can get in for cheaper so I guess this type of behaviour happens to us all

Yes it is starting to sound like that from your experience. "

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"A genuine guy with experience of going to a club should have absolutely no problem with a couple wanting to meet at a club…. I’d be happy to after all!

The issue you may have is that for single guys a club can be a very expensive and also daunting prospect if they haven’t attended before"

We can understand it being daunting but hoped it would be easier knowing you were meeting a couple you've been chatting to before hand.

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By *heExcommMan
over a year ago

Llantrisant

I sadly can't do club meets even though I want to because I work during the events that happen

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"A genuine guy with experience of going to a club should have absolutely no problem with a couple wanting to meet at a club…. I’d be happy to after all!

The issue you may have is that for single guys a club can be a very expensive and also daunting prospect if they haven’t attended before

We can understand it being daunting but hoped it would be easier knowing you were meeting a couple you've been chatting to before hand. "

That’s a very valid point and if you’ve already built a rapport then this does sound like an ideal introduction to a club actually.

I wish I’d had that offer for my first visit… would certainly have helped my confidence!

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

I've been approached by couples and singles asking me to meet them at a club before and there was only one real thing putting me off and that's going in for my first time alone.

Dont get me wrong, I'm not shy and have been to saunas on my own. But there's something about clubs that make them appear as quite hetronormative and (this may well be just in my head) somewhere that is mainly tailored to m/f couple and single females.

So the idea of just turning up on the hope that me and a couple will gel at their regular club is a bit off putting, especially when I think about how awkward it may be if we don't click and I'm in an empty club with a couple who don't want my company

Again, this maybe all in my head but it's just the impression I have.

Had plenty of great social meets in the past, including ones that it had been made clear beforehand that it was only going to be purely social and like most people, I want to see if there's a genuine chemistry first and a click before anything could happen. So I'm not saying no to the club's in case it's not some sure thing (how out if date does that sound anyways?)

Also at my age, you don't expect to stand out as anything special in a club full of (imaginary or potential) 6-packs and monster cocks

We all carry insecurities - I guess that's why so many people require a constant stream of praise. But without it, those insecurities can play on your mind and us single guys are kinda considered bottom of the barrel to a lot of people too.

I think I'll wait until o e of my female friends fancies going and needs a wing-man for the night.

Besides this, as a bi curious guy (I'm curious about the ladies), I may make straight guys quite uncomfortable too.

Just my thoughts

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

I would happily meet a couple in a club, for two reasons;

1 - If you bottle it, at least there’s a glimmer of a chance I’ll get to chat with other people, instead of being stood up in a bar somewhere.

2 - I won’t visit a club without a prearranged meet inside, so it would actually get me back in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one should shoot you down you swing how you want to swing its nobody else concern ...stick to your guns we know other couples who arrange meets in clubs it can work but not all the time sometimes the guys will have thier heads turned by others in the club and forget they are there to meet a couple ... stick to your guns your rules your life

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Some will.. some won’t.

But did find when I (Mrs) was meeting on my own in clubs that there was a lot more eagerness to meet me alone than with my husband.

We also find more guys will meet us if they’re already club goers/members. But if not then it’s difficult to get that meet and do understand why with the logistics of cost etc and I always think it’s nerve wracking to meet a couple when on your own too. I’ve done it myself.

We mainly just go to the clubs and go with the flow now.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There are plenty of guys already in clubs pick a mixed night and go have a look..

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

What's your issue with meeting in a pub. It's a public place. Gives you a chance to chat and see how things go. I've met most people at pubs. Although one couple were happy and came to my house.

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By *gvdriver2Man
over a year ago

Highbridge

I do it quite often, it usually works out very well although you do get occasional let downs, but hey you're in a club take it on the chin and make the best of it.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

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You have nothing to be shot down for. Personally, clubs aren't my thing because my interests are sensual interludes within the confines of a comfortable hotel room.

Don't change your stance; I'm sure you will find that ever-elusive willing male.

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By *om cat 215Man
over a year ago

Derby

I'd meet at the attic daytime cinema x

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I suppose some me prefer the privacy of a private meets. Each to their own, naturally. But if a club meet us what you prefer, then I’m sure you will meet willing playmates. You looo delicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

As a couple who would be meeting single guys when we feel like it, we would be happy for meeting in a bar or even a coffee shop, rather than specifically a club. But that’s just is. Stick to what you want to do because there will be someone who is up for it in the end.

F (Mrs)

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes ..I definitely would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly wouldn’t object to meeting a couple. Love mmf meets

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By *oungNfun1997Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I've been a club once and really enjoyed it so definitely want to go back, but with how expensive it is for us single guys and being busy with other things I haven't had the right opportunity since

Being asked to meet a couple that I'm chatting with at a club is the excuse I'm looking for to finally go again, as for me it take the pressure off meeting the couple by myself and also ensure I have someone to chat to when there! If things work out for me and couple then we are all happy, but if not then they and me are in the perfect environment to continue enjoying the evening

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Butlins Minehead (for the weekend)


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

We are very lucky as we have 2 clubs that are only a 30min drive away. We do mostly stick to clubs as we can't accommodate and have limited free time, so if they flake (this tends to happen a lot with single guys) we haven't wasted a night.

We may occasionally make an exception, but only for very well verified people, (preferably with mutual friends) as we have been let down with private meets we were considering travelling a fair distance for too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views. "

I think that any guys on here should be happy to meet yous in a club if that's what yous want x in fact i would imagine that the queue would be a mile long as yous seem like a nice genuine couple xx the ones that don't want to go to the club are not singing off the same hymmm sheet as yous xx im sure that it won't be long until the queue ends in Glasgow lol xxx good luck x

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By *ntopofyou OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swadlincote


"Interesting to hear your thoughts.

We have chatted to few guys over the last few weeks and seem to get on well. As soon as we say we would be interested in a meet at a club for their and our safety they make their excuses and that's that. It would be our first time meeting in a club and we would feel safer and probably enjoy it more in a club.

Please don't shoot us down we are still learning but are happy to hear your views.

I think that any guys on here should be happy to meet yous in a club if that's what yous want x in fact i would imagine that the queue would be a mile long as yous seem like a nice genuine couple xx the ones that don't want to go to the club are not singing off the same hymmm sheet as yous xx im sure that it won't be long until the queue ends in Glasgow lol xxx good luck x "

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

For me (Mr) when meeting couplea alone clubs are ideal place for me. Clubs are a nice, risk free environment where I am comfortable in. They offer great flexibility to take the night as chemistry dictates in a safe neutral space.

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