FabSwingers.com forum: Distance or local meets ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd feel far more comfortable with a distance meet and they don't know anyone you know . You guys? What's your reasons

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We don’t really mind either way, but local is obviously easier for convenience.

A nice horny weekend away is great though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all a small world! Distance is less important than finding the right person/people

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I have a connection with someone then it wouldn't matter if they were local or distant x

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

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By *flkfunseekerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I’d like to experience a long distance meet, good excuse for a nice hotel and to meet different people

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off."

Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x

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By *flkfunseekerMan
over a year ago

Norwich

And after seeing Naughty2Yorks profile I’d like to go Leeds haha

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Gotta be local for us (unless it's a club night).

Don't drive and cant always do weekends away so need to keep ourselves within a reasonable taxi range.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"If I have a connection with someone then it wouldn't matter if they were local or distant x"

So how does one connect with you

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Local every time for us, can’t be doing long distance too much organising

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"

Im guessing either 1 or both parties drive in this scenario. I'm not saying it's impossible. Just my experience is any distance over 10miles really isn't gonna work for consistent repeat visits.. For me at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always local for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local only for me! I will not travel far or allow someone else to travel far to meet me.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Depends on the person for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for local or distance enjoy a nice hotel away for a weekend or few days try different places

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't do too local, I'd say upto a hour traveling unless there was a great connection then maybe further.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"

So true, my fwb was in America and we still made it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my playmates lived nearly 6 hours drive/train away in Liverpool

Absolutely worth the travel!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it would be nice to have a meet not having much luck on here

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Most of the people i meet are from away. Not by choice. It is what it is.

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By *incpl40sCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

As soon as we walk in to the hotel in London we are locals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy either way to be honest as I cover what feels like half of the UK for work.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

No preference really.

Make me laugh (& offer cake) then I'll be there

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Goldilocks answer - near enough it can be regular if suits, far enough away you’re not bumping into them at the corner shop in scruff order!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away,

then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

Agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away,

then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

Agree with this."

Me too!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Goldilocks answer - near enough it can be regular if suits, far enough away you’re not bumping into them at the corner shop in scruff order!

this lol

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Doesn't matter to me. I had a meet in York once which gave me an opportunity to make a weekend of it and look around somewhere I'd never been before. City break with a bonus!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Goldilocks answer - near enough it can be regular if suits, far enough away you’re not bumping into them at the corner shop in scruff order!

this lol "

In saying that there is maybe 1 or 2 or more id make an exception for and travel far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x"

Allowed to travel this way if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x

Allowed to travel this way if you want

If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?

Miss S x

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x

Allowed to travel this way if you want

If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?

Miss S x"

Well, now that i've actually double checked... that sucks..

Still had to be said lol

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I will happily drive/travel an hour but anything further tends to be a pain.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

All about connections, have driven over an hour many times too meet up with people who wanted to meet with, and people have done the same too come to mine. depends what you mean by distance!

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I travelled from the midlands all over the country with my ex and to north wales weekly for a year for my exFWB often managed to get work to assign jobs in the area so I could stay over. We were then active as a couple in the Chester area, however a FWB in London won me over, so parted amicably from Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always up for local, that way if its enjoyed enough there is more chance for more regular meets.

If it's away, then you'd be making it a once in a blue moon thing or even only a once off.

Not necessarily...my fwb lives a distance away but we see each other on a regular basis. When it's good both parties make the effort x"

Totally agree have fwb arrangements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can travel many hours just for work so why should fun be any different ? Do all you guys just work locally ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x

Allowed to travel this way if you want

If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?

Miss S x"

Made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I could say is a local meet. Because I know where everything is in my area.

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By *HICKCHOCMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Local or distance

I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can travel many hours just for work so why should fun be any different ? Do all you guys just work locally ?"

I work from home haha but yeah I wouldn’t travel for NSA!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I prefer to travel as no desire to bang into my children or anyone else I know whilst on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a weekend away end of September/Oct time if anyone's interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always happy to accom

At my highland retreat

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Either is good, but clearly the more distance between the more organisation and time is required.

Local is more practical for short notice or repeat meets.

As ever it's the other party that is the more important factor than the miles in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course but when it’s worth that effort and can make a weekend of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

either is ok with me. I've actually travelled 5 hours to meet a lady. was absolutely worth the drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"either is ok with me. I've actually travelled 5 hours to meet a lady. was absolutely worth the drive

Have flown to meet playmates as have they

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

If I can make a weekend or longer from it then I don't mind the distance.. But as someone else said.. Something more short term or regular I personally feel more local is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make a weekend or longer from it then I don't mind the distance.. But as someone else said.. Something more short term or regular I personally feel more local is better"

Yeah convient

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I (Luke) think I'd want a bit of a distance because I want meeting up to be a bit special. I wouldn't want somebody close by wanting to meet up more than we do because that could be a bit awkward. I have the love of my life here. The swinging is a bonus and something to enjoy on occasion rather than all the time.

Having spent a long time on here looking for those elusive couples we click with, the singles and couples we have met over the years make us realise that some people are worth planning, waiting and travelling to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer local, not too local that you'll bump into them with their partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer someone 10-20 miles away. Less chance of bumping into them in Asda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a small world everywhere, but I'd be cautiousish about the local town. It's a very small world round here.

Long long distance? I've been 5 hours each way once, and it was an amazing meet.....but funnily enough a couple of girls have travelled further to me and honestly one was just not quite "110%" for either of us and on the other we didn't even play.....no spark at all in the flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I have a connection with someone then it wouldn't matter if they were local or distant x"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Local ish only for me

As I only meet socially first I wouldn't let anyone travel too far to me ,or travel too far myself.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We don’t mind either way. Our nearest club is reasonably close by, we will travel to socials and make a weekend of it.

The person I’d most like to meet is 8 hours away and one day I’d like to think we can arrange something

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally it would be local for me. I have very little free time and a good woman with an insatiable apatite to keep satisfied. I have a have local club so most of my rare solo activity is there on an opportunistic basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer to go further a-field

Miss S x

Allowed to travel this way if you want

If you have a glance over our profile, what do you think?

Miss S x

Made me chuckle

I don't normally.. but I just had too

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hours drive or less, dont mind if local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to like distance but now I like nearer as work takes up most of my time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20/30 miles is fine don't really like very local meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy covering a long distance as long as there's a mutual meeting point. Equal effort

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