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Advice - In Law Attraction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all, so looking for genuine advice, I have found that I have a strong attraction to an in law, she is married to my brother, over the past few years we have always got along and I feel like I get a different side to her comparing to everyone else, we regularly stay in touch via WhatsApp etc and she seems to call me quite frequently for advice or help with certain things, when alone we have had a few moments of close contact and it feels like there is something there, I really want to advance on my thoughts and from what I read from it but how do I openly discuss this with her without the risk of her running a mile back to my sibling? I do really think she wants the same but waiting for my first move but unsure how to take it, we have a family holiday abroad imminently and I thought this could be an opportunity to open up maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats more important, banging her. Or staying in contact with your brother?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats more important, banging her. Or staying in contact with your brother?"

Well obviously I wany both, I would like to create a ongoing casual arrangement with her which nobody needs to know about, I just feel like I need to atleast attempt as it is constantly on my mind and fantasys

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Hey all, so looking for genuine advice, I have found that I have a strong attraction to an in law, she is married to my brother, over the past few years we have always got along and I feel like I get a different side to her comparing to everyone else, we regularly stay in touch via WhatsApp etc and she seems to call me quite frequently for advice or help with certain things, when alone we have had a few moments of close contact and it feels like there is something there, I really want to advance on my thoughts and from what I read from it but how do I openly discuss this with her without the risk of her running a mile back to my sibling? I do really think she wants the same but waiting for my first move but unsure how to take it, we have a family holiday abroad imminently and I thought this could be an opportunity to open up maybe?"

Sure, go ahead. I sure she's not treating you like a brother and I'm 100% positive you won't destroy any relationship you have with your brother or family by trying it on.

Wise up. She's your sister in law. You don't gothere. At all...ever.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Oh never mind...just seen you don't care. Says it all.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Whats more important, banging her. Or staying in contact with your brother?"

Couldn't of said it better come on man

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I'll give the same answer to your same post in the Lounge..cool it,it'll only end in tears.

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By *unnyPairCouple
over a year ago

Seminole

Dumb

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By *lim_funMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge


"Oh never mind...just seen you don't care. Says it all."

Fuck it then, burn the bridges. Just be prepared for shit to hit the fan

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By *lacky40Man
over a year ago

wakefield

This really critical issue but personally don't try it family come first. If doesn't work it might break your family if work one day it will break your family. Blood is thicker than water don't break your brothers heart just sex

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Oh never mind...just seen you don't care. Says it all.

Fuck it then, burn the bridges. Just be prepared for shit to hit the fan "

Oh it will and it will hit hard. Seen it happen more than once.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Have a bit of effing decency and learn that there is a need for values in life - just because you can do something it doesn't mean that you should!

In your profile you use the terms 'corteous', 'respectful', 'gentleman', yet you're even considering this. Grow up and realise that just because you have a cock you'd don't have to put it everywhere.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'll give the same answer to your same post in the Lounge..cool it,it'll only end in tears. "

I too have posted on your other thread

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Stay friends, it always lasts and flirting more fun when you don't taste the forbidden fruit.

Fuck her and its over. No more fun, the guilt and no hiding your two's betrayal.

You'll not only feel but will be the lesser man.

But then you might be a wanker, so fuck her and get all the shit you deserve.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Tempting as it may be, not a good idea, if she is willing to cheat with you then she will with others, and if one day they split the chance of angry words like "and I fucked your brother" may come out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been mentioned in the lounge, don't fuck your sister in law!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ud really want to do the dirty on your brother? Jeezo what kind of guy are you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ud really want to do the dirty on your brother? Jeezo what kind of guy are you! "

Right?

The fact it says "I am highly tentative and courteous towards each individual or couple"

Doesn't really seem like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see a little boy who is jealous of the attention his mummy gave to his brother and not to him.

Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe.

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By *arko2020Man
over a year ago

Sale

Respectfully, you appear to be thinking with the wrong head.

Just don't go there...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Who needs enemies with a brother like you

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Assuming you posted again hoping for different answers….my answer still the same as the other one and agreeing with the other replies, don’t go there.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Kinda makes you a bit of a douchbag to even be considering doing that to your brother. There really are some wrong uns on here.

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax


"Whats more important, banging her. Or staying in contact with your brother?

Well obviously I wany both, I would like to create a ongoing casual arrangement with her which nobody needs to know about, I just feel like I need to atleast attempt as it is constantly on my mind and fantasys"

FANTASY , and that's where it should stay!!!!. When your brother finds out and trust me he will eventually it will break your whole family. How would you feel if your brother fucked your wife behind your back and what would you do about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats more important, banging her. Or staying in contact with your brother?

Well obviously I wany both, I would like to create a ongoing casual arrangement with her which nobody needs to know about, I just feel like I need to atleast attempt as it is constantly on my mind and fantasys

FANTASY , and that's where it should stay!!!!. When your brother finds out and trust me he will eventually it will break your whole family. How would you feel if your brother fucked your wife behind your back and what would you do about that."

100% this...

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By *J2020Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Just make sure when you see your bro next , ask him how he is , then punch him in the throat and kick him in the nuts ….. you know , go out of your way to really ruin his life and then tell him your mum doesn’t really love him and that he is adopted .

I can’t believe you’d even ask / think of it .

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

Giver her a portion, she'll be fine.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Who needs enemies with a brother like you "

True that

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By *y gameMan
over a year ago

open wide

Fuck her who cares, you are the most important person, your needs matter most, he's only a brother you can get another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it a fantasy. Don't act on it. It will destroy your family.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

This could escalate .. who's next on the hit list

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