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"I thought anal sex was something that deserved some communication first. No? Why is it, the last two guys I’ve been with have tried to just force it in, mid session, no words spoken about it, and then acted wounded when I was annoyed and asked them to stop? Am I wrong? I’m starting to feel like I need to hand out laminated lists of rules now…. ![]() ![]() I would hazard a guess at it being polite to ask before to knock on said back door ![]() | |||
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"Maybe he said it so quietly you didn't hear haha "am going in" " not funny! | |||
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" Am I wrong? I’m starting to feel like I need to hand out laminated lists of rules now…. ![]() ![]() Do you get to keep the laminated fuck list as a coaster afterwards? ![]() | |||
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"Maybe he said it so quietly you didn't hear haha "am going in" not funny!" I was just making light of the situation didn't mean anything bad by it | |||
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"I had this a while back. Difference being, he went in anyway ![]() Right? Do they get confused?!! I’m not so naive I actually think they do. I’m so staggered, and trying not to take it really personally as a sign of a complete absence of respect for me | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand " I will now ![]() | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand I will now ![]() Your a very beautiful woman so your going to get a lot of attention even from people who will try and take advantage of the situation unfortunately | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand " You shouldn't need to. Anal sex is just like hopping in a cab after a night out and wondering whether the driver had a busy night... YOU ALWAYS ASK! ![]() | |||
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"Fabbers are usually big on clear communication. So ladies, communicate that anal is off the table " So no anal on top of the table? Noted. | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand You shouldn't need to. Anal sex is just like hopping in a cab after a night out and wondering whether the driver had a busy night... YOU ALWAYS ASK! ![]() You talk a lot of sense. | |||
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"Fabbers are usually big on clear communication. So ladies, communicate that anal is off the table " But they shouldn't have to. What is wrong with some men that they think they can do what they want without consent? | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand You shouldn't need to. Anal sex is just like hopping in a cab after a night out and wondering whether the driver had a busy night... YOU ALWAYS ASK! ![]() Are you going to try the leaving it to chance tactic with guy number 3? | |||
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"Fabbers are usually big on clear communication. So ladies, communicate that anal is off the table But they shouldn't have to. What is wrong with some men that they think they can do what they want without consent?" If a woman is having sex with someone then she absolutely should have to communicate her absolute no gos | |||
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"If you really don’t like it, tell them beforehand You shouldn't need to. Anal sex is just like hopping in a cab after a night out and wondering whether the driver had a busy night... YOU ALWAYS ASK! ![]() No, I’ve already said ‘I will now’ in response to your previous message about this. | |||
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"Ok cool. Laminated list and serious pre sex discussion with frowning, it will have to be ![]() Can we get a copy of the laminated list? | |||
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"Ok cool. Laminated list and serious pre sex discussion with frowning, it will have to be ![]() Perhaps try the same with a strap on, seriously I think there is to much influence from porn films. People should learn to communicate and try seduction | |||
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"Ok cool. Laminated list and serious pre sex discussion with frowning, it will have to be ![]() I think you should just save both you and your partners time and invest in a shock collar for him to wear. T&C's of sex with you, no shock collar, no rumpy pumpy. Cuts out all the boring pre play rule lectures because now, if he does anything you don't like... ZAP ![]() | |||
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"Ok cool. Laminated list and serious pre sex discussion with frowning, it will have to be ![]() Absolutely, Sunshine. There will be a £10 admin fee though ![]() | |||
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"Ok cool. Laminated list and serious pre sex discussion with frowning, it will have to be ![]() ![]() Admin fee god dam what about a free sample? | |||
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"I had this a while back. Difference being, he went in anyway ![]() I was agreeing with you. And sharing a very unfortunate incident from a couple of years ago. I should have gone to the police, as it was most certainly r@pe, in my view. However, the thought of having my phone taken into evidence put me off. | |||
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"I had this a while back. Difference being, he went in anyway ![]() I’m so sorry something like this occurred. I hope you have had the opportunity to properly process and try and deal with this. | |||
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"I had this a while back. Difference being, he went in anyway ![]() Ach, I'm fine. Thank you. It was a while ago. Once the pain went & I talked it through with a good friend & made my decision not to report him, I moved on. Nothing like that has ever happened since, he was obviously a bad 'un. ![]() | |||
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"I had this a while back. Difference being, he went in anyway ![]() ![]() I’m glad you are OK. Hopefully Karma or the Universe will sort him out. Peace and Respect ![]() | |||
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"Wah, well what do you think would happen meeting total strangers on a sex site. Hearts n flowers? You were lucky they didn't bring their mates as well to fuck you. You take chances on here and its no different than real life meeting people away from here. You never know what shit your meeting til you do. You are here on your own so be careful. " Meh! If you facetime/chat/social first, and/or only at a club then it's at least damage/danger limitations. Less chance of something going wrong when on a home meet you have someone's phone number, reg plate/photo, and pass those details on to someone else too... Just because it's a 'sex site' doesn't equal anyone having to be stupid!... I did more risky behaviour back in my early twenties jumping in a taxi back to a total randomers house after a night out than I've ever done on here to be honest ![]() | |||
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