FabSwingers.com forum: Simplest things that turn you OFF

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That sense that your being gently coersed in subtle suggestive ways. Like a sexy eye look, or attempt at seductive caress or a cheeky remark that if you object to then you're being a prude.

Basically I'm the one who wants to get horny because it feels right not because someone wants me to.

Immediate stop when that happens.

Jane

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By *iren!Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Ear nibbling, lol can't stand someone sucking/licking my ears. I keep them clean and for some reason it makes me cringe and start to feel like I need to clean them asap

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The second any kink gear comes out I’m ready for a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes without saying but bad hygiene. Dirty nails... Bad breath.

Demands... Don't do them either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweaty smells!!!!

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By *heif6999Man
over a year ago

malton

People that love themselves

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hygiene, someone so far up their own backside god's gift

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Jaffa Cakes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Licking my face, yes it's been done in the past and almost resulted in a slap. That and touching my ears.

Mrs

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Arrogance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above: arrogance/bad attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ear nibbling, lol can't stand someone sucking/licking my ears. I keep them clean and for some reason it makes me cringe and start to feel like I need to clean them asap"

100% this for me. Just makes me squirm and feel ewwww

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Any sign of a strap on and you wont see me for dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who refer to themselves as hung or bulls....

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Bad teeth ,Gammy feet, Poor personal hygiene in anyway actually

Bad Attitude and rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad feet . No nail vanish etc straight turn off. Bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When his misses phones/texts to see where he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they go near my bootyhole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumptions

Any hint that they are not listening to/ignoring a boundary

The obvious hygiene etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Assumptions

Any hint that they are not listening to/ignoring a boundary

The obvious hygiene etc

Good hygiene or bad hygiene? Didn’t want to assume so I thought I’d ask

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Smoking/vaping/420

We are really not judging you for it either. The whole look, smell and taste of it is just a huge turn off for us.

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

"Jaffa Cakes

You cannot be serious there yummy

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

People leaving their socks on when otherwise naked

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Smelling like an ash tray

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Jaffa Cakes

You cannot be serious there yummy

It’s lucky you’re not a female, or I’d be getting my bendy ruler out now

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Smoking. Don't know why but it's a total turn off seeing someone smoke. And if I can taste it kissing puts me off.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

It is smoking for us too. It is an instant put off.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Arrogance x"

Yep, same here.

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Men with long nails

Bad teeth

Drugs

But my absolute no go.....leaving socks on...

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By *uckslut888Woman
over a year ago

Loughborough

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

Old blokes who post supposedly smartarse comments in the fora*

* or forums-both the strict Latin plural or the Anglicized version are acceptable

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By *uckslut888Woman
over a year ago

Loughborough

"That sense that your being gently coersed in subtle suggestive ways. Like a sexy eye look, or attempt at seductive caress or a cheeky remark that if you object to then you're being a prude.

Basically I'm the one who wants to get horny because it feels right not because someone wants me to.

Immediate stop when that happens.

Jane "

100%

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By *ccllWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham

Long finger nails, they freak me out

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By *ell 192Man
over a year ago

darlington

Great profile pic, the total opposite of what we are talking about! Soz off the subject but has to be said

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Being told what to wear

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Being told what to wear"

Even if it is " just a smile " ?

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

As mentioned previously….poor hygiene is definately a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usernames or profiles with any reference to 50 shades/Christian Grey!

Anyone “threatening” to ruin the wife - lol!

Single men with pics of females on profile!

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Smokers ! Yukity yuk !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People leaving their socks on when otherwise naked

What is that about?

One of my pet hates

Missy x

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

"People leaving their socks on when otherwise naked

What is that about?

One of my pet hates

Missy x"

Maybe they have athletes foot or veruca

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Being told what to wear

Even if it is " just a smile " ?

That's the worst one

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Being told what to wear

Even if it is " just a smile " ?

That's the worst one"

Noted

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Women who stick their tongue out when posing for pics. Leave the 90's behind.

And those silly pouty lips while we're at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't bite! Unless you ask me too hehe"

Calm down Victoria, it's a dating app!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Pushy people, people who think because they have said hello they think they are in for play (in clubs). People who want to meet but then are terrible with communication, keeping in contact. Surely communicating is paramount to a great meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usernames or profiles with any reference to 50 shades/Christian Grey!

Anyone “threatening” to ruin the wife - lol!

Single men with pics of females on profile!

Shit

But my second name is Grey so forgive me

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By *aughtyPuppyMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

Males who call themselves dom or heavy cummers...and bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got to be bad personal hygiene for us

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who call themselves Bulls or Some grade of Dom (didn’t know there was a Dom college!)

Seeing a guy have a cheeky ass crack itch, turns my stomach!

Smoking - Vaping doesn’t bother me

Arrogance

Scruffy is a massive turn off

Big untidy beards - that’s it, where’s my pyjamas - I’m done! lol

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By *KentMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Poor hygiene! If we’ve arranged a meet, surely it’s just common sense to have a shower beforehand?!

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"People leaving their socks on when otherwise naked

What is that about?

One of my pet hates

Missy x"

There are a few excellent videos on Fab that are totally ruined by the guys wearing socks! I mean why?

Seen loads of people on here talk about poor hygiene and BO

is that really a thing? Cannot fathom why anyone wouldn’t have a good wash etc before a hot date? People really do that? Turn up smelly?

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Seen loads of people on here talk about poor hygiene and BO

is that really a thing? Cannot fathom why anyone wouldn’t have a good wash etc before a hot date? People really do that? Turn up smelly?"

BO is bad enough but a few of my female friends over years have had some cheesy cocks. I mean how hard is it to wash your old fella, can even be done in the sink in the gents.

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

One thing that turns the wife off (which in turn turns me off) are guys who think that a long dick is all they need to get action from my wife. This has included a guy who just sat with his legs in the pool dipping his willy in the water like he was fishing, or the guy who spent the whole night wa in his tidler around like a worm in a glory hole.

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