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how rough do you like it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my current partner is pushing my boundaries on rough sex....

how rough do you women like it. how how much is too much ?

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever had one guy in my life that could give me rough how I liked. but then it wasn't the sort of rough you could do with someone without trust

I can't even really say on here how rough but even on normal sex I find most guys can't be hard enough on me

Cali

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

about 60 grit

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having my hair pulled, love being called names whilst in the throws of passion like being cuffed etc

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By *razysexyladyWoman
over a year ago

hull

Depends on who I'm with. I have a buddy I've known for years who I trust with my life, who can throw me around like a rag doll, choke me, and be very very rough, pulling my hair gard, calling me names, biting and forcing his cock down my throat til I gag. But then with people I don't really know, just a little spanking and hair pulling. so there's different limits depending on who I'm with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on who I'm with. I have a buddy I've known for years who I trust with my life, who can throw me around like a rag doll, choke me, and be very very rough, pulling my hair gard, calling me names, biting and forcing his cock down my throat til I gag. But then with people I don't really know, just a little spanking and hair pulling. so there's different limits depending on who I'm with "

Same here. Although the more I get to know a person the more I let them do to me. I need to know that they're experienced with spanking/whips/canes/clamps etc before I go down that avenue with them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I thought the thread was about sandpaper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For most roughness correlates with trust ..

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By *razysexyladyWoman
over a year ago

hull


"Depends on who I'm with. I have a buddy I've known for years who I trust with my life, who can throw me around like a rag doll, choke me, and be very very rough, pulling my hair gard, calling me names, biting and forcing his cock down my throat til I gag. But then with people I don't really know, just a little spanking and hair pulling. so there's different limitse depending on who I'm with

Same here. Although the more I get to know a person the more I let them do to me. I need to know that they're experienced with spanking/whips/canes/clamps etc before I go down that avenue with them."

Definatelt! Its all about trust. The longer you are with/sleeping with/fucking someone ... The more trust is earned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hubbys got a lovelly leather strap and yes he can use it whilst i am gagging on his cock

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"I thought the thread was about sandpaper."

me too, but I draw the line at the angle grinder

Wolf

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"about 60 grit

Wolf

"

Smooth answer.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off. "

does nothing for me either

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off.

does nothing for me either"

Nice to know I'm not alone. I was actually meaning the guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately still haven't had it as rough as I'd like

Hubby isn't up for it like that. So am working on it with my FB, wanting the bondage, hair pulling, spanking and gagging. But obviously has to be with someone that's comfortable with it & that you trust- don't think I could arrange it as a first or even second meet off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off. "

I'm with you on that one, sensual and passionate works for me everytime, each to their own tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont like it rough, not much fun having sore tits and fanny afterwards.

light spanking is ok.

i have to be careful as i have sensitive skin.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

I'd much prefer to kiss a girl from head- to-toe, than go to work making her ass look like it's gone ten rounds, with Rocky!

But, then, that's just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my current partner is pushing my boundaries on rough sex....

how rough do you women like it. how how much is too much ?

x"

Like it but its a very fine line and needs to be based in passion rather than pain for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd much prefer to kiss a girl from head- to-toe, than go to work making her ass look like it's gone ten rounds, with Rocky!

But, then, that's just me "

See, but I go for that side of things too. Yes, I like it rough as hell sometimes, but othertimes it's really good to just spend a lot of time exploring each other, touching, licking, tasting every part of the other person before having physically and mentally mind-blowing sex.

I tend to stay away from sex like that on here though, as I'm a sucker for letting emotions creep in if somebody is really tender with me

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off.

does nothing for me either

Nice to know I'm not alone. I was actually meaning the guys though

"

Its a mix and match, time for sensual fun, and time for primal, animistic filth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

somewhere between a gyppo and a tramp

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off.

does nothing for me either

Nice to know I'm not alone. I was actually meaning the guys though

Its a mix and match, time for sensual fun, and time for primal, animistic filth... "

I prefer sensual filth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it very rough - never met a guy from here who was rough enough - I guess it's difficult to gauge how rough to be with a new meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it very rough - never met a guy from here who was rough enough - I guess it's difficult to gauge how rough to be with a new meet xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer lots of kissing and touching, just pure passion really, hearing a guy enjoying what we`re doing is a huge turn on too for me·

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him "Would you allow me to whip you?"

Me "Would you allow me to punch you in the mouth?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For most roughness correlates with trust .."

I like hubby to be a little rough with me. Hair pulling in the throes of passion, spanking, nibbling etc but this isn't every time ... it's just that as I have to be quite controlling in my life, I like him to take control sometimes. However, I would never allow anyone but him to dominate me in that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off. "

Same here although i do not mind doing a bit of light spanking/hair pulling if the lady requests it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends then on whether you having sex or making love i guess??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my current partner is pushing my boundaries on rough sex....

how rough do you women like it. how how much is too much ?

x"

To be fair my advice to you is this. Only go as far as your happy to go. I enjoyed what I did with someone that equally enjoyed it. So part of my thrill was his enjoyment.

You have to be very careful as even with you both consenting you can find yourself in bother depending on any marks left.

Good luck

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends then on whether you having sex or making love i guess??"

Do you mean that violent sex cannot be making love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with my hubby is always making love .. no matter how rough or gentle/sensual it is. It is because we love each other that we feel empowered enough to try new things with each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends then on whether you having sex or making love i guess??

Do you mean that violent sex cannot be making love? "

I think many people think that. I know with my

Last relationship I never felt more loved during sex and even our tender sessions would be on the rough side.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he doesn't do me any permanent damage, he can be as rough as he likes as long as he's prepared for a fight! Play fighting is so much fun and I find myself in stitches laughing through most of it!

crystal x

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

My missus tells all the single dom guys we meet exactly the same thing - as long as I can walk and i'm not bleeding then anything goes.

Is that rough enough for you?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I seem to be in the minority on here - much prefer the sensual side to sex. The rough stuff doesn't really do it for me. I don't really get 'off' on seeing, say a girl gagging on my cock. If anything I find it turns me off. "

Same here

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"It depends then on whether you having sex or making love i guess??"

Nah, just cause it's rougher than some would like (including myself) doesn't mean there's less "making love" involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike rough sex and I stop any guy who tries to do this with me.

I do not like my breasts mauled and my lady bits mangled.

Sensual sex is what I like and a soft touch

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